Sorry to hear about your linkshell.
You did not mention your levels or what exactly you are looking for in a linkshell; however Kasdeya linkshell may interest you.
We are a small but growing social linkshell on Siren with all levels from high to low. We are a fun group and are planning some fun events. We also like to help people with anything from sub-job quest items, airship pass keys, to ZM and more.
Feel free to send me a /tell [Miabebe], ingame after 5:30 EST today for more information. :)