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#77 May 05 2015 at 3:37 PM Rating: Good
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Nah, just mocking you for using historically inaccurate opinions as facts.
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Not even one written by a Heritage Foundation member and some guy heralded as the "most important Christian conservative of our time"? I'm sure it strives to give a balanced and historically factual view of the issues.


Given that the first dozen times I talked about marriage and procreation, you insisted that this was just something I was making up and not something that "real conservatives" actually believed, this would seem to be progress in your education on the matter. Now, we've got the "most important Christian conservative of our time" making the same argument I've been making all along. At some point, maybe you'll drop the whole "it's all just about religion" straw man and address the actual argument at hand. Maybe.
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I like the part of the linked bit where it gave as a reason to keep marriage as only between a man and a woman "to teach others what real marriage is".

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Now, we've got the "most important Christian conservative of our time" making the same argument I've been making all along.

I'm supposed to be surprised that he would make a facile "It's all about children!" political argument in the midst of a debate about gay marriage? Why is that, exactly?


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I like the part of the linked bit where it gave as a reason to keep marriage as only between a man and a woman "to teach others what real marriage is".

I liked the phrase "organic bodily union"
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Any act of organic bodily union can seal a marriage, whether or not it causes conception
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Of course, a true friendship of two men or two women is also valuable in itself. But lacking the capacity for organic bodily union, it cannot be valuable specifically as a marriage

Hear that homosexual people? Your sex doesn't count as REAL "organic bodily union" so you guys don't deserve marriage. Weirdos.

Also: Apparently unless you guys are able to have that "oganic bodily union", your relationship stalls out at "true friendship". Love requires real, God-sanctioned fucking.

Thanks for that information, Gbaji. The conservative perspective is golden, as always Smiley: laugh

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I like the part of the linked bit where it gave as a reason to keep marriage as only between a man and a woman "to teach others what real marriage is".


Like I said, you really have to read the entire document. Part 1 is all about "what marriage is". So when they reference "real marriage", it's in that context (and they spend a lot of time defining that term). Maybe just read it and then comment?
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The basis for the argument in that bit you linked was "Real marriage is between a man and a woman because only a man and a woman can be in a real marriage". Anything before or after is based on a foundation of sand.
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Jophiel wrote:
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I like the part of the linked bit where it gave as a reason to keep marriage as only between a man and a woman "to teach others what real marriage is".

I liked the phrase "organic bodily union"
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Any act of organic bodily union can seal a marriage, whether or not it causes conception
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Of course, a true friendship of two men or two women is also valuable in itself. But lacking the capacity for organic bodily union, it cannot be valuable specifically as a marriage

Hear that homosexual people? Your sex doesn't count as REAL "organic bodily union" so you guys don't deserve marriage. Weirdos.


Sigh. In the context of the paper, yes. Since you will steadfastly refuse to read it, prefering to snipe over out of context sections, here's part of the explanation:

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1. Comprehensive Union
Marriage is distinguished from every other form of friend‐
ship inasmuch as it is comprehensive. It involves a sharing of
lives and resources, and a union of minds and wills—hence,
among other things, the requirement of consent for forming a
marriage. But on the conjugal view, it also includes organic
bodily union. This is because the body is a real part of the per‐
son, not just his costume, vehicle, or property. Human beings
are not properly understood as nonbodily persons—minds,
ghosts, consciousnesses—that inhabit and use nonpersonal
bodies. After all, if someone ruins your car, he vandalizes your
property, but if he amputates your leg, he injures you. Because
the body is an inherent part of the human person, there is a dif‐
ference in kind between vandalism and violation; between de‐
struction of property and mutilation of bodies.

Likewise, because our bodies are truly aspects of us as per‐
sons, any union of two people that did not involve organic
bodily union would not be comprehensive—it would leave out
an important part of each person’s being. Because persons are
body‐mind composites, a bodily union extends the relationship
of two friends along an entirely new dimension of their being
as persons. If two people want to unite in the comprehensive
way proper to marriage, they must (among other things) unite
organically—that is, in the bodily dimension of their being.

This necessity of bodily union can be seen most clearly by
imagining the alternatives. Suppose that Michael and Michelle
build their relationship not on sexual exclusivity, but on tennis
exclusivity. They pledge to play tennis with each other, and
only with each other, until death do them part. Are they
thereby married? No. Substitute for tennis any nonsexual activ‐
ity at all, and they still aren’t married: Sexual exclusivity—
exclusivity with respect to a specific kind of bodily union—is
required. But what is it about sexual intercourse that makes it
uniquely capable of creating bodily union? People’s bodies can
touch and interact in all sorts of ways, so why does only sexual
union make bodies in any significant sense “one flesh”?

Our organs—our heart and stomach, for example—are parts
of one body because they are coordinated, along with other
parts, for a common biological purpose of the whole: our bio‐
logical life. It follows that for two individuals to unite organi‐
cally, and thus bodily, their bodies must be coordinated for
some biological purpose of the whole.

That sort of union is impossible in relation to functions such as
digestion and circulation, for which the human individual is by
nature sufficient. But individual adults are naturally incomplete
with respect to one biological function: sexual reproduction. In coi‐
tus, but not in other forms of sexual contact, a man and a woman’s
bodies coordinate by way of their sexual organs for the common
biological purpose of reproduction. They perform the first step of
the complex reproductive process. Thus, their bodies become, in a
strong sense, one—they are biologically united, and do not merely
rub together—in coitus (and only in coitus), similarly to the way
in which one’s heart, lungs, and other organs form a unity: by co‐
ordinating for the biological good of the whole. In this case, the
whole is made up of the man and woman as a couple, and the
biological good of that whole is their reproduction.

Here is another way of looking at it. Union on any plane—
bodily, mental, or whatever—involves mutual coordination on
that plane, toward a good on that plane. When Einstein and
Bohr discussed a physics problem, they coordinated intellectu‐
ally for an intellectual good, truth. And the intellectual union
they enjoyed was real, whether or not its ultimate target (in this
case, a theoretical solution) was reached—assuming, as we
safely can, that both Einstein and Bohr were honestly seeking
truth and not merely pretending while engaging in deception
or other acts which would make their apparent intellectual un‐
ion only an illusion.

By extension, bodily union involves mutual coordination to‐
ward a bodily good—which is realized only through coitus.
And this union occurs even when conception, the bodily good
toward which sexual intercourse as a biological function is ori‐
ented, does not occur. In other words, organic bodily unity is
achieved when a man and woman coordinate to perform an act
of the kind that causes conception. This act is traditionally
called the act of generation or the generative act;15 if (and only
if) it is a free and loving expression of the spouses’ permanent
and exclusive commitment, then it is also a marital act.

Because interpersonal unions are valuable in themselves, and
not merely as means to other ends, a husband and wife’s loving
bodily union in coitus and the special kind of relationship to
which it is integral are valuable whether or not conception results
and even when conception is not sought. But two men or two
women cannot achieve organic bodily union since there is no bod‐
ily good or function toward which their bodies can coordinate,
reproduction being the only candidate.16 This is a clear sense in
which their union cannot be marital, if marital means comprehen‐
sive and comprehensive means, among other things, bodily.


Again, this is still only one section. There are more explanations of the concepts before and after this section (and a whole bit addressing the comparison to racial restrictions on marriage). You guys really need to read the whole thing before criticizing it since it addresses pretty much every counter argument I've read here. Assuming you honestly want to understand the opposing rationale and hear the answers to your questions, that is. For the other approach, this little bit is amusing (to me anyway):

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Revisionists, moreover, have said what they think marriage
is not (for example, inherently opposite‐sex), but have only
rarely (and vaguely) explained what they think marriage is.
Consequently, because it is easier to criticize a received view
than to construct a complete alternative, revisionist arguments
have had an appealing simplicity
. But these arguments are also
vulnerable to powerful criticisms that revisionists do not have
the resources to answer. This Article, by contrast, makes a posi‐
tive case, based on three widely held principles, for what
makes a marriage.
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The basis for the argument in that bit you linked was "Real marriage is between a man and a woman because only a man and a woman can be in a real marriage". Anything before or after is based on a foundation of sand.


And again, read the document. They define what they mean by "real marriage". I warned you about this back when you demanded that I quote one section. It's like reading chapter 20 of a book and then complaining that you don't know who the characters or actions that are referenced are. It'll take like 20 minutes to just read the thing.
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This is because in truth marriage is not a mere means, even to the great good of procreation. It is an end in itself, worthwhile for its own sake. So it can exist apart from children, and the state can recognize it in such cases.
Huh. Seems to contradict it's own argument doesn't it?
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Yeah, I read what it said. My statement stands. I'm not sure what you think that quote changes. In fact, it just continues to reinforce the concept that sex only counts when it's "a specific kind of organic bodily union" and that homosexuals can't marry because they don't fuck the right way. Heterosexual, yet childless (voluntarily or not), couples DO fuck the right way hence they qualify for marriage: they have the proper kind of "organic bodily union".

I mean, that's their argument, right? Because the stuff you keep quoting keeps saying it. It's dressed up in some weird quasi-religious babble about "one flesh" and how you merge your bodies into one system but that's the crux of it. This is really the paper you found that you think best expressed the conservative viewpoint? Ok, fine, but then let's own the conservative viewpoint for what it is.

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I'd also like gbaji to explain how sharia law is bad but basing US law on a very specific (narrow) Christian view is A-OK.

No, really. Explain how different those ideas are, gbaji.
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It's all just promoting ancient rituals and blocking social advancement and modernization for the sake of maintaining the status quo. Conservatism for conservatism's sake.

I would argue that in today's world, promoting marriage for procreation's sake is unwise. There are overpopulation issues already. We don't need to continue making more people, we need to do a better job of taking care of the ones that are already here. LBGT marriage is the perfect cure: creating a non-reproductive family unit to care for the cast-off progeny of failed hetero unions. Because there will always be babies, in *and out* of wedlock. Unless we made procreation out of wedlock a criminal offense, to preserve the sanctity of "real marriage".
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So a married hetero couple who only does the, er, non-organically bodily union type of sexual congress are not really married?

Huh. Good to know. Glad there was a philosophy undergrad out there to set me straight, so to speak.
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So a married hetero couple who only does the, er, non-organically bodily union type of sexual congress are not really married?

Huh. Good to know. Glad there was a philosophy undergrad out there to set me straight, so to speak.

God, Samira, it's all RIGHT THERE if you would only READ it!
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Here is another way of looking at it. Union on any plane — bodily, mental, or whatever — involves mutual coordination on that plane, toward a good on that plane. When Einstein and Bohr discussed a physics problem, they coordinated intellectually for an intellectual good, truth. And the intellectual union they enjoyed was real, whether or not its ultimate target (in this case, a theoretical solution) was reached — assuming, as we safely can, that both Einstein and Bohr were honestly seeking truth and not merely pretending while engaging in deception or other acts which would make their apparent intellectual union only an illusion.

Your creepy deviant non-organically bodily unions are but an illusionary deception because... ummm... Einstein.

The conservative argument against SSM sorta reads like a page from TimeCube.

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It's all just promoting ancient rituals and blocking social advancement and modernization for the sake of maintaining the status quo. Conservatism for conservatism's sake.

I would argue that in today's world, promoting marriage for procreation's sake is unwise. There are overpopulation issues already. We don't need to continue making more people, we need to do a better job of taking care of the ones that are already here. LBGT marriage is the perfect cure: creating a non-reproductive family unit to care for the cast-off progeny of failed hetero unions. Because there will always be babies, in *and out* of wedlock. Unless we made procreation out of wedlock a criminal offense, to preserve the sanctity of "real marriage".


Well, we do need replacement population. Overpopulation isn't a problem in much of the western world. Raising kids is also expensive, and while I don't think marriage should entail special economic incentives barring stability, there should be benefits to help raise children, regardless of whom is doing so.
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This is because in truth marriage is not a mere means, even to the great good of procreation. It is an end in itself, worthwhile for its own sake. So it can exist apart from children, and the state can recognize it in such cases.
Huh. Seems to contradict it's own argument doesn't it?


No, it doesn't. Again, read the whole thing. Don't just cherry pick bits and try to nit pick them.

The state can recognize it in such case (ie: infertile couples). They don't say that it must do so. There's a whole section of the paper where they talk about this. If the state "must" recognize any marriage regardless of procreation, then it "must" recognize any marriage for a whole host of different types of relationships, not just SSM. They then make the argument as to why the state may choose to recognize an infertile husband/wife marriage but not a SSM.

I think the point you're missing is that they're saying that the purpose of marriage is procreation, but in the absence of procreation, we can still recognize marriages if they further the idea of procreation in marriage. This was covered in the first quote I provided (near the end I think). They list a whole set of social reasons why recognizing marriages of infertile opposite-sex couples makes sense in a "can recognize" setting. This section is particularly relevant to your question:

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Finally, although a legal scheme that honored the conjugal con‐
ception of marriage, as our law has long done, would not restrict
the incidents of marriage to spouses who happen to have chil‐
dren, its success would tend to limit children to families led by
legally married spouses
. After all, the more effectively the law
teaches the truth about marriage, the more likely people are to
enter into marriage and abide by its norms. And the more people
form marriages and respect marital norms, the more likely it is
that children will be reared by their wedded biological parents.
Death and tragedy make the gap impossible to close completely,
but a healthier marriage culture would make it shrink. Thus, en‐
shrining the moral truth of marriage in law is crucial for securing
the great social benefits served by real marriage.



Remember all the times I've argued that the purpose of marriage (and specifically marriage status and benefits) is to encourage potential procreative couples to enter into marriage prior to procreating? That's where this comes in. The argument being that you want to make your requirements for marriage as broad as possible while still maintaining the clear connection to procreation. Recognizing husband/wife pairings, even if they can't procreate, sets an example for other male/female couples and increases the likelihood that they will choose to marry as well. And of course, the covers cases where we can't be sure if they can or can't procreate, and eliminates some kind of onerous tests for this (again, this was all in the initial quote I provided, which you seem to have skimmed over apparently).

If you expand it to too broad a definition though, you begin to work at cross purposes though. If you add same sex couples, then you have abandoned the assumption that marriage has anything to do with procreation. And if you do that, then people will be less likely to view marriage as a step on the path to procreation, maybe only thinking of it after having children (which is often too late). Again though, the paper covers this (and a number of other elements of the issue). Go read it.
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I'd also like gbaji to explain how sharia law is bad but basing US law on a very specific (narrow) Christian view is A-OK.


You're comparing all sharia law to just our marriage laws? Or just the parts of sharia that reference marriage? Sharia law is "bad" because it has a host of other things in it that are "bad". If you're talking just about polygamy vs monogamy, that's a whole different issue. And one that is directly addressed in the paper I linked (which I'm assuming you still haven't read).

You guys are spending more time not reading it than it would take to just read it. You keep asking questions that are directly answered in said paper. Why not actually take the time to read it, think about it, then if you have issues raise them?
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Because the part you quoted was remarkably stupid and didn't tell me anything about the conservative argument that I didn't already know. Why on earth would I waste my time reading another 40 pages of that?

I'm not spending time "not reading it", I'm spending time doing better things than reading it based on the selection you thought was quote-worthy.

In any event, there's no confusion on my part about what your argument is: In a nutshell, you believe that marriage exists primarily around the concept of having children and that benefits to marriage exist as an incentive for couples to join into a union before having children. Because homosexual unions don't have children, they generally do not need those benefits nor should the state and its people take whatever hit to give them those benefits. Heterosexual couples that do not bear children may perhaps also be less deserving of those benefits but the work involved in winnowing those people out isn't worth the effort and the wide net cast by just saying "heterosexual couples can marry" works well enough.

I get it. I don't find it persuasive and think it's factually inaccurate in many ways and morally flawed in others but not because I don't understand the argument. I find it curious that you continue to insist that no one has presented a counter-argument about marriage when I know for a fact that multiple people have multiple times. This would suggest that you're either lying about not seeing the arguments or you just don't comprehend them. Hell, maybe that's why you seem to think the issue here is that no one understands your argument. We do -- it's just not a very good one.

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So a married hetero couple who only does the, er, non-organically bodily union type of sexual congress are not really married?


Legally? They're married. Of course, we can't know what sort of sexual activities they may engage in, so there's no reason to not allow them to (which is kinda the point). Again, this is about social norms and how the institution is viewed. We can safely all assume that any given male/female married couple is engaged in coitus, whether they actually are or not. So the social value of recognizing relationships that engage in coitus with marriage serves the purpose of encouraging couples who may engage in coitus to marry, which has a value all its own.

We can't assume that about a SSM. Actually, more relevantly, we know for a fact they are not. Which is part of the point. In all the cases you guys keep bringing up, it's "well, what if this happens, or that happens, or that other thing". But from a social point of view (this is a social institution we're recognizing here after all), we can't know what is or isn't going on in their bedrooms. We can know exactly what isn't going on in a same sex couple's bedroom though, and that's any action that could either in that couple or when performed by any other couple, result in children.

No amount of non-coitus sexual activity will result in procreation. The key difference is that couples consisting of one male and one female can engage in coitus. Couples consisting of two partners of the same sex cannot. Again, it's not about what someone chooses to do once married, but what they can physically do, and whether that act is a procreative act (even if it doesn't result in procreation in their specific case).

Oh. But for the record, many cultures in history did not consider a marriage binding unless consummated. I believe that most states in the US still allow for annulment in the case of a marriage that was never consummated (via coitus), but that may have changed (probably recently if at all). So yeah, it's not like this is some strange concept out from left field or anything.

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It's just strange to me because many of your exception cases sound a lot like arguing that we shouldn't restrict drunk people from driving, because not all drunks will cause accidents, and sober people can cause crashes too. Yes, but that's kinda missing the point. Similar deal here. Not all husband/wife pairings will create children, but the only couples that can are those made up of husband/wife pairings. That would seem to be significant.
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You guys are spending more time not reading it than it would take to just read it.
There's nothing new in there that hasn't been disproven. Maybe if you spent more time reading what everyone else has said you'd realize that.
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It's just strange to me because many of your exception cases sound a lot like arguing that we shouldn't restrict drunk people from driving, because not all drunks will cause accidents, and sober people can cause crashes too.

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I'd also like gbaji to explain how sharia law is bad but basing US law on a very specific (narrow) Christian view is A-OK.
You're comparing all sharia law to just our marriage laws?
No, you stubborn gravel-brain. I'm pointing out that sharia and your swell little group(s), ie Heritage Foundation, etc. both operate on the principle of "let's have our religion be the basis for our national laws"..
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It's all just promoting ancient rituals and blocking social advancement and modernization for the sake of maintaining the status quo. Conservatism for conservatism's sake.

I would argue that in today's world, promoting marriage for procreation's sake is unwise. There are overpopulation issues already. We don't need to continue making more people, we need to do a better job of taking care of the ones that are already here. LBGT marriage is the perfect cure: creating a non-reproductive family unit to care for the cast-off progeny of failed hetero unions. Because there will always be babies, in *and out* of wedlock. Unless we made procreation out of wedlock a criminal offense, to preserve the sanctity of "real marriage".


Well, we do need replacement population. Overpopulation isn't a problem in much of the western world. Raising kids is also expensive, and while I don't think marriage should entail special economic incentives barring stability, there should be benefits to help raise children, regardless of whom is doing so.

Yes! Exactly! See, the emphasis should be on *raising* children, not *making* them. Children will be made, regardless of anything anybody says or does. Raising them properly, that's what is important.
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