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#52 Mar 21 2013 at 9:02 AM Rating: Good
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Delusions of Grandeur thread now? How did you view the world when Disney security was dragging your foamy mouth out of the park? Did 10 4 year olds conspire to get that done?

They actually drag you under the park, through a tunnel, and then up out of a parking lot a surprisingly long way from the park. I don't have delusions of grandeur, you're confusing it with the lack of false modesty I also don't bother with. Of course, I realize it's expected to treat others as intellectual equals even when they aren't, but I'm not going to. Mainly because the expectations of idiots don't mean that much to me.
Does, "It's a small world" magically emanate from the tunnel walls while you're being escorted by dozens of cute little costumed kids from around the world?
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I suddenly can't help but wonder.. would you rather be dragged out of Disneyland by one adult sized 4 year old or ten child sized adults?
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Delusions of Grandeur thread now? How did you view the world when Disney security was dragging your foamy mouth out of the park? Did 10 4 year olds conspire to get that done?

They actually drag you under the park, through a tunnel, and then up out of a parking lot a surprisingly long way from the park. I don't have delusions of grandeur, you're confusing it with the lack of false modesty I also don't bother with. Of course, I realize it's expected to treat others as intellectual equals even when they aren't, but I'm not going to. Mainly because the expectations of idiots don't mean that much to me.

Yeah, but you post *here*.
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Does, "It's a small world" magically emanate from the tunnel walls while you're being escorted by dozens of cute little costumed kids from around the world?

Sadly, no. The security people do have disneyfied "ranks" though, like "Sergeant at Hugs".

I'm kidding, they're douche-bag rentacops as you'd expect.

Edited, Mar 21st 2013 11:55am by Smasharoo
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I'm the only one in my family that is certifiably sane. This is why I'm not having kids of my own. My sisters all have something along the bipolar spectrum, and in one case, schizophrenia.

My husband was diagnosed as Aspi back when it was still separate from autism spectrum, but now the diagnosis is questionable since he "grew out of it" - like many kids do.

Just because your kid likes to count how many red cars they saw today doesn't mean they're autistic spectrum. They probably are bored and like red cars. (He drove one for ten years then crashed it... plain boring orangey-silver-good Toyota now.)

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That's adorable.
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Nilatai wrote:
Elinda wrote:
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That's adorable.
How do you obtain a Certificate of Sanity?

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Funnily, I always thought there was a good chance that Smash was kind of autistic. Not even kidding.

No, what I have is "I live in a world populated and controlled by people who are almost exclusively as stupid and unaware as children". Pretty common among those of my intellectual strata. There are no content, happy, well adjusted very smart people. Gather 10 4 year olds, and allow them to make all of your household decisions for a year and at the end of that you'll get a small taste of how I view the world.


I used to think the same way until I started to grow out of my (relatively mild) Aspergers Smiley: lol There are actually plenty of very intelligent, happy, well-adjusted people. Socially maladjusted people just don't usually really get to know them, especially when they extrapolate minor points of disagreement into proof of their individual superiority.

Arguably, there's no such thing as someone truly smart who lives their life in constant dissatisfaction. That **** is for fools. You accept the world is ****** and unfair, and you make a happy little bubble to live in.

Honestly, sounds to me like it could be some HFA.
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Arguably, there's no such thing as someone truly smart who lives their life in constant dissatisfaction.
Are there truly non-smart people who live their lives in constant dissatisfaction?
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A battery of psychologists for two years in middle school.

I think it was a letter actually. But it had the school board's seal on it.
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Arguably, there's no such thing as someone truly smart who lives their life in constant dissatisfaction.
Are there truly non-smart people who live their lives in constant dissatisfaction?


Of course. There are plenty of those. Most of them are here.
Kidding Smiley: lol
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I get tired of what feels like people's need to slap a label on somebody who isn't "normal". My brother's wife is convinced that I have aspergers just because I don't feel the need to be with people all the time. I can spend an hour or 2 around others, but then I need to get away and be alone. I make remarks about her paying to hang out with people in college because she was in a sorority and I don't understand the whole greek thing. I believe facebook and cell phones are leading to the devolution of society. And I can't write a decent resume because it feels too much like lying when you start adding flavor to what should be a cut and dried, fact based work history. So in her eyes, since I'm comfortable with my role in world and am not out to impress total strangers, something must be wrong with me.
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I used to think the same way until I started to grow out of my (relatively mild) Aspergers Smiley: lol There are actually plenty of very intelligent, happy, well-adjusted people.

No, there are plenty of *reasonably intelligent" happy, well-adjusted people. It's not at all the same. People in the 98th percentile of intelligence accomplish a lot, live happy lives and are recognized as bright by their peers and families. People in the 99.9th percentile of intelligence live tormented lives, kill themselves at a rate around 20 times higher than the general population and are recognized as "different" and "difficult" by their peers.

Not something I made up out of hubris or emo attention seeking, it's a known phenomenon. People generally associate with those who near to them in intelligence, when there are fewer and fewer of those people in the world, socialization becomes more difficult. Not that you can't learn to fake it to get laid, it's easy, but really, how would your social life be impacted if you really only had anything in common with people who had the same first and middle name as you. How many of them would you meet if you didn't go out of your way to find them?
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I can spend an hour or 2 around others, but then I need to get away and be alone.


Your wife is an extrovert. You are an introvert. Extroverts tend not to understand introverts, and to think there's something wrong with us, and to get very excited about the prospect of fixing us.

On the other hand, if you can work with it, it's a pretty good balance.
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Arguably, there's no such thing as someone truly smart who lives their life in constant dissatisfaction.
Are there truly non-smart people who live their lives in constant dissatisfaction?


Of course. There are plenty of those. Most of them are here.
Kidding Smiley: lol

I would say the majority that post here fall in the average range of intelligence. Perhaps a few in the upper part of the curve and a couple in the lower, but all still under the bell. I would also surmise that all have some satisfaction in their lives. I bet even Varus would smile at Okra picking time.

What I have a hard time believing is that someone with extraordinary intelligence would be spending their time arguing this unanswerable question with strangers on in internet gaming forum.
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What I have a hard time believing is that someone with extraordinary intelligence would be spending their time arguing this unanswerable question with strangers on in internet gaming forum.

Interesting that you'd assume you could understand the motivation behind them doing anything. Which, of course, is the rub. The idea of what hyper intelligent people *should be* in the minds of others is as useful as a 2 year old's idea of what being an astronaut is like.
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What I have a hard time believing is that someone with extraordinary intelligence would be spending their time arguing this unanswerable question with strangers on in internet gaming forum.

Interesting that you'd assume you could understand the motivation behind them doing anything. Which, of course, is the rub. The idea of what hyper intelligent people *should be* in the minds of others is as useful as a 2 year old's idea of what being an astronaut is like.
I don't get it.
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a 2 year old's idea of what being an astronaut is like.

Space, right? You go into space?
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Space, right? You go into space?

It's like a bouncy castle.
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What hyper-intelligent people SHOULD be doing is inventing teleporters and food synthesizers and shit to make my life easier.
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Why would I care about your life being easier?
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What hyper-intelligent people SHOULD be doing is inventing teleporters and food synthesizers and shit to make my life easier.


You know **** well that the airline industry buried the teleportation devices.

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I can spend an hour or 2 around others, but then I need to get away and be alone.


Your wife is an extrovert. You are an introvert. Extroverts tend not to understand introverts, and to think there's something wrong with us, and to get very excited about the prospect of fixing us.

On the other hand, if you can work with it, it's a pretty good balance.


It is his sister-in-law, so that might be a little awkward.
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Nobody who willfully debates with Gbaji on this forum should be considered above the 98th percentile. I don't give a flying @#%^ what opinion you have about yourself; the sheer act of interacting with people like Gbaji is a detriment to your intellect.

I think an Alma debate is worse for you than a gbaji one.

Posters should come with warning labels.

Also, i the above quoted text shouldn't it begin with anybody rather than nobody?

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Nobody who willfully debates with Gbaji on this forum should be considered above the 98th percentile. I don't give a flying @#%^ what opinion you have about yourself; the sheer act of interacting with people like Gbaji is a detriment to your intellect.

I think an Alma debate is worse for you than a gbaji one.

Posters should come with warning labels.


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Nobody who willfully debates with Gbaji on this forum should be considered above the 98th percentile. I don't give a flying @#%^ what opinion you have about yourself; the sheer act of interacting with people like Gbaji is a detriment to your intellect.

Nah, just your emotional health. As I'm a soft fluffy ball of barely suppressed homicidal rage at the best of times, one more long on that fire doesn't really do much.
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on balance, you'd probably want to err on the side of treating people who don't really need it rather than missing people who do.


I actually disagree entirely when it comes to mental illness if by treatment you mean drugs. If by treatment you mean therapy, sure, that's fine, but many of those meds have really serious side effects and limited efficacy even with the people they are designed to treat (see: anti-depressants).

I'm all for over-abundance of caution, but overprescribing or mis-prescribing medication can have serious, long-term deleterious health effects. I don't think, especially with children, we should be erring on the side of overprescribing, especially when in many cases behavioral therapy is a better treatment option anyway.

So yeah, therapy for everyone who wants it, drugs... let's be more careful.
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I actually disagree entirely when it comes to mental illness if by treatment you mean drugs. If by treatment you mean therapy, sure, that's fine, but many of those meds have really serious side effects and limited efficacy even with the people they are designed to treat (see: anti-depressants).

I'm all for over-abundance of caution, but overprescribing or mis-prescribing medication can have serious, long-term deleterious health effects. I don't think, especially with children, we should be erring on the side of overprescribing, especially when in many cases behavioral therapy is a better treatment option anyway.

So yeah, therapy for everyone who wants it, drugs... let's be more careful.


Nah, I'd err on the side of medicating healthy people with psychoactive drugs with serious side effects. In fact, I generally just advocate for that wholesale without the charade of a "diagnosis"
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Nobody who willfully debates with Gbaji on this forum should be considered above the 98th percentile. I don't give a flying @#%^ what opinion you have about yourself; the sheer act of interacting with people like Gbaji is a detriment to your intellect.

Nah, just your emotional health. As I'm a soft fluffy ball of barely suppressed homicidal rage at the best of times, one more long on that fire doesn't really do much.


That and you already told them why you argue with me.
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I can spend an hour or 2 around others, but then I need to get away and be alone.


Your wife is an extrovert. You are an introvert. Extroverts tend not to understand introverts, and to think there's something wrong with us, and to get very excited about the prospect of fixing us.

On the other hand, if you can work with it, it's a pretty good balance.


It is his sister-in-law, so that might be a little awkward.


Awkwardly awesome, you mean!
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I actually disagree entirely when it comes to mental illness if by treatment you mean drugs. If by treatment you mean therapy, sure, that's fine, but many of those meds have really serious side effects and limited efficacy even with the people they are designed to treat (see: anti-depressants).

I'm all for over-abundance of caution, but overprescribing or mis-prescribing medication can have serious, long-term deleterious health effects. I don't think, especially with children, we should be erring on the side of overprescribing, especially when in many cases behavioral therapy is a better treatment option anyway.

So yeah, therapy for everyone who wants it, drugs... let's be more careful.


Nah, I'd err on the side of medicating healthy people with psychoactive drugs with serious side effects. In fact, I generally just advocate for that wholesale without the charade of a "diagnosis"

So...LSD in the drinking water along with fluoride?
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So...LSD in the drinking water along with fluoride?

Mescaline. I imagine you'd get arrested doing it today, but then I'm not sure that wasn't the case then. I was probably fortunate to have some unusual credentials with me that may have gained me some wiggle room there.
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I used to think the same way until I started to grow out of my (relatively mild) Aspergers Smiley: lol There are actually plenty of very intelligent, happy, well-adjusted people.

No, there are plenty of *reasonably intelligent" happy, well-adjusted people. It's not at all the same. People in the 98th percentile of intelligence accomplish a lot, live happy lives and are recognized as bright by their peers and families. People in the 99.9th percentile of intelligence live tormented lives, kill themselves at a rate around 20 times higher than the general population and are recognized as "different" and "difficult" by their peers.

Not something I made up out of hubris or emo attention seeking, it's a known phenomenon. People generally associate with those who near to them in intelligence, when there are fewer and fewer of those people in the world, socialization becomes more difficult. Not that you can't learn to fake it to get laid, it's easy, but really, how would your social life be impacted if you really only had anything in common with people who had the same first and middle name as you. How many of them would you meet if you didn't go out of your way to find them?


This is demonstrably wrong. The 98th percentile puts you in MENSA, which is not difficult to get into. 1/50 people are eligible. My brother is in MENSA, for example. He's very intelligent. Relative to a genius? No, but still very intelligent. But your point is taken that these people aren't exactly geniuses.

However, there are a number of other organizations that only accept people at higher percentiles, including people in the 99.9th percentile of intelligence. These people are not all living tortured, tormented lives. Many of them are socially well-adjusted and doing just fine. Yeah, there are tortured geniuses... usually those who can't adapt to the lunacy of our societal norms and expectations, but others find ways to cope with it and carry on.

I have -never- met someone I considered to be my intellectual equal (you're welcome to think that's hubris; I've learned not to care). e.g., I trounce the MENSA people I know in games of strategy. I was virtually a recluse for seven years just because I couldn't tolerate other people. It wasn't that I didn't know or understand social conventions--I was just miserably frustrated being around normal people. Every time they would open their mouths, the words that came out would bore me at best, and often make me cringe inside. I became a complete misanthrope. I described it the same as you--like I was surrounded by little children. But I learned to be fine with the solitude. And then I started to grow out of it, and found a wonderful, very intelligent partner who appreciates the way I am. I learned to accept and ignore the world's problems and live my life according to my own meaning.

There's nothing to inherently make a genius unhappy. Intelligence can be used as a tool to thrive in solitude, or it can be used to find a niche for your life that involves others. Are you statistically more likely to be unhappy? Yes. But you also have one of the greatest tools in the world for overcoming long odds.
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Ok, now we're going to get slash fiction of Wint x Kachi somehere... rule 34 and all...

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Good games are subjective like good food is subjective. You're not going to seriously tell me that there's not a psychological basis for why pizza is great and lutefisk is revolting. The thing about subjectivity is that, as subjects go, humans actually have a great deal in common.
#92 Mar 22 2013 at 8:33 PM Rating: Excellent
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I have -never- met someone I considered to be my intellectual equal


Exactly how low on the scale do you rank?



Sarcasm aside, failure to recognize the intellectual capacity of others does not equate to you having a greater intellectual capacity yourself.
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I don't actually care if other people think I'm intelligent. I learned long ago that no one cares how intelligent you are, only what you do in life. And it certainly doesn't make you happy in and of itself.

And yes, I'm fully aware of the Dunning Kruger theory. My intelligence is established by objective measures and by comparisons to other highly intelligent people.

Intelligence is also merely a measure of potential. Being intelligent and being smart are quite different things. Many people with high intelligence waste that potential. I squander a fair bit of it myself.
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Ok, now we're going to get slash fiction of Wint x Kachi somehere... rule 34 and all...

Never confuse your inference as the listener for an implication of the speaker.

Good games are subjective like good food is subjective. You're not going to seriously tell me that there's not a psychological basis for why pizza is great and lutefisk is revolting. The thing about subjectivity is that, as subjects go, humans actually have a great deal in common.
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Kachi wrote:
I don't actually care if other people think I'm intelligent.
I, too, don't care about things that don't happen.
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I had to look that one up. So it's sort of how like everyone in America assumes himself or herself to be an above average driver, except for the NASCAR racers who know they're sort of okay at it, but they've still got good odds of dying as a fireball on the side of the road.
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Gee, nothing is more fun than having a conversation with people whose entire sense of self worth is wrapped around their belief of mental superiority over you.
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I don't think you can accuse Kachi of that. To my recollection, it's the first time he's brought the idea of him being extremely intelligent up in these forums.

Barkingturtle, Elderon, Nobby to an extent, and Smash of course, they all brought up their mental superiority numerous times. But then, they were/are all trolls, too.
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#99 Mar 23 2013 at 12:52 AM Rating: Excellent
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I don't think you can accuse Kachi of that. To my recollection, it's the first time he's brought the idea of him being extremely intelligent up in these forums.


When I noticed the posting name, I thought, "Oh great, the guy who thinks he's smarter than everyone."

Seriously. That's been his schtick for a while now.
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I'm sure I've probably joined in the ******* contests in my tenure here from time to time, but it's not like I'm remotely the only one, and that was quite a few years ago. I probably only stick out to you because I recall us getting into it a couple of times over really stupid things. At times I was condescending to you unjustly, and for that I apologize. I was probably just frustrated at the unsolvable puzzle that is gbaji's mind.

Has my opinion of my intelligence changed? Not really. But my opinion of the value of intelligence hasn't been very high for many years now. I've known too many people who wasted it, or used it as a justification to be an *** to others, or to feel superior. Knowing that as a truth and acting on it are different things, and I've gotten better at the latter as I've grown older. It's also very easy to mistake confidence for arrogance. Still not always so good at conveying that distinction, unfortunately.
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Ok, now we're going to get slash fiction of Wint x Kachi somehere... rule 34 and all...

Never confuse your inference as the listener for an implication of the speaker.

Good games are subjective like good food is subjective. You're not going to seriously tell me that there's not a psychological basis for why pizza is great and lutefisk is revolting. The thing about subjectivity is that, as subjects go, humans actually have a great deal in common.
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@catwho; It's exactly like that. People underestimate skills that they've never performed, and they exhibit confirmation biases and fundamental attribution errors when assessing their own ability level. Knowledge of evaluation generally requires knowledge of the skill, so people who don't have the skill to do it well also lack the skill to evaluate whether it is being done well. Not just skills but traits like humor, intelligence, compassion, etc.

@Allegory; I assume that's not directed at me? At least I thought I conveyed pretty much the opposite of that.
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Hyrist wrote:
Ok, now we're going to get slash fiction of Wint x Kachi somehere... rule 34 and all...

Never confuse your inference as the listener for an implication of the speaker.

Good games are subjective like good food is subjective. You're not going to seriously tell me that there's not a psychological basis for why pizza is great and lutefisk is revolting. The thing about subjectivity is that, as subjects go, humans actually have a great deal in common.
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