attack, attack, attack.
by this, i mean be forward, be assertive, and be confident. make it know that you care deeply for his daughter and that this caring for her is all that matters to you.
a sense of humor helps. when he asks what you do, say "im a pre-med major". when he says he doesnt like doctors (or pre-meds, whatever) say "thats fine, neither do i" or "pssh, at least you dont have to work with them!" and chuckle a bit. dont be afraid to poke a bit of fun at yourself, but dont go overboard with it. being a bit (just a bit) self-deprecating can often be a good thing, as long as its done sparingly and with good humor.
give him a firm handshake and a good look in the eye. ask questions about what he does for a living and relate stories of what youve done to him if he seems receptive.
above all, dont be cowed, but dont be disrespectful either. youre in their house, so a level of deference is called for. hes the alpha wolf, but youre no omega...youre your own man, so stand firm on whats important to you and as long as you do it in a respectful way you should be ok.
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Be honest. If she's any sort of a decent person, she won't care at all what her parents think if you treat her well and will not hurt her without good reason. Tell her parents your intentions if they ask - that you care for their daughter and will spend the time and effort to see where it might take you, but nothing beyond that. Marriage is a no-no, or break-ups, or anything. Just tell them - only if they ask - that she is important to you and you will do your best. If they ask for more than that, well, that's their own loss.
this is also good. ive been asked the "marriage" question by a lot of people. my response is "i love my girlfriend, and she loves me. what will be, will be." granted, you may not want to use "love" in this context, but something like "i care very much about your daughter, and she cares for me. what will be, will be." would probably suit you in this instance.
Edited, Jan 2nd 2007 9:59pm by Quor