Elinda wrote:
I'm of the mind that if two people are agreeing to get married and have kids and stuff, they're tacitly agreeing not to divorce.
The whole prenup thing blows that right out the winder.
That sounds absurd to me. Over 50% of marriages end in divorce. Most of those have kids. EVERYONE I know whose parents stayed together for the sake of the kids ended up with worse home lives than if their parents hadn't had a loveless marriage.
Having a contingency plan in case of divorce already set up is only going to help the family transition to the new arrangement.
And, hell, consider THIS marriage with and without the prenup. Imagine if they got married, had kids, and THEN this stuff came up. That's a massive fight waiting to happen. And finances are one of the leading causes of disputes that lead to divorce. Getting those issues out of the way now just seems smart.
WAY better to talk it through now than deal with the massive fights it would generate when they actually get divorced. That's way more likely to mess with their kids' minds.
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