From Azuarc's post I gather that if another player - not in group - tagges a creature, and I help kill it ( because of misplaced helpfulness ) the tagger looses exp because of my "help". Therefore one should only help if it is obvious, by clicking on both player and the creature, that player will die for sure - unless I help. ... Kill stealing, ala EQ, is not possible since only tagger can get exp. Do I interpret this correctly? And if so - we need a nice, short way to explain this to helpful others. Maybe a /say macro that says - "thank you for your help, but it did cause me some loss of exp. - did yu want to group - or??? ..."
HMMM - that's not very short...
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