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#52 Nov 07 2013 at 2:56 PM Rating: Default
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Again, it's an argument that I understand and it's not that complicated. It just also happens to be one that I emphatically disagree with and illustrates why I vote on the blue side of the ticket.


Except you don't. Not in all cases. That's what I'm trying to get at. Where is the line where the freedom to discriminate is ok versus where it is not? All choices are discrimination. I guess I'm trying to get you to define some kind of criteria that differentiates forms of discrimination that are ok and those which are not. How do you decide that it's ok to refuse to hire an alcoholic, but not ok to refuse to hire a homosexual? I assume you think it's ok to discriminate when hiring on the basis of work experience? Why? Why is that not a violation of the right of the potential worker?

You're getting caught up in the specifics of this one case and really not seeing the bigger issue I'm getting at. Discrimination is not always wrong. It can't always be wrong. But it seems like many people selectively choose to pretend it is when discussing specific instances of discrimination. And to me, that appears to be an attempt to avoid making the argument for that specific instance. You fall back on "discrimination is wrong!" instead. But that's clearly not the case. We allow discrimination most of the time. The cases where discrimination is wrong are actually the exception and not the rule. So isn't it important to actually make the argument for why this one case should also be an exception?
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How do you decide that it's ok to refuse to hire an alcoholic, but not ok to refuse to hire a homosexual?
Are you actually retarded or just pretending?
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Except you don't. Not in all cases.

You're right: I rate discrimination against homosexuals differently than discrimination against felons or discrimination against people who like Rob Schneider movies.

You found me out. It's true. And, no, I don't feel the need to try to explain to you why I don't weigh them the same. You think that's some win? Fine, call it a win. You win the purity of the party that accepts this discrimination ("for liberty!") and I have to settle for the guys who don't. Poor me, huh?

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At the very least Gbaji, you can eliminate almost all of your laughable examples on the basis of choice.
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gbaji wrote:
How do you decide that it's ok to refuse to hire an alcoholic, but not ok to refuse to hire a homosexual?
Alcoholic? Smiley: dubious

So like is there a criminal record with multiple instances of alcohol-related arrests, or just someone writing "I liek beer" on their facebook thingy?
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Jophiel wrote:
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Except you don't. Not in all cases.

You're right: I rate discrimination against homosexuals differently than discrimination against felons or discrimination against people who like Rob Schneider movies.


Why?

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And, no, I don't feel the need to try to explain to you why I don't weigh them the same.


Why not? Isn't that the core of the issue? You believe that some discrimination is ok, but others are not, but you're utterly unwilling or unable to say why? Isn't that insane? Shouldn't that be a problem? How do you make decisions?

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You think that's some win? Fine, call it a win.


Yes, I do. Because if you can't explain why you make a decision like that, then your decision is more or less arbitrary and can be safely ignored. And if we were talking about your inability to explain how you choose which color socks to wear, no one would care. But in this case, we're talking about how we decide which classes of people are granted a special constitutional (civil rights) exemption. It's a sufficiently big deal that it maybe deserves a bit more thought than you seem to be giving it.
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I find it telling that while several people have responded with various degrees of scorn, dismissal, and derision, not one person has actually been able to answer the somewhat important question I asked.
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gbaji wrote:
I find it telling that while several people have responded with various degrees of scorn, dismissal, and derision, not one person has actually been able to answer the somewhat important question I asked.
Well I was trying to, but what do you mean by alcoholic? There's a difference between someone who has a history of causing alcohol-related problems both in and out of the workplace and someone who has a few too many beers.

Floating around with some concept of "proven potential dangers to workplace, productivity, society, and such," but haven't really teased it out yet. Smiley: tongue

Yeah something like that. Smiley: rolleyes

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I responded with a very simple reason, not my fault you ignored it.
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ENDA passed the Senate today with all Democrats voting for it plus ten Republicans.
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Wow, 2 Arizona Senators. Better to be gay than an immigrant.
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I find it telling that while several people have responded with various degrees of scorn, dismissal, and derision, not one person has actually been able to answer the somewhat important question I asked.
Well I was trying to, but what do you mean by alcoholic? There's a difference between someone who has a history of causing alcohol-related problems both in and out of the workplace and someone who has a few too many beers.


It's not about whether someone's an alcoholic, or how we determine that. You're missing the forest for the trees. It could be the color shirt someone wears, or whether they like boxers or briefs, or wear a hat. It's not about the specific case, but about what criteria you use to determine which cases are ok and which aren't.

Is is ok for me to refuse to hire people based on the color of their eyes? Assuming no direct correlation to race is involved, this doesn't violate the civil rights laws of this country, right? How about the size of someone's hands? Or feet? Hair length? Height? Weight? It's not about the specific criteria, but how we decide which criteria is "ok" to discriminate based on, and which aren't? I'm asking for a non-circular criteria for this (so "because that's discrimination", or "that would violate someone's rights" isn't a good answer). Why do some forms of discrimination violate someone's rights sufficiently to justify prohibiting them, but others do not? And if it is truly arbitrary, then is there really a morality issue involved at all? And if there isn't an absolute morality issue involved, then are we wrong to demonize people simply because they disagree with our completely arbitrary decision?


That's where I'm going with this.
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At the very least Gbaji, you can eliminate almost all of your laughable examples on the basis of choice.


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I responded with a very simple reason, not my fault you ignored it.


Er? That's the only post in this thread by you I could find and it does not come remotely close to answering the question I asked. Did I miss a post somewhere?
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gbaji wrote:
Is is ok for me to refuse to hire people based on the color of their eyes? Assuming no direct correlation to race is involved, this doesn't violate the civil rights laws of this country, right? How about the size of someone's hands? Or feet? Hair length? Height? Weight? It's not about the specific criteria, but how we decide which criteria is "ok" to discriminate based on, and which aren't? I'm asking for a non-circular criteria for this (so "because that's discrimination", or "that would violate someone's rights" isn't a good answer). Why do some forms of discrimination violate someone's rights sufficiently to justify prohibiting them, but others do not? And if it is truly arbitrary, then is there really a morality issue involved at all? And if there isn't an absolute morality issue involved, then are we wrong to demonize people simply because they disagree with our completely arbitrary decision?


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proven potential dangers to workplace, productivity, society, and such


Outside of a BFOQ or something, of course.

We can say past criminal behavior is part of that, or poor workplace performance, etc. Other criteria are kinda goofy though yes? Not good for business anyway. I mean it's not like being gay makes you a poor worker. Maybe angrily arguing with your customers about them not accepting your lifestyle, but that's a general-purpose angrily arguing with customers is bad thing.
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gbaji wrote:
Why not?

You confuse me not wanting to spend the time explaining to you with me having no reasons or thought behind it. I'm under no illusions that you'll ever say "Well, that makes sense" and, in fact, have spent numerous conversations with you where you repeatedly insist that no one has explained something that was in fact explained time after time after time.

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Because if you can't explain why you make a decision like that, then your decision is more or less arbitrary and can be safely ignored.

Again, I'm okay with you ignoring my opinion on this. It doesn't hurt my feelings that Gbaji thinks my reasons for thinking that workplace discrimination against homosexuals aren't good enough. It doesn't worry me if you think I have no reasons and I was brainwashed or tricked or mass media indoctrinated me or whatever. I'm okay with that. I merely said that the GOP response (or, more pointedly your explanation for the GOP response and opinions by those such as Rep & Sen Paul(s)) reminded me why I don't vote Republican. Your repeated responses seem to indicate that you're more upset about my opinions on this than I am about yours.



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Where is the line where the freedom to discriminate is ok versus where it is not?

Race, color, religion, sex, national origin, political affiliation, sexual orientation, age, gender, gender identity, marital status, pregnancy, national origin/ancestry, citizenship, physical/mental disability, military status, disability and genetic information, age, membership in an Associate organization.

It's fairly well codified what society considers unacceptable discrimination. Sexual orientation in the past hasn't been considered one of those things, it is now. I'm sure this is understandably confusing to you, stuck in 1984. Trust me, it gets better. You'll be ok.
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I find it telling that while several people have responded with various degrees of scorn, dismissal, and derision, not one person has actually been able to answer the somewhat important question I asked.
I find it telling that you associate homosexuals and black people to pedophiles and felons.
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gbaji wrote:
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You're right: I rate discrimination against homosexuals differently than discrimination against felons or discrimination against people who like Rob Schneider movies.
Why?
I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that it's because Jophiel isn't an elitist, privileged, bigoted douche.


Just a guess, though.
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Jophiel wrote:
You're right: I rate discrimination against homosexuals differently than discrimination against felons or discrimination against people who like Rob Schneider movies.
Why?
I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that it's because Jophiel isn't an elitist, privileged, bigoted douche.


Just a guess, though.

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Where is the line where the freedom to discriminate is ok versus where it is not?

Race, color, religion, sex, national origin, political affiliation, sexual orientation, age, gender, gender identity, marital status, pregnancy, national origin/ancestry, citizenship, physical/mental disability, military status, disability and genetic information, age, membership in an Associate organization.

It's fairly well codified what society considers unacceptable discrimination. Sexual orientation in the past hasn't been considered one of those things, it is now.


This is precisely the circular answer I said wasn't valid (but predicted that most people could not avoid, so thanks for being typical). You basically just said that the criteria for characteristics we protect from discrimination is whatever we've written into our laws to be protected from discrimination. Which is completely circular.

I'm asking what criteria we use to decide what the law should say. The fact that this is so hard for most people to even attempt to answer should be telling.
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gbaji wrote:
I find it telling that while several people have responded with various degrees of scorn, dismissal, and derision, not one person has actually been able to answer the somewhat important question I asked.
I find it telling that you associate homosexuals and black people to pedophiles and felons.


I find it telling that you focus on those comparisons while ignoring all the others I listed like people who are short, tall, fat, skinny, have long hair, any given eye color, big hands, wear a given type or color of clothes, etc. I'm not making *any* specific comparison. I'm asking people to actually expend a bit of brain power and ask themselves why they accept some forms of discrimination and not others. And it's interesting how uncomfortable this makes most of you.
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The fact that this is so hard for most people to even attempt to answer should be telling.

It is "hard to answer" because it's a complex question. You want a pithy simple soundbite answer because that's the easiest for you to live with -- just like "Marriage is for kids!" is easier to compartmentalize than the complex realities of marriage law over the years.

One could suggest that you, for example, look through the testimony and hearings about previous discrimination laws and those surrounding ENDA and read for yourself what criteria are being used but since you still cling to "Marriage is for kids!", I don't have any hopes that you'd put that sort of effort into this topic either.
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I'm asking people to actually expend a bit of brain power and ask themselves why they accept some forms of discrimination and not others. And it's interesting how uncomfortable this makes most of you.
It's kind of sad that your best attempt at deep thought discussion is basically infantile naysaying. It is kind of adorable you think you make anyone uncomfortable though. I guess it really is no wonder you're a button pusher and not an actual thinker. But I digress, keep insisting how being left handed is totally the same as being a convicted serial arsonist.
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I find it telling that you focus on those comparisons while ignoring all the others I listed like people who are short, tall, fat, skinny, have long hair, any given eye color, big hands, wear a given type or color of clothes, etc.


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I could go in the other direction and mock someone whose faith says that a @#%^phile can't be a clerk in their store. There's no objective absolute right and wrong here.
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At one point in time, homosexuality was considered aberrant sexual behavior and was illegal, just as @#%^philia is considered aberrant sexual behavior and is illegal today. We cannot therefore assume that at some point in the future, there wont be a group of forward thinking progressive people on an internet forum bashing backwards thinking conservative people because even though we've finally realized that sex with children isn't aberrant
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the owner of Chick-fil-a decides that in keeping with his businesses principles regarding the morality of its workers, and his own personal belief that homosexuality is sinful, that he cannot allow openly gay workers to be employed at his business since this would be a contradiction (how can he claim to be promoting morality when he's employing people who engage in immoral behavior?). To him, this is no more discriminatory than saying that he will not hire drug addicts, or felons, or anyone else who engages in behavior that he believes is not representative of the standards he believes in.
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So we're free to choose whether we want to hire people who are drug users, but not free to choose whether we want to hire people who engage in same sex relations


But yeah, there was also the one post you made where you picked criteria that weren't child molesters or substance abusers so go you Smiley: laugh
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The fact that this is so hard for most people to even attempt to answer should be telling.

It is "hard to answer" because it's a complex question. You want a pithy simple soundbite answer because that's the easiest for you to live with -- just like "Marriage is for kids!" is easier to compartmentalize than the complex realities of marriage law over the years.


And yet, conservatives have no problems providing those complex explanations and arguments for their positions, while it seems to almost be a staple of liberal thought to avoid this at all costs in favor of the emotional response approach.

You're free to disagree with them, but the libertarian who says that he believes the infringement of liberty is not justified in this case is a completely valid and logical argument. And when asked, he'll talk at length about how liberty is affected, how discrimination is an inherent part of liberty, and how there's no evidence that this specific discrimination is sufficiently harmful to the population in question to require adding it to the protected list. And if pressed, he might contrast this to other groups who could demonstrably be shown to be harmed as a result of similar discrimination.

Can you show me statistics that gay people as a whole suffer economically because we don't have laws prohibiting employers from discriminating against them on the basis of their homosexuality? Not "one person is harmed", but "the group as a whole is statistically worse off". Because we can show these kinds of statistics historically when we look at gender discrimination, or racial discrimination, or religious discrimination. Add this to a conservatives inherent opposition to adding more laws without need, and the position on this issue makes a hell of a lot of sense.


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One could suggest that you, for example, look through the testimony and hearings about previous discrimination laws and those surrounding ENDA and read for yourself what criteria are being used but since you still cling to "Marriage is for kids!", I don't have any hopes that you'd put that sort of effort into this topic either.


I have. Have you? I've been trying to get you guys to do this all thread long. So many people have responded with a knee jerk assumption that discrimination against homosexuals is no different than discrimination against blacks, or women, but I'm trying to get them to actually assess if this is really true. I think they are completely different. Outside of just "being discrimination" (which I've already argued and I hope we all agree is not wrong all by itself), all we have is an arbitrary decision to include this group in that category which requires protection. I don't believe that there's actual good demonstrable data to support that assumption though.


Do you think there is? It's what I'm trying to get you to look at. Don't assume it is because that's what you've been told. And don't assume it is because you've been told anyone who doesn't think so is "bad". Actually look at the data. Find me data that shows that this is such a great problem in our society and that homosexuals suffer a massive statistical inability to obtain gainful employment that this law must be enacted. It's not there, is it? This isn't about addressing a problem. It's about creating a wedge and coming up with yet another bogus issue that can be used to paint the rational people in our society (that's conservatives btw) as "bad" by encouraging people to act on emotion rather than reason.


And *that's* why I don't vote Democrat.
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To be fair we should point out the discrimination wasn't found in all states. Texas has some explaining to do though. Smiley: disappointed

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