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#777 Oct 24 2014 at 11:42 AM Rating: Good
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I'm certain it's misogynist to threaten to rape a woman for posting an article you don't like. That's more or less what the conversation is about.

I literally do not care what the content of that article is; rape is overwhelming a crime of male aggression against women, and is very firmly established that way culturally. And I consider that, and anyone dismissive of the crime here, misogynist.

Do men sometimes face those same issues? Absolutely. But it's essentially always ALWAYS used to deflect away from issues, not to actually foster discussion about them.

"Guys get raped too" is a way to shut down conversations about rape and rape culture; no one ever saying that is actually interested in having a conversation about the pervasive, patriarchal systems that lead to rape. They're actually just telling women to shut up (when women are overwhelmingly the majority of rape victims).

So yeah, men sometimes get threatened with rape, or receive death threats. But women have overwhelmingly been the victims here.

And it's ******* dismissive **** like this that infuriates me (from the link Pold posted):
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If anyone feels unsafe about talking to gamers, it is because Gawker crafted that narrative.


**** off. I've never felt safe in essentially ANY other gaming environment besides Zam, because gaming environments as a whole tend to be incredibly homophobic. Obviously not all of them, but hunting through the filth for a safe haven isn't exactly pleasant. And it's because of this that I've essentially never identified as a gamer - gamer culture, when speaking generally, is gross.

So don't stand there and tell me that Gawker created this narrative. "Gamer" has been associated with this **** for a LONG time, and all Gawker has done is call out those ******** for being what they are.

So keep telling yourself that "gamers" at large have always been accepting, inviting groups of people. It's not like the WoW o-boards existed long before gawker started publishing feminist articles or anything.
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#778 Oct 24 2014 at 11:54 AM Rating: Excellent
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As a relatively unbiased person on this, as unbiased as a gamer can be on this topic, let me just say that I see two sides which after 16 pages each seem to be unable to reach the other side. It's like listening to two people discuss completely different topics but thinking the other is discussing the same topic they are.

And as for the nonsense about men not having lost any rights as a result of this equal rights for women thing, how dare you! I have lost many of my god-given manly rights that I once had. My right to ogle. My right to rub elbows with "the boys" on company time. My right to sit in on an executive level meeting and not have to watch my language because there's a woman present. My right to refer to the female staff in the office as eye candy. I could go on and on. My life has been reduced to a sad, miserable existence. Men deserve equal rights! I want to be objectified!

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#779 Oct 24 2014 at 11:59 AM Rating: Excellent
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As a relatively unbiased person on this, as unbiased as a gamer can be on this topic, let me just say that I see two sides which after 16 pages each seem to be unable to reach the other side. It's like listening to two people discuss completely different topics but thinking the other is discussing the same topic they are.

Yeah, what this guy said.

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My right to sit in on an executive level meeting and not have to watch my language because there's a woman present.

And just TRY to give one a "good job" slap on the ass these days...
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#780 Oct 24 2014 at 12:01 PM Rating: Excellent
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idiggory wrote:
I'm certain it's misogynist to threaten to rape a woman for posting an article you don't like. That's more or less what the conversation is about.
I understand that, but I'm not certain who, if anyone, would disagree with you. I mean short of someone trolling for their own amusement of course.

idiggory wrote:
I literally do not care what the content of that article is; rape is overwhelming a crime of male aggression against women, and is very firmly established that way culturally. And I consider that, and anyone dismissive of the crime here, misogynist.
I don't think anyone is doing that, at least seriously. If they are, absolutely they shouldn't be.

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Do men sometimes face those same issues? Absolutely. But it's essentially always ALWAYS used to deflect away from issues, not to actually foster discussion about them.
In this instance though, letting it be known that the problem is widespread is certainly helpful. The point is that this kind of thing is happening to everyone, and that's bad regardless. I.e. this is a widespread problem in the community and it needs to stop. Saying "this is happening to us too" is a good step as guys usually don't speak about those things. Letting it be known this isn't just a "feminist problem," at least in my mind, shines a big bright light on how pervasive the problem is.

idiggory wrote:
So yeah, men sometimes get threatened with rape, or receive death threats. But women have overwhelmingly been the victims here.
You'll get no quarrel from me on that. I'm sure people would debate specifics, but saying women have it worse in the traditional gaming community isn't much of a secret.

idiggory wrote:
And it's ******* dismissive **** like this that infuriates me (from the link Pold posted):
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If anyone feels unsafe about talking to gamers, it is because Gawker crafted that narrative.
I agree that's an awful and ignorant quote. (well at least how I'm reading it here, I haven't scanned the article, and if the quote is any indication I probably wouldn't care to).
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#781 Oct 24 2014 at 12:10 PM Rating: Good
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It's a one-paragraph "pledge" of sorts that says that GamerGate doesn't condone harassment. It wouldn't be bad, if it didn't throw the kool-aid in there with the rest of it.

But supporting the status quo of gaming 5 years ago, before Gawker started posting feminist articles, is supporting a gaming culture that was disgustingly homophobic and misogynistic.

I know a lot of gay/female gamers outside of Zam (primarily through gay media or tumblr). Very, very few of them identify as gamers, even if they spend a lot of time playing games.

There's a reason for that.

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Oh right, gay is filtered.

Edited, Oct 24th 2014 2:11pm by idiggory
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#782 Oct 24 2014 at 12:20 PM Rating: Good
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Arguments aside, that has got to be some of the worst filter breaking I've seen in a long time. Or maybe it just looks bad on Classic WoW.
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Oh right, gay is filtered.
Fixed.
#783 Oct 24 2014 at 12:31 PM Rating: Default
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cynyck wrote:
As a relatively unbiased person on this, as unbiased as a gamer can be on this topic, let me just say that I see two sides which after 16 pages each seem to be unable to reach the other side. It's like listening to two people discuss completely different topics but thinking the other is discussing the same topic they are.

And as for the nonsense about men not having lost any rights as a result of this equal rights for women thing, how dare you! I have lost many of my god-given manly rights that I once had. My right to ogle. My right to rub elbows with "the boys" on company time. My right to sit in on an executive level meeting and not have to watch my language because there's a woman present. My right to refer to the female staff in the office as eye candy. I could go on and on. My life has been reduced to a sad, miserable existence. Men deserve equal rights! I want to be objectified!



Before I respond..are you a woman? No ? Then as an intellectual exercise I invite you to consider what would happen if I suggested you sodomize yourself, question your sexuality or find an inventive to offend your delicate floeer sensibilities.

If you are a woman.. for heavens sake don't respond. You may just feel threatened.

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#784 Oct 24 2014 at 12:44 PM Rating: Good
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The One and Only Poldaran wrote:
Arguments aside, that has got to be some of the worst filter breaking I've seen in a long time. Or maybe it just looks bad on Classic WoW.
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Oh right, gay is filtered.
Fixed.


I did think that at the time, but the skin I'm using has black text and I didn't feel like figuring out the other options.
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#785 Oct 24 2014 at 12:51 PM Rating: Excellent
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find an inventive to offend your delicate floeer sensibilities.


Or you might English.
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#786 Oct 24 2014 at 12:58 PM Rating: Default
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find an inventive to offend your delicate floeer sensibilities.


Or you might English.




@shrug@ it is hard to type on the phone. i also take it that you have no other way to respond, but to resort to nazigrammarism.
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#787 Oct 24 2014 at 1:02 PM Rating: Excellent
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In much the same way that you have no other way to respond other than to resort to sarcasm. I do believe this thread has raveled.

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FEMInazigrammarism!
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#789 Oct 24 2014 at 1:08 PM Rating: Excellent
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WURDS! Smiley: mad
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#790 Oct 24 2014 at 1:16 PM Rating: Good
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In much the same way that you have no other way to respond other than to resort to sarcasm. I do believe this thread has raveled.



You give up easily; typical woman.
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#791 Oct 24 2014 at 1:52 PM Rating: Good
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I'm not sure which camp to ally with in this debate; both are doing their best to keep me away, so I'll just leave it at this:

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“Don't be in a hurry to condemn because he doesn't do what you do or think as you think or as fast. There was a time when you didn't know what you know today.”


Different topic, I know, but I believe it's still relevant.
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#792 Oct 24 2014 at 2:18 PM Rating: Good
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I believe his point is that whether you agree or disagree, threatening them with rape and murder is hardly an appropriate response.
And as long as the counter-argument to "Hey, these two people are hurting your movement" is "SEXIST MISOGYNIST YOU CONDONE RAPE AND MURDER" there really isn't going to ever be any solution.

Anyway, I just spent the last ungodly amount of hours trying to have a conference with three separate government agencies and have come to the conclusion that this thread is more rational than that exercise in futility. I also get to work late calling four hundred people to see if they'd like to work a little extra this weekend and the for the next few weeks. Also, my peanut butter sandwich got thrown out. I'm a little irate over that.
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#793 Oct 24 2014 at 2:28 PM Rating: Good
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Also, my peanut butter sandwich got thrown out. I'm a little irate over that.

There's a sexist joke or two to be made there.
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#794 Oct 24 2014 at 2:31 PM Rating: Good
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Also, my peanut butter sandwich got thrown out. I'm a little irate over that.
There's a sexist joke or two to be made there.
One for each eye. Ba da bing.
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#795 Oct 24 2014 at 5:04 PM Rating: Default
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Let us change the subject briefly.

It will show you one right that women have that men don't. Check the reactions to the video. Women are allowed to be insane ( though typically while pregnant ).
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#796 Oct 24 2014 at 5:32 PM Rating: Good
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And black people can say the word nigger without getting dirty looks.
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#797 Oct 24 2014 at 5:34 PM Rating: Default
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And black people can say the word nigger without getting dirty looks.


How can you even THINK about comparing the two? Now I am not sure whether you are a racist or not.
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#798 Oct 24 2014 at 5:51 PM Rating: Good
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God, this is what you masculinists always do when you don't like a line of argument, you pantomime offence and accuse the other side of some kind of '-ism'.
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I wish I could put this thread into a pillowcase with some rocks and toss it into the river like an unwanted litter of kittens.
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I wish I could put this thread into a pillowcase with some rocks and toss it into the river like an unwanted litter of kittens a baby girl in China.

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God, this is what you masculinists always do when you don't like a line of argument, you pantomime offence and accuse the other side of some kind of '-ism'.


Me?
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