If you're looking for a friendly linkshell for new & returning players, I would suggest HUGs. It's run by Delmis, but you can also get a pearl from Devinight, Aurilius, and a few other people I can't think of at the moment. Back on Garuda, it was also known by the name GiggleSnorts. ("Funny name. Serious business.")
Tell 'em Ralrra sent ya. :)
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