Obama comes out in support of gay marriage...Follow

Ya well who needs you. Canada was right about you! ABOUT EVERYTHING!

The issue isn't about whether gay people are citizens, but whether a relationship between two people of the same sex can qualify for a specific legal status. That's it.




Wrong. Opposing the use of the word "marriage" in anything other than a legal context is meaningless. No one cares what a gay couple calls their relationship (ok, some people may, but that's their personal opinion and has nothing at all to do with the legal conflict at hand). They care about what legal status the state grants to it.



Yeah. Many of those polls that get reported as "what percentage support/oppose gay marriage" actually do ask that question in a way which includes civil unions. For example, the recent Gallup poll, broadly touted in the news as saying that 50% support gay marriage, while 48% oppose it, didn't actually specify "gay marriage" in the question. There's a lot of spin about this issue.



Really? Your best understanding of this issue doesn't allow you to notice that while only a teeny tiny percentage of the US population goes around beating up gays on the street, several states have passed laws limiting the legal definition of marriage to exclude same sex couples with 10+ point majority margins. And you honestly can't noodle out that maybe, just maybe there's some reason beyond "gay people are icky" behind that?


Seems like you're deliberately clinging to a simplistic strawman reason. Maybe you should think a bit harder and expand your understanding of the issue?

Right, because that's a reasonable measure of whether or not people disapprove of homosexuality: how many of them beat people up in the street in roving gangs.

Seems like you're deliberately clinging to a simplistic overstatement. Maybe you should think a bit harder and expand your understanding of the issue?

I can verify that at least two people in this country don't want gays getting married because of the word marriage. My parents. My step-dad is perfectly fine with civil unions, but doesn't think they should use "our" word. In his opinion, they should call it something else. My mom is just a bigot in general when it comes to gay people, but she too is a big believer that marriage is between a man and a woman only, and that gay people shouldn't be allowed to get married at all.

My mom is in the same boat. She's on record as saying, in reference to women kissing in public: "I'm totally fine with homosexuals. I just don't think I should have to see it."

See, that just sounds like we're going through the motions of the whole "Separate but Equal" shenanigans all over again. A thing which I had thought we'd already sorted out.

I might give weight to the Civil Union only argument from the people against same sex marriage if the majority of laws on the books didn't also ban Civil Unions.

This has to be the most confusing statement I've ever read today:



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Edited, May 10th 2012 2:53pm by Olorinus

As I said, you parroted the talking point without bothering to look.

Good on you for admitting it, though.

N. Carolina? Sure

That's the point... Do you get that the whole "separate but equal" thing stemmed from the segregated schools in the south, because that was what was claimed and later found out to be completely untrue? The "colored" schools had significantly lower quality books, buildings, and resources in general than the white schools did. That was the primary reason people pushed to desegregate schools, because black students were at an extreme disadvantage and a lot of people thought that was wrong.

Those of us who support gay marriage do so because we don't agree that civil unions are enough, specifically because they DON'T offer the same protections and rights that marriage does. Civil unions are better than nothing, but they're just today's version of the "separate but equal" garbage that existed during the civil rights movement.

And the other 40 states that either have constitutions or statues which limit marriage licenses to opposite sex couples? There's a point at which when you have such an overwhelming percentage of the population voting a given way on this issue that simply dismissing their opinions with a simplistic strawman assumption is maybe not helping.