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#52 Nov 14 2011 at 2:06 PM Rating: Excellent
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If it were a feminist saying men perpetrate most of the violence varus would deny this and call it sexism
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You could sneak it by him if you qualified them as black men, though. Then he'd think you agreed with him about the race war.
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Blacks and women are all lying liberal whores, so no matter what they say the opposite is true. Unless it's a Republican frontrunner.
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It is a fact that there is a lot of "homosexual @#%^philia," as in young boys being exploited by men. This, however, doesn't work the way varus keeps telling himself it does. The gender of the child is immaterial. It's not that a person is attracted to males, and therefore touches male children, it's that a person is attracted to children and touches children. There is generally not a whole lot of sexual attraction to other adults in most cases. Are there a lot of cases in which someone who is normally attracted to the same adult sex touches a small child of either sex? No. There simply isn't. Not when compared to the whole of cases.


I'm not touching Varus' argument with a 10 foot pole, but I'm a bit confused by this post. I think it's pretty clear that most pedophiles have a preference in terms of the sex of their victims, and it does represent an attraction to that sex (but in many cases, it's hidden). This assumes we're talking about children (pre-adolescent) and not just minors. In the latter case, the alignment with adult sexual attraction would seem to be even more direct. I don't think it's surprising (or even particularly unusual) for a homosexual male to find 15 year old males attractive, any more than it would be for a heterosexual male to find 15 year old females attractive. One could argue that from a biological perspective, it would be strange for them not to. It's only because of social rules that we make a distinction in those cases at all.


When we're talking about children though, it's a slightly different ballgame. I happen to think that both sides are kinda arguing around the core issue though. The social pressures that may cause a gay male to hide his sexuality and then (potentially) seek his "dirty" pleasure with male children (whole host of reasons for that result btw) are frankly partly to blame on both groups. One side creates the social pressure, and the other works to hide the problem. Neither really helps.
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#56 Nov 14 2011 at 3:28 PM Rating: Excellent
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There's accessibility to consider, too. Main reason why when someone mentions pedophilia the first thoughts into anyone's heads are Catholic Priests and Choir Boys and Scout Leaders and Boy Scouts and such.
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I suppose not many volunteer career paths give an old man sauna/hotub access to a room full of ten year old girls. But there's a bajillion stories of older male relatives molesting prepubescent females. Just harder to do it en masse.

Edited, Nov 14th 2011 3:45pm by Jophiel
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gbaji wrote:
I don't think it's surprising (or even particularly unusual) for a homosexual male to find 15 year old males attractive, any more than it would be for a heterosexual male to find 15 year old females attractive.

This wasn't about 15 year olds. This was about, among other things, Sandusky raping a ten year old boy in a shower. Attraction to post-pubescent minors is more accurately termed as ephebophilia.

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The social pressures that may cause a gay male to hide his sexuality and then (potentially) seek his "dirty" pleasure with male children (whole host of reasons for that result btw) are frankly partly to blame on both groups. One side creates the social pressure, and the other works to hide the problem. Neither really helps.

What "two groups" are you talking about here?

Edited, Nov 14th 2011 3:50pm by Jophiel
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gbaji wrote:
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It is a fact that there is a lot of "homosexual @#%^philia," as in young boys being exploited by men. This, however, doesn't work the way varus keeps telling himself it does. The gender of the child is immaterial. It's not that a person is attracted to males, and therefore touches male children, it's that a person is attracted to children and touches children. There is generally not a whole lot of sexual attraction to other adults in most cases. Are there a lot of cases in which someone who is normally attracted to the same adult sex touches a small child of either sex? No. There simply isn't. Not when compared to the whole of cases.


I'm not touching Varus' argument with a 10 foot pole, but I'm a bit confused by this post. I think it's pretty clear that most pedophiles have a preference in terms of the sex of their victims, and it does represent an attraction to that sex (but in many cases, it's hidden). This assumes we're talking about children (pre-adolescent) and not just minors. In the latter case, the alignment with adult sexual attraction would seem to be even more direct. I don't think it's surprising (or even particularly unusual) for a homosexual male to find 15 year old males attractive, any more than it would be for a heterosexual male to find 15 year old females attractive. One could argue that from a biological perspective, it would be strange for them not to. It's only because of social rules that we make a distinction in those cases at all.


When we're talking about children though, it's a slightly different ballgame. I happen to think that both sides are kinda arguing around the core issue though. The social pressures that may cause a gay male to hide his sexuality and then (potentially) seek his "dirty" pleasure with male children (whole host of reasons for that result btw) are frankly partly to blame on both groups. One side creates the social pressure, and the other works to hide the problem. Neither really helps.
You seem to be arguing something completely different from me. Unless psychological research has changed the popular view so much over the past year or so that it's in another direction entirely, pedophilia is seen as a mental disorder and a sexuality preference. The preference is not towards male or female children, but rather towards children generically. There can be preferences within this, but that doesn't translate to the person's sexuality necessarily. A heterosexual male can molest a male child without that reflecting his sexuality preference. The precise opposite can be said about a homosexual male. In many cases, the adult has no sexual preference for adults whatsoever; however, in some there is one, and it doesn't always match up. The point I was making is this: You won't find a large amount of cases dealing with someone who is homosexual and carries on normal relationships and ends up molesting children. It's completely separate. And tolerating one thing does not mean tolerating the other.
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gbaji wrote:
I don't think it's surprising (or even particularly unusual) for a homosexual male to find 15 year old males attractive, any more than it would be for a heterosexual male to find 15 year old females attractive.

This wasn't about 15 year olds. This was about, among other things, Sandusky raping a ten year old boy in a shower. Attraction to post-pubescent minors is more accurately termed as ephebophilia.


Yeah. But both cases are often lumped together (incorrectly) when making claims about sexual behavior. I was making the point that when looking at such things we need to make a clear distinction between sexual behavior towards pre-pubescent and post pubescent minors. Those really are two completely different things. Specifically, I was addressing some of the stuff in Varus' link which did include data about attraction towards 15-19 year olds. As you say, that has nothing to do with child molestation.

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The social pressures that may cause a gay male to hide his sexuality and then (potentially) seek his "dirty" pleasure with male children (whole host of reasons for that result btw) are frankly partly to blame on both groups. One side creates the social pressure, and the other works to hide the problem. Neither really helps.

What "two groups" are you talking about here?


I suppose you could label them pro-gay and anti-gay if you want. The anti-gay folks absolutely work hard to create the environment where homosexuality of any kind is "dirty", which leads to some gays (men specifically) hiding their sexuality, feeling like there's something wrong with them, and increasing the odds that they might turn to child molestation. The chain of cause/effect isn't simple, but it doesn't take a degree in psychology to realize that if someone already believes that his sexual desires are sinful/dirty/whatever, that this will increase his likelihood when acting on them to not make distinctions which he might otherwise. If having sex with another man is ok, but having sex with a child is wrong, he's more likely to satisfy himself with adult men and avoid children. But if both are "wrong", he's less likely to limit himself, right?

On the flip side though, the acts of some pro-gay groups to sweep the very real statistical problems within the gay community under the proverbial rug don't help their cause much either. There are problems with coercive sexual acts within the community, especially among gay men. There is a pattern of preying on young men (not children, but teenagers), and of pretty strong social pressures to "be gay" that are arguably just as strong if not more so than the pressures applied by the anti-gay folks (and to some extent to the larger society) to "be straight". It's not nearly the "freedom to be yourself" picture that its presented publicly, and a combination of a desire to hide this within the community and a desire to those outside to present said community in the best light possible to foster acceptance results in some pretty bad social pressures as well.


Within the gay community the pressure to not just be gay, but to be openly, actively gay, and essentially be a walking advocate for gay-rights is very very strong. What I'm getting at here is that this can push people to stay in the closet just as much as the pressure from the other side. Both have some blame here. Most people just want to live their lives, not get involved in some larger political conflict.

Edited, Nov 14th 2011 2:19pm by gbaji
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#61 Nov 14 2011 at 4:25 PM Rating: Good
I will second that most "liberal academics" hate and despise the sports programs. My husband went on a rightious Facebook rant about the subject the other day. He feels that all sports programs should end and universities should instead focus on the business of educating.

I think that was after he was stuck in football traffic here in Athens for about two hours.

No, what Virus's OP proves is that when you have a culture of Good Ol' Boyism, bad **** happens. And that's exactly what this was: Sandusky was a Good Ol' Boy. Fine, upstanding Republican. Friend of Bush! He ran a charity to help boys from broken homes! He'd never do anything like that. Surely the people whispering horrible things about him are just out to get him!
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He feels that all sports programs should end and universities should instead focus on the business of educating.
I guess he doesn't understand where the most donations to the schools come from, eh?
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#63 Nov 14 2011 at 4:59 PM Rating: Good
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No, what Virus's OP proves is that when you have a culture of Good Ol' Boyism, bad sh*t happens. And that's exactly what this was: Sandusky was a Good Ol' Boy. Fine, upstanding Republican. Friend of Bush! He ran a charity to help boys from broken homes! He'd never do anything like that. Surely the people whispering horrible things about him are just out to get him!

Imagine if he ran for President!
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He feels that all sports programs should end and universities should instead focus on the business of educating.
I guess he doesn't understand where the most donations to the schools come from, eh?

I'm not sure what you're after here. At my school the athletics department keeps its budget separate from the university.
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gbaji wrote:
I suppose you could label them pro-gay and anti-gay if you want. The anti-gay folks absolutely work hard to create the environment where homosexuality of any kind is "dirty", which leads to some gays (men specifically) hiding their sexuality, feeling like there's something wrong with them, and increasing the odds that they might turn to child molestation. The chain of cause/effect isn't simple, but it doesn't take a degree in psychology to realize that if someone already believes that his sexual desires are sinful/dirty/whatever, that this will increase his likelihood when acting on them to not make distinctions which he might otherwise. If having sex with another man is ok, but having sex with a child is wrong, he's more likely to satisfy himself with adult men and avoid children. But if both are "wrong", he's less likely to limit himself, right?

On the flip side though, the acts of some pro-gay groups to sweep the very real statistical problems within the gay community under the proverbial rug don't help their cause much either. There are problems with coercive sexual acts within the community, especially among gay men. There is a pattern of preying on young men (not children, but teenagers), and of pretty strong social pressures to "be gay" that are arguably just as strong if not more so than the pressures applied by the anti-gay folks (and to some extent to the larger society) to "be straight". It's not nearly the "freedom to be yourself" picture that its presented publicly, and a combination of a desire to hide this within the community and a desire to those outside to present said community in the best light possible to foster acceptance results in some pretty bad social pressures as well.


Within the gay community the pressure to not just be gay, but to be openly, actively gay, and essentially be a walking advocate for gay-rights is very very strong. What I'm getting at here is that this can push people to stay in the closet just as much as the pressure from the other side. Both have some blame here. Most people just want to live their lives, not get involved in some larger political conflict.

Edited, Nov 14th 2011 2:19pm by gbaji


Every once in a while, you say something that is so close-minded, so baseless, and so offensive, I'm left absolutely speechless.

Thanks for reminding me just how far your douchebaggery goes. I had forgotten.
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Every once in a while, you say something that is so close-minded, so baseless, and so offensive, I'm left absolutely speechless.

Thanks for reminding me just how far your douchebaggery goes. I had forgotten.


Uh huh. So saying that the issue is more complex than "this side==bad; that side==good" is now douchebaggery, and closed-minded? Ever consider you're the one with the closed mind in that you're unwilling to see any faults at all in a group you've decided to champion in some way? There's fault enough to go around, so let's not make the same mistake that we're accusing all those folks at Penn State of doing (ignoring problems because they don't want the institution to look bad).


There's irony here somewhere, I'm sure.
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gbaji wrote:
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Every once in a while, you say something that is so close-minded, so baseless, and so offensive, I'm left absolutely speechless.

Thanks for reminding me just how far your douchebaggery goes. I had forgotten.


Uh huh. So saying that the issue is more complex than "this side==bad; that side==good" is now douchebaggery, and closed-minded? Ever consider you're the one with the closed mind in that you're unwilling to see any faults at all in a group you've decided to champion in some way? There's fault enough to go around, so let's not make the same mistake that we're accusing all those folks at Penn State of doing (ignoring problems because they don't want the institution to look bad).


There's irony here somewhere, I'm sure.


There's no irony. There's no hypocrisy.

There's just you being a complete fucking idiot.
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There's no irony. There's no hypocrisy.

There's just you being a complete fucking idiot.


Why? For saying what you know is true but don't want said? For saying that all is not peaches and roses within the gay community? For saying that there are issues within said community (especially males) with regard to underage sex, coercive sex, and prostitution? For saying that there are cycles of such behavior in said community and that they do have some negative and destructive effects on members of said community?

Or are you most upset for correctly observing that there are many who, for what amount to political PR reasons, want very much for those things to not be made too public, and will actively dismiss any talk about them, ignore any data which might show a problem, and even attack those who dare to actually mention said problems (like you're doing right now btw)?


The irony is that the administrators, faculty, and god knows how many others at Penn State ignored/excused Sandusky for exactly the same reason you are attacking me. They didn't want negative publicity towards an institution they cared about and so they pretended the problem didn't exist and attacked anyone who might raise any questions. You really don't see how those are similar?
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There's a veritable ton of things that are wrong with what you're saying. A ton. It's so much, that I know it's just going to be an exercise in extreme frustration to try to go through point-by-point with you.

Then add on the fact that you're about as likely to acknowledge the errors and offenses as hell is of freezing over.

It'd be a waste of time, and an unpleasant one at that.


But you do deserve to be called an asshole for it, and I'll happily do that. Kindly go fuck yourself.

Edited, Nov 14th 2011 7:47pm by Eske
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gbaji wrote:
Uh huh. So saying that the issue is more complex than "this side==bad; that side==good" is now douchebaggery, and closed-minded? Ever consider you're the one with the closed mind in that you're unwilling to see any faults at all in a group you've decided to champion in some way?

Really, the fact that you need to divide it into "teams" (or try to make it about homosexuals) is pathological enough.

Hint: everyone else was mocking Varus by talking about Republicans or whatever.
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He feels that all sports programs should end and universities should instead focus on the business of educating.
I guess he doesn't understand where the most donations to the schools come from, eh?

I'm not sure what you're after here. At my school the athletics department keeps its budget separate from the university.
Fair enough as it was poorly worded. What I should have said was "Do you have any idea how many donations are a result of the national exposure a school gets due to it's athletic departments?"
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#74 Nov 14 2011 at 7:14 PM Rating: Excellent
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I always love it when Gbaji does his "I'm not agreeing with varrus or anything because I'm an independent thinker, but he's totally right" shtick.
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Uglysasquatch wrote:
Bardalicious wrote:
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He feels that all sports programs should end and universities should instead focus on the business of educating.
I guess he doesn't understand where the most donations to the schools come from, eh?

I'm not sure what you're after here. At my school the athletics department keeps its budget separate from the university.
Fair enough as it was poorly worded. What I should have said was "Do you have any idea how many donations are a result of the national exposure a school gets due to it's athletic departments?"


This'd be a great segway to a debate about the pros and cons of paying student athletes, and a much more interesting discussion.
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This'd be a great segway

And an even better segue Smiley: wink2
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