Kensak, you are more than welcome
Having taken the time to post a polite enquiry, it's the least I could do.
Good points Morghast and SD, there is an auto-refuse mod out there (name escapes me for the moment).
I think it's fairly rare to be in one guild for the whole length of your stay in WoW. Most people don't have that good an idea of what the game holds for them when they create their first character, and their goals can change rapidly (especially at the level cap).
My main has been in 4 guilds in a little over 13 months and, in retrospect, they follow a fairly predictable pattern
1.
Random whispers: u wanna join my guild?
This happens a lot when you're unguilded at lower levels. I think I accepted the invitation to <Shadowlord's Society> because I knew one of their members, but mainly because... well, why not? If you don't like it, /gquit. The guild equivalent of a pug in many ways, lasted from 18-30 or so, when the 12 or so members went their separate ways.
2. *Phone rings*
RLBuddy: We're all /gquitting and starting our own guild, you're in right? I rolled on Silvermoon because that's where my RL buddies were. Given the option of a shiny new guild with my 10 or so RL mates, I leapt at it (I'd been guildless a while, and my mates were all dissatisfied in their own guilds). This lasted me 'till 60 and beyond, with lots of good times.
However, even though I started months after my friends, I was the second person to ding 60 in <Thorium Dogs>. The first guy to ding 60 started leveling another toon fairly soon, but I found I couldn't let go of my main. I wanted to keep playing him, and seeing new things, and doing exciting stuff.
Raiding, basically. So, to do what I wanted to do, I had to look for another guild.
3.
"A guild that raids" As opposed to a raid guild. I didn't feel I could just step from 10 man Scholo pugs to BWL and TAQ. For a start, I didn't have any experience in a 'proper' raid environment, and more importantly, all the big raid guilds seemed kind of scary, with their dkp, enforced raid times and what have you.
During my interminable Scholo/Strat/UBRS period, I'd met a couple of great guys in a large friendly guild, that also did MC and Ony, AQ20 and ZG. All the guys they introduced me to were pleasant people, the guild leadership was fair and honest. For a while, things were great (guild first kill on Raggy, that kind of thing) until the serpent arrived in the garden :p
A few key people quit to join hardcore guilds; a long summer break; trying to motivate people for long expensive nights of BWL wipes all added up. Eventually, most of the people who'd put in the effort to get MC on farm status quit, leaving the leader with a lot of work to do. I still wanted to see and do more.
4.
A Raid guild Why try and kid myself? Raiding is what I loved most about the end game, so I took the plunge, did my research, and applied to the guild I'm currently in. Having fun, doing what I enjoy, and looking forward to more of the same in TBC, with a bunch of guys and girls who aren't afraid to put in some effort.
I'm sure a lot of people recognise the sorts of guilds I mentioned here
This was all to show that what you think you want at the beginning, may not be what you look for at the end. If you're like me, you'll end up spending a lot of time in WoW.: it might as well be spent enjoying yourself.
Yaya, tldr, I know
you philistines E