Well, I shouldn't be posting, since I kinda know all 3 of these people, but I just HAVE to post because I'm a 65 rdm and everyone else just HAS to post their opinion, so I won't fit in if I don't!!! :P (Hi Pendragn, Tamora and Mills!!! /wave)
As a 65 rdm, I can get better xp pting with people 4 levels higher than me that a pt my level >.< I personally will never join a pt if I'm the highest level, or if the melee's are lower level than the mage's...It confuses alot of people, but I don't LIKE getting hate, Stoneskin only holds enemies off for a few hits at most...
And it is NOT super easy to find a pt as a rdm....at least not 6 weeks ago when I last levelled....too many other rdm's, and since I stopped everyone else reached 75 ; ; lol (Rather be spending time with the man I love ~_^)
A rdm's main job is to refresh, enfeeble, enhance, MB when possible and occasionally heal in that order...unless the rdm is gotten for main healer of course.
It is very frustrating to people if they invite you to a pt and after you join, you change your mind...I may oftentimes frustrate people in the time it takes me to decide whether to join or not, but I usually ask them to wait a few moments while I consider, and most people are really good about waiting a few minutes for me to think about it...which would be better than deciding after you join to leave. (Usually my problem's not the levelbut deciding whether I can stand being away from my sweetie, or stay up long enough to be useful lol)
I have only blacklisted 3 people so far....but I always remove them later....although a few people tend to prove that some things never change...I don't know if I've ever been blacklisted, but I have had a few arguements with people over things I considered moral wrongs, but everyone's entitled to their own opinions, and no one can expect everyone to agree with them...
I do my best to get along with everyone, but in my experience, some people just don't wanna get along with anyone =/
On a side note, it can be really fun to brag about your high level, and I have been guilty of such myself, being in a low level pt, and looking for any excuse to mention my 65 rdm :P I'm proud of how hard I worked to hit 65, and I love to tell people about the hard work I've done :)
Last of all, alot of people who "/tell /blist <name>" just do that to express anger (friends do it to each other for fun sometimes :P)...just because someone says that, doesn't mean they'll blist you for real, then some people will blist you and not tell you (at leat in my case, I don't think I ever told any of them that I blisted them, just did it for a while so as to not hear their whining)
Most important thing...don't forget that it's JUST A GAME, and meant to have fun and make friends, not enemies. Up until a couple of months ago, this game was my life, and I tended to forget that it was just a game, because it wasn't to me, but reminding yourself of that will help you to enjoy the game more and argue less I hope :) Have fun playing all, and maybe I'll see you in-game soon!
Edited, Sun Aug 22 02:10:46 2004 by Prettycat