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#77 Nov 14 2013 at 8:28 PM Rating: Decent
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Then why would there be a problem taking middle school kids to one?


Because I don't agree with how the company is run and I don't want my money supporting it. Like I said in my first post. That first post in which I said, "Though after thinking about it and talking to my husband I probably wouldn't deprive my kid of his season-end party for those ideological reasons." (For the record, my husband actually said that my ideological reasons were pretty sound for not wanting to send my kid there, but that's neither here nor there.)

There you go with those pesky strawman arguments again, though.

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Yeah. I'll repeat what I said earlier and assume that the phrase is some sort of previously existing legal standard that had to be met to be able to hire only women. I suppose it's possible that Hooters came up with it all on their own, but given that this sort of legal issue (hiring women exclusively for certain positions and on the basis of physical appearance) has almost certainly been hashed out within the context of strip clubs long before Hooters came along, it's almost certain that language was from some earlier court ruling and Hooters was simply arguing that they should have that exemption because they provide that form of entertainment. I wouldn't read anything more than that from it. Certainly, I think it's reasonable to assume that if Hooters had a blank legal slate on this, that Hooters would use different language than that (like perhaps the language they actually use in their handbook). Then *that* would become the legal standard and we'd have strip clubs arguing that they should be exempt because they offer "entertainment through female sex appeal".

I could be wrong though. But usually when you see legal arguments like that they're attempting to claim that they meet some previously defined legal standard, and use the language of that standard when making their argument. I also don't feel like digging through the text of the actual court case, and then pouring through the precedents referenced in that case in order to see if the language was used previously or not. I'm content to say "maybe" on this one to be honest.

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When did I say they came up with it on their own? Here's where you took issue with the phrase:

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I haven't found any source showing that Hooters described itself that way though. What they did attempt was to claim an exemption from equal employment laws, which was rejected because they were *not* a company engaged in "vicarious sexual entertainment". My understanding is that the phrase is the standard that the court found needed to be present in order for a company to be exempt from the employment rules. I don't think that Hooters used that phrase to describe what they were, but the court used it to describe what they were not.


I showed you where Hooters used that phrase to describe itself.

So yes, you were wrong.


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For what it's worth, Googling the phrase "vicarious sexual entertainment" through both Google & Google Scholar return almost exclusively hits about Hooter's. I don't think it's a legal phrase or standard used in any typical setting (lawsuits about a strip club, brothel or whatever). It seems to be a phrase crafted by Hooter's as part of their defense.

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Gbaji, why didn't you just stop at your first post? Even I rated that one up. Everyone pretty much agreed with you, then you took it a few steps too far.

I think that as a species we need to appreciate beauty, but we also do need to be aware of boundaries. I think that what folks are really worried about here is the message, especially the message being sent to male athletes, that females are objects for them to treat as they please. There is a real problem with the way that many young men behave toward women and folks may be afraid that something like this will exacerbate that. It might, but the flip side is that exposing boys to female sexuality and teaching them that there isn't anything wrong with it but it is also the woman's choice and not his, well that's an invaluable lesson that frankly we can't teach young enough.

"Ok kids, here we are at Hooters. It's a bit like an extreme version of an unspoken but important social contract that goes on everywhere in public. These attractive young people have dressed up for us to admire, and to make us feel good when we look at them. That's a gift they're giving us, and even though in this case at Hooters they are receiving wages in return for sharing these gifts with us, we should be thankful for the gift they are sharing with us. Part of being grateful is showing our appreciation verbally, and treating them with respect, especially if we get to flirt with them. Remember, it's a Look But Don't Touch social contract here. We show our respect and appreciation in cases like this elsewhere, and maybe they'll choose to let us touch them. Touching must always be a mutual choice, so make sure both of you are very comfortable with leaning in for a touch, before you go through with a touch.
#81 Nov 14 2013 at 11:13 PM Rating: Excellent
Did anyone write about the fact that after the Coach was fired Hooters said they'd throw the kids a party for free yet? Because that's kind of an awesome **** you to the school.
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#82 Nov 15 2013 at 3:09 AM Rating: Good
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Yeah, I'm sure that the kids are excited about eating those "delicious" hot wings a second time.
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#83 Nov 15 2013 at 7:11 AM Rating: Excellent
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"Ok kids, here we are at Hooters. It's a bit like an extreme version of an unspoken but important social contract that goes on everywhere in public. These attractive young people have dressed up for us to admire, and to make us feel good when we look at them. That's a gift they're giving us, and even though in this case at Hooters they are receiving wages in return for sharing these gifts with us, we should be thankful for the gift they are sharing with us. Part of being grateful is showing our appreciation verbally, and treating them with respect, especially if we get to flirt with them. Remember, it's a Look But Don't Touch social contract here. We show our respect and appreciation in cases like this elsewhere, and maybe they'll choose to let us touch them. Touching must always be a mutual choice, so make sure both of you are very comfortable with leaning in for a touch, before you go through with a touch.


I doubt that'd have the desired effect, for several reasons:

1) No-one talks like that.
2) It sounds like you're talking about animals at a petting zoo, probably not the right tone to strike.
3) The suggestion that people usually dress up as some kind of favour to those around them. This isn't the case.
4) You can't have a serious discussion while using the word hooters. It's just not possible. 'even though in this case at hooters' is one of the funniest things to have ever been posted on this website, though, so congratulations on that one.
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Well, their handbook describes "the essence" of their concept as "entertainment through female sex appeal" so splitting hairs over the the word "vicarious" at this point seems a bit silly.


I don't think the difference between "sex appeal" and "sexual entertainment" is silly or minimal in this context. It's the difference between a waitress serving food while wearing a sexy outfit and a stripper doing a pole dance while taking off her sexy outfit.

You're seriously gonna argue this point just to be on the opposite side of everyone else?

The question remains, despite it not being a strip joint, is it sensible and advisable to bring a bunch of 'kids' that are not your own, to a restaurant who's theme is women's boobs.

I bet there would be a lot of conservatives that were not ok with this. You should poll your peeps cuz I don't think you're spouting the appropriate party message here.

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#85 Nov 15 2013 at 7:22 AM Rating: Excellent
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Aripyanfar wrote:
"Ok kids, here we are at Hooters. It's a bit like an extreme version of an unspoken but important social contract that goes on everywhere in public. These attractive young people have dressed up for us to admire, and to make us feel good when we look at them. That's a gift they're giving us, and even though in this case at Hooters they are receiving wages in return for sharing these gifts with us, we should be thankful for the gift they are sharing with us. Part of being grateful is showing our appreciation verbally, and treating them with respect, especially if we get to flirt with them. Remember, it's a Look But Don't Touch social contract here. We show our respect and appreciation in cases like this elsewhere, and maybe they'll choose to let us touch them. Touching must always be a mutual choice, so make sure both of you are very comfortable with leaning in for a touch, before you go through with a touch.


I doubt that'd have the desired effect, for several reasons:

1) No-one talks like that.
2) It sounds like you're talking about animals at a petting zoo, probably not the right tone to strike.
3) The suggestion that people usually dress up as some kind of favour to those around them. This isn't the case.
4) You can't have a serious discussion while using the word hooters. It's just not possible. 'even though in this case at hooters' is one of the funniest things to have ever been posted on this website, though, so congratulations on that one.

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You're seriously gonna argue this point just to be on the opposite side of everyone else?


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#88 Nov 15 2013 at 10:41 AM Rating: Excellent
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You're seriously gonna argue this point just to be on the opposite side of everyone else?


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#89 Nov 15 2013 at 4:54 PM Rating: Decent
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The question remains, despite it not being a strip joint, is it sensible and advisable to bring a bunch of 'kids' that are not your own, to a restaurant who's theme is women's boobs.


They're not your own kids either though. Ironically, my understanding is that the parents of the kids didn't have a problem with it. The coach didn't get any complaints from the parents of the football team. Aren't they the one's who matter here? Who the hell are you, or I, or the nosy athletic director who decided to butt himself into this, to decide that the coach can't do this?

What happened here is a district administrator who abused his authority in order to impose his own opinion on others. He's the one who should be fired, not the coach who's greatest crime was standing up to the thought police. My understanding is that one person complained. This person was not a parent or any of the kids, but was a patron of the athletic program for the district. Based on that, the athletic director sent out an incredibly inflammatory letter to a large audience about this terrible thing going on. And of course, you send this out to enough people, you'll get a bunch who will be outraged.

And something that shouldn't have been a big deal at all got blown out of proportion.

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I bet there would be a lot of conservatives that were not ok with this. You should poll your peeps cuz I don't think you're spouting the appropriate party message here.


Given that the overwhelming rationale given by those outraged about this is the same "objectification of women" line you've been spouting, I suspect you're pretty much 100% wrong about which "side" thinks this is a big deal and which doesn't. I honestly believe that many liberals have no clue what conservatives really care about, much less what their social/moral positions are or how they derive them.

I know that the stereotypes you've been taught say otherwise, but it's liberals who spend much more effort trying to tell others how to live their lives, not conservatives.
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Except for the religious conservatives.
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Except for the religious conservatives.


Or the religious liberals. So how about we just say "religious" and not associate it with a political orientation? Take that away, and we're left with just "liberals" in terms of political alignment acting as a thought police organization.
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I honestly believe that many liberals have no clue what conservatives really care about, much less what their social/moral positions are or how they derive them.
Neither side has a clue, it'd be humorous if it wasn't such a road block. That's what happens when the two sides get their news from completely different sources? Different spin on the same stories is humorous enough, then you look at the stories the other sides don't even bother to cover, and the gap is just ridiculous. It's no wonder nobody knows what anyone else is talking about.

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#93 Nov 15 2013 at 5:18 PM Rating: Excellent
No, gbaji's right on this one. Conservatives don't give a **** about women.
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No, gbaji's right on this one. Conservatives don't give a sh*t about women.


And liberals associate taking specific positions on an issue in the context of being for/against a group of people. Conservatives don't. To us, this really isn't at all about whether we like or dislike women, and we don't arrogantly assume that our personal set of political agendas is what's "best for women" and anyone who disagrees is a sexist pig. Silly us, we let individuals decide for themselves absent misinformation and fear mongering.

Which, I suppose, is why my opinion of Hooters is based on having actually gone there and seen what they are like, while yours is based entirely on what some politically minded organizations have told you. I'll take my method of making decisions every time.
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#95 Nov 15 2013 at 5:32 PM Rating: Excellent
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No, gbaji's right on this one. Conservatives don't give a sh*t about women.


And liberals associate taking specific positions on an issue in the context of being for/against a group of people. Conservatives don't. To us, this really isn't at all about whether we like or dislike women, and we don't arrogantly assume that our personal set of political agendas is what's "best for women" and anyone who disagrees is a sexist pig. Silly us, we let individuals decide for themselves absent misinformation and fear mongering.

Which, I suppose, is why my opinion of Hooters is based on having actually gone there and seen what they are like, while yours is based entirely on what some politically minded organizations have told you. I'll take my method of making decisions every time.


It's hilarious that you are lecturing me about how liberals label people who disagree with them and want to let individuals "decide for themselves" in one paragraph and speak condescendingly to me regarding my opinion regarding a restaurant that objectifies women in the very next paragraph. You're such a hypocrite, it's hilarious. This entire thread, you have attacked my opinion, told me I'm wrong, and tried to dissuade me from holding my own opinion while I have not judged one person for enjoying this restaurant, and openly stated that I have no problem with people working at or patronizing this place.

You're a piece of work, gbaji.
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To start, the best Hooters that I've been to was in China. They do line dance routines. Pretty funny.

If you have never been to Hooters, it's probably not what you expect. Most guys spend more time watching sports than talking to women. I do not place Hooters along with other restaurants, but to be fair, other establishments (not just restaurants, i.e. retail) use attractive women and sensuality to make money. I believe Hooters takes it a step further, but the concept is similar, but not exactly the same. T

As a member of the school faculty and staff, I would be against the idea because that is just asking for unnecessary drama. As a parent, I wouldn't care.
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It's hilarious that you are lecturing me about how liberals label people who disagree with them and want to let individuals "decide for themselves" in one paragraph and speak condescendingly to me regarding my opinion regarding a restaurant that objectifies women in the very next paragraph.


Why is that hilarious? Given that your opinion is based on blind acceptance of ideologically driven hearsay rather than actual examination of facts, those two things seem perfectly congruous.

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You're such a hypocrite, it's hilarious. This entire thread, you have attacked my opinion, told me I'm wrong, and tried to dissuade me from holding my own opinion...


No. I've told you that you should base that opinion on observation rather than hearsay.


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Except the coach, and well... anyone who enjoys the restaurant.

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... and openly stated that I have no problem with people working at or patronizing this place.


Except for all the times you've made it clear that you believe that Hooters is a terrible place because they objectify women and to patronize such a place is to endorse such objectification and that by taking kids to Hooters the coach is perpetuating a culture of male objectification of women. So aside from pretty much every post you've made in this thread, you're correct that you've clearly expressed no problem with people working at or patronizing Hooters.

You're kidding, right? You couldn't have kept a straight face while typing that.
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Except for the religious conservatives.


Or the religious liberals. So how about we just say "religious" and not associate it with a political orientation? Take that away, and we're left with just "liberals" in terms of political alignment acting as a thought police organization.
No. It's liberals and religious conservatives. Liberals includes religious liberals. I know you want to find anyway to exclude conservatives but the fact is the religious right is all about social engineering as well. And like it or not, they're conservatives.
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gbaji wrote:
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Except for the religious conservatives.


Or the religious liberals. So how about we just say "religious" and not associate it with a political orientation? Take that away, and we're left with just "liberals" in terms of political alignment acting as a thought police organization.
No. It's liberals and religious conservatives. Liberals includes religious liberals.


No. We have religious people and liberals. If both religious liberals and religious conservative have problems with Hooters for sexual morality reasons, it's not their political affiliation but their religion that is the cause. So they hold that position because they are "religious". Period. The only political affiliation that has an issue with Hooters is "liberal" because of the whole overactive feminism thing. Conservatives have no issue with it at all case we're not uptight like that.

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I know you want to find anyway to exclude conservatives but the fact is the religious right is all about social engineering as well.


As is the religious left. Thus, it's the "religious" part, not conservative or liberal that defines that particular position. I exclude conservatives because being conservative doesn't have anything at all to do with whether one might oppose Hoooters. Being devoutly religious or liberal will though. Thus, it's more correct to identify those two groups as the ones that might have an issue with the restaurant (well aside from food critics, cause their food isn't exactly stellar or anything).

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And like it or not, they're conservatives.


And a bank robber might also be left handed, but we don't blame left handed people for stealing our money, do we? Seriously? Being conservative isn't what makes one oppose Hooters because the women are scantily dressed and that's some kind of sin or something. Being puritanically religious is what makes one adopt that position. And that level of religious belief can (and does) exist on all side of the political spectrum and has nothing at all to do with politics.


I know that there's this ridiculous need on the left to make "conservative" and "religious" synonymous, and it's amazing the lengths some will go to in order to perpetuate that myth, but it's simply not true.

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**** it, you're so ******* blind you're not worth actually talking to, just taking pot shots at.

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@#%^ it, you're so @#%^ing blind you're not worth actually talking to, just taking pot shots at.


Lol! Or maybe a miracle occurred and you realized just how ridiculously absurd your argument was and decided to stop making yourself look more foolish by continuing to repeat it?


I mean, it's not even a difficult thing to understand. One only needs to have a basic grasp of how adjectives work. If, for example, I said that the quick brown fox jumped over the lazy dog, only a complete idiot would argue that the speed of the fox is "brown" and the color is "quick". They would realize that each of those adjectives describes a different aspect of the fox. Strange that this is such an alien concept for you.
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