Whatever you need to do to justify your own bad judgement.
Not sure how we get there. I'm pretty sure if took my wife and Rachel Ray and showed them to the ~3 Billion straight men in the world, about 2.9999 Billion of them would fine my wife more attractive.
If that works for you, hey that's great. It's my understanding there are also men who like women to shit on them. I'm not here to judge.