Fynlar wrote:
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I'm sorry, but I must agree to disagree. There's more to this than just ******** to feel better. ******** to feel better is "omg, I spent 14 hours camping this and got beat, life sucks!" This is making an accusation. There IS harm and there OUGHT to be a point (and proof) if you're going to try and accuse someone of cheating.
Didn't necessarily say it was harmless, but it is true that scapegoating when you lose at a claim or nearly anything else in life is pretty much exactly what I said -- a way to feel better about yourself.
I didn't lose to the marathon runner, I lost to his steroids! Of course, like I said, I have no idea if the dude bots or not, so I'm not taking sides here.
Edited, May 20th 2009 4:02am by Fynlar Ok, ******** and complaining to your closest friends might make you feel better. ******** and complaining on a public forum where people doubt your accusations because you have no hard evidence is an entirely different thing. Not only is the complainer trying drag the other party's name through the mud, he's doing so at the expense of his own name.
You can say, "I didn't lose to the marathon runner, I lost to his steroids!" to your closest friends. People will get a good chuckle and console you. However, if you say the same thing to a major newspaper covering the marathon and your quote gets published, then you've got an entirely different thing. You're going to be slammed with a lawsuit for slander. Granted, nothing significant like a lawsuit will happen, but the idea is the same.
Not that I'm disagreeing with you, Fyn. Just your analogy to the OP's post needed tweeking.
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