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#152 Apr 08 2015 at 5:18 PM Rating: Excellent
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What's unfair is if you make a product for some customers but refuse to make an identical product for other customers based on their identity. I wouldn't even have a problem with a shop saying "Well, we can make you the cake but we don't have any cake toppers with two grooms and don't intend to order any so you're on your own there" because it's up to the shop if they want to keep those in inventory.


Again. They're not identical products. The product is the service, not the physical cake. By making a custom cake for a gay wedding you are condoning the wedding and participating in it, even if to a small degree. In the same way making a cake for a KKK rally is condoning the rally. Obviously, you should not be forced to participate in something you don't agree with. I'm not even sure how this got to be a thing other than some people seem to be looking only at the identity angle of this, and losing sight of the larger liberty issue at stake.
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"Sorry, I won't sell you this donut because you are gay."

"It's not an identical donut as the one I sold that straight man. They are different donuts. He ate that donut, see?"

Edited, Apr 8th 2015 8:05pm by TirithRR
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#155 Apr 08 2015 at 5:53 PM Rating: Excellent
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Again. They're not identical products. The product is the service, not the physical cake.

Right. And a diner can refuse patrons because each hamburger is not identical and a pizza place can refuse you because, after all, each pizza is custom made to order. And you can refuse haircuts because each one is different and refuse to sell a high end suit because it'll be altered so now it's different. And you pick options and colors for a car so the Toyota dealer can show you the door. And a real estate developer can refuse to sell you a unit in their subdivision because that has custom options as well.

That is not how it actually works but you're always one to come up with some insane legal definition that you've convinced yourself is true.

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Accord to your analogy there, gbaji, it's reasonable to expect a Ford dealership's shop to carry part for a Rolls Royce because they are both cars.

I would hope that this illustration explains why your "ham in a Jewish deli" theory is flawed.
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both were eating pizza. Knife and fork of course.
Is there another way?

Quick question:

Do you eat a sandwich with a knife and fork too?
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I don't know why people are putting so much effort to keep gay people from getting married when hipsters are the true enemy.


I agree. Honestly, I think we should round them up and sterilize them, so they don't breed.
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TirithRR wrote:
"Sorry, I won't sell you this donut because you are ***."


And, once again, that's not the case we're talking about.

Joph. In case you are wondering, this is why I keep saying that it's not about people refusing to sell pizza or cake to a gay person. Can we please stop pretending that this isn't how the issue is being falsely presented?
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gbaji wrote:
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"Sorry, I won't sell you this donut because you are ***."


And, once again, that's not the case we're talking about.

Joph. In case you are wondering, this is why I keep saying that it's not about people refusing to sell pizza or cake to a *** person. Can we please stop pretending that this isn't how the issue is being falsely presented?


It is what we are talking about though. You just keep talking to yourself about jewish delis or something.
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Accord to your analogy there, gbaji, it's reasonable to expect a Ford dealership's shop to carry part for a Rolls Royce because they are both cars.


No. It's unreasonable to demand a Ford dealership carry parts for a Rolls Royce.

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I would hope that this illustration explains why your "ham in a Jewish deli" theory is flawed.


No. Because I also think it's unreasonable to demand that a Jewish deli sell ham sandwiches.

And... Wait for it... I also think it's unreasonable to demand that a person who disagrees with gay marriage cater a gay wedding or make a custom cake for said wedding.

In the same way that I think it's unreasonable to demand that a person who disagrees with the KKK cater a KKK rally, or make a custom cake for the KKK rally.

All of my positions are consistent. The person who agrees with the first two, but disagrees with the last two is being inconsistent. And of course, if he agrees with condition 1, 2, and 4, but disagrees with 3, then he's just selectively picking a position based on the identity politics of the moment and is *really* rudderless.
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Oh, sorry.

"I won't _make_ this donut for you because you are gay."
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It is what we are talking about though. You just keep talking to yourself about jewish delis or something.


Joph insisted that no one was claiming that it was about simply selling a pizza or a cake to a gay person, but that everyone understood that the cases were all about catering or providing other services for a gay wedding. Yet, here we are faced with a comparison to refusing to sell a donut to someone because they are gay. If you truly believe that refusing to cater a gay wedding is wrong, then argue that point and only that point. Any argument involving someone simply refusing to sell something out of the case to a gay person is pure straw man.

I just find it funny as heck that the claims keep wavering back and forth on this.
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Oh, sorry.

"I won't _make_ this donut for you because you are ***."


Nope. Still not getting it. It's "I wont make this donut for a gay wedding". Why are you so afraid to accurately describe the choice at hand?
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gbaji wrote:
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Oh, sorry.

"I won't _make_ this donut for you because you are ***."


Nope. Still not getting it. It's "I wont make this donut for a *** wedding". Why are you so afraid to accurately describe the choice at hand?


Because you aren't doing business with the wedding, you are doing business with the person or group. What they will use the item you sell for is in the end pointless.

If I go to a store and buy rock climbing equipment, it doesn't matter if I'm going to use it to go gay rock climbing, or straight rock climbing. They sell rock climbing equipment, and I buy it.

If I go to a store and buy a wedding cake, it doesn't matter if I'm going to use it at a gay wedding, or a straight wedding. They sell wedding cakes, and I am buying one.

Doesn't really matter what they are selling, they are selling it. And they are denying to sell it to a person because they are gay. Playing loose with the definition of "Custom" doesn't really change that.
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Joph. In case you are wondering, this is why I keep saying that it's not about people refusing to sell pizza or cake to a *** person. Can we please stop pretending that this isn't how the issue is being falsely presented?

It's not. It's being presented exactly as given: A business refused to deal with a gay couple solely on the basis of their gender preference. Why you think that "cake" is some magical exception is beyond me. Even with your lame reasoning, it's no different than a cafe refusing to seat a gay couple on a date (I'd be custom making a hamburger to help these men fall in love!") or a home builder refusing to sell a house to a gay couple ("They're going to do dirty sinful man-humping in it!"). Obviously you think these things are okay. Many other people don't and those people spoke up about a law that could help facilitate this discrimination. But there's no confusion or "false presentation" at play here.

Edited, Apr 8th 2015 10:45pm by Jophiel
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Because you aren't doing business with the wedding, you are doing business with the person or group. What they will use the item you sell for is in the end pointless.

If I go to a store and buy rock climbing equipment, it doesn't matter if I'm going to use it to go *** rock climbing, or straight rock climbing. They sell rock climbing equipment, and I buy it.


Sure. But if you want to purchase custom rock climbing equipment with a swastika on it, you have every right to refuse to do that. Right?

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If I go to a store and buy a wedding cake, it doesn't matter if I'm going to use it at a *** wedding, or a straight wedding. They sell wedding cakes, and I am buying one.

Doesn't really matter what they are selling, they are selling it. And they are denying to sell it to a person because they are ***. Playing loose with the definition of "Custom" doesn't really change that.


I'm not playing loose with the word. If you buy a stock cake out of the display case, you're free to use it for any purpose you want (and decorate it any way you want). But any cake that is made specifically for that one wedding is, by definition, "custom made".

The larger point is that, at least of all the cases I've spent any time looking into, these were businesses that were being asked to provide services directly for the wedding. When you go into a bakery that specializes in wedding cakes, they make the exact cake you want, with the flavors you want, and the decorations you want, and sometime includes delivering the cake to the reception, and sometimes even setting it up for service (ie: eating). That is a far cry from refusing to sell a donut in a case to a random person who walks in and happens to be gay, and categorizing it that way in order to enhance the "wrongness" of what was done is deceptive and unfair (and is also terribly unproductive).

In the case of the pizza joint, they were actually asked if they would cater a gay wedding reception. And in the case of a florist that I saw interviewed on this subject, they were also being asked to set up the flower arrangements for the wedding and to do decorations for the reception. Again, that's a far cry from refusing to sell a product on your shelf to a customer who walks in wanting to buy it. The difference is the degree of participation in the event itself. There's a point where what you are selling isn't just a product on a shelf, but a service specific to an event. And once that happens, the seller absolutely has a right to refuse to provide any service for an event he or she doesn't agree with. It should not matter what the event is, or why the person doesn't want to participate in it.


I'll ask again: Do you think that a black baker should be required by law to provide a cake for a KKK rally? Yes or no. And not "sell a cake that is later eaten at a KKK rally". I mean, told that this is for a KKK rally. Asked to decorate it with symbols specific to the KKK rally. And perhaps even asked to deliver it to said KKK rally. You tell me what you think the law should require here and then tell me why you think it should require it. My issue is that too many people react emotionally to one contrived case and don't consider the broader ramifications of the law in question. The same law that would require a person to make a cake for a gay wedding would require someone to make a cake for a KKK rally (or anything that they may find objectionable for any reason at all). Our laws should not cherry pick groups and ideas that we like and dislike and treat them differently. They need to be consistent.
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Because you aren't doing business with the wedding, you are doing business with the person or group. What they will use the item you sell for is in the end pointless.

If I go to a store and buy rock climbing equipment, it doesn't matter if I'm going to use it to go *** rock climbing, or straight rock climbing. They sell rock climbing equipment, and I buy it.


Sure. But if you want to purchase custom rock climbing equipment with a swastika on it, you have every right to refuse to do that. Right?


Did you just ignore the last couple pages of talking when you were away?

We already discussed the custom design, wording, items not already being sold, etc.

If a **** came in and wanted to buy rock climbing equipment to go **** rock climbing... what does it matter?

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In the case of the pizza joint, they were actually asked if they would cater a *** wedding reception.


Is that the now-millionaire GoFundMe anti-gay pizza joint? I thought it was all just a hypothetical the owner was talking about on a local news station. That they weren't actually asked, they just said they'd refuse to if asked.

Edited, Apr 8th 2015 11:56pm by TirithRR
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And... Wait for it... I also think it's unreasonable to demand that a person who disagrees with *** marriage cater a *** wedding or make a custom cake for said wedding.

In the same way that I think it's unreasonable to demand that a person who disagrees with the KKK cater a KKK rally, or make a custom cake for the KKK rally.

All of my positions are consistent. The person who agrees with the first two, but disagrees with the last two is being inconsistent. And of course, if he agrees with condition 1, 2, and 4, but disagrees with 3, then he's just selectively picking a position based on the identity politics of the moment and is *really* rudderless.

On this same basis, you think it's reasonable and proper to refuse to deal with someone because they are black or Catholic or Canadian or female or a veteran or missing a hand or autistic. Otherwise you're just "rudderless", right? Which I personally feel is pretty fucked up but when you're a straight white male I suppose you have the luxury of masturbating over your "liberty" to that extent.

Edited, Apr 8th 2015 11:03pm by Jophiel
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I'll ask again: Do you think that a black baker should be required by law to provide a cake for a KKK rally? Yes or no.

Nope. I do not believe that KKK membership (or American Kennel Club membership for that matter) should fall under the need for such protections. I do believe that homosexuality should. I will wait for you to demand to know the difference and then give you a sad laugh.
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Our laws should not cherry pick groups and ideas that we like and dislike and treat them differently. They need to be consistent.

"Like" and "dislike" have nothing to do with it. I have no special affinity for Syrians for instance, but I do believe that discrimination based solely on ethic origin is wrong. For that matter, I have no special affinity or affection for homosexuals but believe that discrimination on the basis of gender preference is wrong as well. Claiming that it's on the basis of "like" and "dislike" shows either a special lack of understanding or a seriously ham-handed attempt to frame the issue emotionally.

Edited, Apr 8th 2015 11:02pm by Jophiel
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Hmm, is American Kennel Club not just a dog owners club. Are we talking those special websites out there?
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It's not. It's being presented exactly as given: A business refused to deal with a gay couple solely on the basis of their gender preference.


No. It refused to provide a specific service due to the nature of the event they were asked to provide the service for. In the case of at least one of the cases we discussed the business owner knew the gay couple and had sold their goods to them for years. Clearly, they weren't refusing to sell baked goods to them because they were gay, or they would have refused to sell them baked goods all along. It was the event they were being asked to provide a cake for. Not the people.

It's funny to me that this distinction is so hard for you to see.

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Why you think that "cake" is some magical exception is beyond me. Even with your lame reasoning, it's no different than a cafe refusing to seat a gay couple on a date (I'd be custom making a hamburger to help these men fall in love!") or a home builder refusing to sell a house to a gay couple ("They're going to do dirty sinful man-humping in it!"). Obviously you think these things are okay. Many other people don't and those people spoke up about a law that could help facilitate this discrimination. But there's no confusion or "false presentation" at play here.


No. I don't think those things are ok. I'm not going to defend the straw man Joph.

In those cases, the thing being provided is not specific to an action or event. The food at the cafe is the same food regardless of who sits down to eat it. The home doesn't change based on the person buying it. But if you were asked to design a home for someone and you didn't like the design (for any reason at all), you'd be free to refuse to do so, right? And if you're asked to cater food, you're free to decline the catering job for any reason you want. You're not required to do that if you don't want to. The difference here (in most of the cases anyway) is foot traffic into an "open to the public" place of business, and "custom contract business". If you are open to the public, you can't refuse service to any member of the public who walks in. The second you're asked to make a custom cake, or cater a wedding reception, or provide floral arrangements, you're entering into a contract business situation. You always have more latitude in that case and are free to take a job, or reject it, for pretty much any reason at all.


It's just really interesting to me how strongly you guys all need to mischaracterize this. Again, if your argument against catering a gay wedding, or doing flower arrangements for a gay wedding, or making a custom cake for a gay wedding was so strong, you wouldn't need to constantly equate it to doing other things that are much more obviously wrong. You're stripping out the key differences in the process. Yes. It would be wrong for a business owner to refuse to sell a cup of coffee to someone because that person is gay. But it's not wrong at all for the exact same business owner to decide that he's not going to provide coffee service for the local gay pride meeting. Those are two completely different cases. Do you honestly not see this?


Again. Let's move this away from an identity case you guys obviously have some kind of emotional stake in. Let's make it "members of the local biker club". If they walk in and buy donuts from a bakery, no one cares or refuses them service. But let's say that the owner of the bakery had a child who was killed riding a bike and can't stand the thought of motorcycles, or anything involving the culture of bike riding. She's asked to cater a local biker club event. She declines. Should she be sued for this? Charged with a crime? I'm honestly curious how you guys actually justify your position in any sort of objective legal way. Because it seems to me like you're rushing to judge the issue based on an emotional reaction to the specific identity group involved here and not really considering the ramifications.
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Are bikers a race, religion, sex, age, etc. that is is against the law to discriminate against?

I guess if what ever area you live in if it's against the law to discriminate against bikers then maybe the person would be sued.

If a black person shot her son, would she be allowed to refuse service to black people?

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No. I don't think those things are ok. I'm not going to defend the straw man Joph.

There is no straw man. If you refuse to make a cake because you refuse to facilitate a gay relationship then ANY business decision made for the same reason is equivalent.
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The food at the cafe is the same food regardless of who sits down to eat it.

So is a cake. Flour, eggs and milk only combine in so many ways. You want to whine about decorations now? Ok, so a barrista who makes those stupid foam designs in the coffee refuses to serve a gay couple on a date because she thinks their date is evil and sinful -- you think is is okay or not okay?
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The home doesn't change based on the person buying it.

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It's just really interesting to me how strongly you guys all need to mischaracterize this.

As interesting as your need to demand that wedding cakes are special and magical and unlike anything else?

Edited, Apr 8th 2015 11:14pm by Jophiel
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