If youre ever in a PT with an up and coming BRD named Hotarutaru (also has a 75WHM which im sure he/she plays just fine) don't comment on how he/she refused to pull ever as brd doesnt use etudes ever or threnodys, just 2 melee songs and the occasional ballad.
Dont blacklist this person for no reason but be aware that if you comment on his/her bard playing style or they will attempt to have you kicked from the party and not stop trying until they get their way.
The comment i said was 'If youre playing bard and you hate pulling and multitasking songs then you should try a different job'
And he/she ended up not only getting me randomly booted from the party, but also did so right as i had a pull so that it turned into a MPK attempt by the party leader Leipold when I was stuck with hate from the mob and he refused to re-invite me to at least clear the mob so i could leave in peace. (granted i cussed him out pretty heavily instead of asking for a re-invite nicely) But thats because im a WHM and i was bieng beat down by a crawler lol. A guy PLing another group nearby ended up helping me get rid of it.
Ended up calling GM about them trying to kill me off and got them a warning so at least they dont try kicking people while the person can possibly die from it.
Anyway in conclusion dont blist her cuz shes not really that bad of a person, just avoid commenting on her playing style or lack thereof because she will get you kicked and bards get their way almost always due to them being such a needed job. Also to those who might be friends with these people, please dont take this as a personal attack on them, its just simply a warning not to criticize them.