While I honestly don't care very much, in my defense, we had a linkshell event going on at the time, and could have used the help. I didn't know at that point that you were no longer raiding with us. If you had been still with us, endgame linkshells typically require that their members do events with them when they are online. We are no different.
At no time did I insult you, or do anything other than question why you were not there. We were very accommodating to you Cele, and you were able to continue to raid with us despite otherwise poor attendance at events since your admission to the linkshell. I'm sorry that you have a very heightened sensitivity to perceived insult as evidenced by your long blacklist posted earlier, but I won't question your decision. Just know that at no time did anyone ever insult you or raise their voice (in writing).
There is a term in the medical literature called 'splitting' in which individuals tend to classify others as good or bad, black or white, with no middle ground. While not necessarily bad in itself, people who do this tend to become isolated, expelling others from their social network at the slightest perceived insult. I would just ask you not to fall into that trap. While you may not be in our group anymore, good luck with your next.