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#1 Nov 22 2004 at 11:01 AM Rating: Decent
hi all im 28 about to get married i want to get my fiance involved in playing WOW shes open minded but not into gaming actually she hated me playing some games like counter-strike cua i wasnt around so much. well i know there are some ladies around here that can give me a hint...thnkx

#2 Nov 22 2004 at 11:04 AM Rating: Decent
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Some people just aren't into games. If she's open-minded, just get her to play and help her learn as best you can, and try to help her pick out something she will probably enjoy playing. Although, you may not want to take my advice too much to heart, as I've failed many attempted conversions. =\
#3 Nov 22 2004 at 11:06 AM Rating: Default
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Bad move bro... don't do it. Never mix girlfriends with your hobbies. That's like mixing your GF with your buddies. You just don't do it. Bad bad bad...

And lemme just cut the next dingleberried doofus off before he pipes in his omniscient load of BS (in his best prepubescent cracked little girl voice)"That's not true! We've been doing it for blah blah blah blah": If it worked for you, great. I'm happy. You're the exception to the rule. Congratulations. You've been successfully castrated by your significant other.

= )
#4 Nov 22 2004 at 11:08 AM Rating: Decent
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Yep that's probably very true, which is why now that I look back on those times that I've attempted to convert a girl to gamer, I am glad I failed. =)
#5 Nov 22 2004 at 11:09 AM Rating: Decent
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There were some great threads on this on the beta boards that are now gone unfortunately. To sum it up:

Do NOT try to play the game for her. Let her make all her own decisions, don't tell her a decision is bad, don't show her the 'right way' to do something unless she asks.

Let her play an established character for a little bit. Ask her to kill X of Y to finish an easy quest for you. Don't cry when she gets you killed. Again.

Keep a seperate character to play with her so you don't out-level her. She shouldn't feel like she has a hard time keeping up.

There was a lot more, but my memory sucks and I have no S/O :(
#6 Nov 22 2004 at 11:10 AM Rating: Decent
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Ima haf tto agree with forget, you dont want her on games with you...just play a lil less to make her happy and your all set. and sometimes spontaniously get off the comp and ask to do <insert generic activity here> with her.
#7 Nov 22 2004 at 11:11 AM Rating: Decent
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Yeah, I guess I was a bit misleading. Help her learn, but don't tell her what to do. You never tell a woman what to do! lol
#8 Nov 22 2004 at 11:13 AM Rating: Decent
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Yeah…this is a touchy subject especially when it involves a significant other.
I’ve was just mentioning this on another thread, but to reiterate …I’m contemplating on getting my wife involved in WoW. However, it has taken some time to even be in the position where introducing her could be a realistic goal.

My tip: If she is a 'girly girl'….try getting her involved in “The Sims”. My wife loves that game…so much so that she has already expressed it to me that if I want to get WoW that I “should” get her Sims 2. Damn woman got me by my balls. ><



#9 Nov 22 2004 at 11:14 AM Rating: Decent
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When I started playing EQ, my girlfriend at the time said... I don't want you to play EQ, I have heard too many bad things about it... Too many divorces and stuff.

I worked a night job at a Data Center so basically I babysat servers... Really good internet connection, lots of computers and nothing to do but stay awake...

I decided to try a different approach...

I made her an account and we created her a shaman. I agreed if she didn't like it and didn't want to play WITH me, then I would quit.

Well 3 level 65 toons later and countless alts and twinks (All hers), we finally kicked EQ, and are moving to WOW together... BTW we got married somewhere around Luclin :)



Edited, Mon Nov 22 11:15:42 2004 by kavassa
#10 Nov 22 2004 at 11:14 AM Rating: Default
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Quick correction here. This:

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and sometimes spontaniously get off the comp and ask to do <insert generic activity here> with her.


Should look like this:

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and sometimes spontaniously get off the comp and ask to do <"insert organ" activity here> with her.


Edited, Mon Nov 22 11:18:09 2004 by ForgetfulCutthroat
#11 Nov 22 2004 at 11:14 AM Rating: Decent
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Well... if you want her to start liking the game, go with the character appearence first. Help her make a sexy female NE or human and start playing dress up... then some better cloth requires higher lvl... XD
#12 Nov 22 2004 at 11:17 AM Rating: Decent
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Lol forget, i was trying to make it sound as unsexual as possible... i comepletly failed.
#13 Nov 22 2004 at 11:17 AM Rating: Good
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Kavassa has a good way. Convince her to make a character and try it out. Then only interfere with the process when she has a question or problem. If you are overbearing then she'll get turned off the game. Not 100% effective, of course, but if there's a chance, this is probably the best way to go about it.

-Drachasor
#14 Nov 22 2004 at 11:18 AM Rating: Default
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and sometimes spontaniously get off the comp and ask to do <"insert organ" activity here> with her.


Hehehehe... I crack myself up sometimes.
#15 Nov 22 2004 at 11:23 AM Rating: Decent
ok guys this is how it was i told her how the game was and what was about and she said YEAHH!! i wanna learn it blah blah all excited cuz i guess she thinks doing something for me might be good but... WOW its kinda complicated u know all the leveling quests blah takes time, dunno if shell be interested that much like a junky gamers like myself.... the only time i had her play a game was Tropico or somehting like that and she played it for like 2 hours and she got tired of it.
#16 Nov 22 2004 at 11:40 AM Rating: Decent
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Ikerus wrote:
You never tell a woman what to do!

Take this advice and master it, 'tis the key to a successful marriage, haha.

Anyways, some good advice has been given here, and I'd like to back the statement that you should very much not get on her case for making mistakes — it'll take the fun right out of it. It is true what they say, my friend. "Patience is a virtue."

But who knows, maybe she's gamer-material and you will be the one falling behind, haha. It isn't as though being a female would make that impossible. :P

Edited, Mon Nov 22 11:40:55 2004 by Shigemi
#17 Nov 22 2004 at 11:42 AM Rating: Decent
Been married over 10 years and playing MMORPG's for over 5 and still can't convince her to even try it. Ah well at least she doesn't give me a hard time about me playing unless I just go wayyy overboard.

And I can now play with my 10 year old daughter 8)
#18 Nov 22 2004 at 11:45 AM Rating: Decent
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I made her an account and we created her a shaman. I agreed if she didn't like it and didn't want to play WITH me, then I would quit.


This was exactly how I got my hubby into FF. I said, at least try it and if you hate it I'll stop. He's always loved console video games and hated role playing, fantasy type stuff. At first he was a tad put off trying to figure it out. But by the next day it had him. If you have the capability of playing together at the same time, it's insanely fun.

As a girl myself :P I am not a gamer by nature. Anytime I get on the PS2 I get bored quickly. This type of thing is very different. Just have her give it a try and see if she likes it, chances are she will. Especially if you can play together.


P.S. The only thing my hubby wouldn't do was marry me in-game on FF. He told me one marriage was enuogh ><
#19 Nov 22 2004 at 11:47 AM Rating: Good
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Mirrasi wrote:

P.S. The only thing my hubby wouldn't do was marry me in-game on FF. He told me one marriage was enuogh ><


Ouch!
#20 Nov 22 2004 at 11:49 AM Rating: Decent
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Drachasor wrote:
Ouch!


/seconded

Although weddings are kinda just there for a gil-sink...they can be kool.
#21 Nov 22 2004 at 11:52 AM Rating: Decent
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lol lucky for him it was a joke...


hmmmm..though he never did actually marry me in game...hmmmm....
maybe it wasn't a joke??
~grabs a nice cold glass of ice water while he is still sleeping soundly..WEG~
:P
#22 Nov 22 2004 at 11:55 AM Rating: Good
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I'm glad I treat my fiance' right. : )

Hmm, maybe I can get her a new computer and have her play WoW with me....

-Drachasor
#23 Nov 22 2004 at 12:21 PM Rating: Default
Well you can make her playing PT b4 Priston tale.

thats a free mmrpg funy but simple and easy. My GF liked this one a lot and then I made her moving to EQ after :-P

But my gf were playing to NHL hockey, Unreal and conterstrike with me so
#24 Nov 22 2004 at 12:24 PM Rating: Decent
Don't listen to those that say to not mix Gf and hobbies they dont knwo what they arer talking about. IF you want to keep your gf you must have hobbie you both like.

I have keept her over 4years bcuz I was doing these thing s with her and now we arent together anymore bcuz we stoped to have same activities
#25 Nov 22 2004 at 12:27 PM Rating: Default
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Don't listen to those that say to not mix Gf and hobbies they dont knwo what they arer talking about. IF you want to keep your gf you must have hobbie you both like.

I have keept her over 4years bcuz I was doing these thing s with her and now we arent together anymore bcuz we stoped to have same activities


Refer to my original post. 'Nuff said.
#26 Nov 22 2004 at 12:28 PM Rating: Decent
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My last girlfriend absolutly HATED me playing games...even tho she NEVER saw me on the comp and i never talked about it...probubly why i broke up with the witch haha.

You do realise if you try and get her to play and she DOESNT like it...she will bug you that much more for playing it?
I haft to completely agree with forget, if u plan on spending all your time with her its best u DONT have the same hobbie. Everyone needs alonetime sometime.


Edited, Mon Nov 22 12:31:04 2004 by Needsmoresleep
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