Look for Kametame, Deathbeakons, or anyone else in their LS. They're a really good group of poeple, and don't mind having a lot of "Casual" players in there. :)
Outside of my old "Heaven's Knights" LS (which is gone now), it is probably the warmest and most welcoming place I've been in Lakshmi.
PS I forgot the name of the linkshell... havn't been on in almost 7 months now