Ok, Ill put in my 2 cents here, but I will be prepared to cower under my desk too...
I came from FFXI recently to WoW. But I also bought EQ2 on the release date, and have played both.
I came here today to try to read threads on where the fun is in WoW, or things that can lead me into the direction of fun, because I seem to be missing it.
WoW to me, seems like a kiddie MMORPG. And Im not saying this because of the graphics. Just the whole feel of the guys with the exclamation points over their heads. The fact that I've only died once, and most of the time, never even come close to dying. The fact that the only penalty for dying was having to run back to my corpse in complete safety. To me, it feels like MMORPGs for dummies.
I've seen people above talk about how interesting the quests are, but EQ2s seem more interesting to me. Also, the quest text 'scrolls' across the screen at a pace that a second grader would be saying "wtf, I can read 5 times this speed".
I tried to log in the other night, and was told I was number 130 in the queue, and that I would have to wait approximately 8 minutes to play.
Combat in WoW seems pretty boring so far also. I was bored with EQ2s combat at first coming from FFXI (which I did actually enjoy the combat 'strategy' in, but there were many other things I didn't like about it), but WoWs seemed even a step more dumbed down than EQ2.
Also, in EQ2, at least NPCs who don't give quests or sell something attempt to say something. I don't see any of them talking at all in WoW.
Thats not to say EQ2 is perfect. You have to be in your house to play merchant and sell your items. I tend to try to do this while sleeping/working. But, the servers are usually having a patch everyday (usually during sleeping/working times, and the patch time is actually fairly short, best Ive seen for an MMO yet). This patching boots me from the game, so I come home and I didn't sell anything because I was booted for patching.
I haven't been really fond of the EQ2 community so far, the FFXI community was generally better, but so far in WoW I haven't really run into a community at all. Feels mainly like a solo game.
EQ2 is a little buggier than WoW, I have on occasion run into invisible mobs that weren't supposed to be invisible, but nothing game breaking for me yet. Also, bugs are getting fixed on almost a daily basis, and alot of the ones that bothered me at all are already gone.
Neither is perfect, and I bought both (I was going to skip WoW after being happy with EQ2, but with the reviews it got I figured Id give it a fair shake). But after the free month on both of them is up, I think that EQ2 is going to continue to get my gaming dollars, where WoW will because a dust collector on my shelf of dead games...