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#452 Oct 05 2011 at 12:20 AM Rating: Excellent
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So are you implying that there isn't (some scenario where discrimination due to sexual orientation is ok)?


I think so, but your internal thoughts are your own. I think it's a bit silly, but perfectly ok, that you're creeped out by gay men. However, as an employee of the US Government it isn't ok for you to discriminate due to sexual orientation while on the job. Off the job? Hit a Klan rally if you feel like it, just make sure your sheet is "solid" enough that they don't notice the color of your skin.

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So are you implying that there aren't any (laws, rules and regulations that openly and blatantly discriminate against sex, skin color, height, weight, age, nationality, national background, family background, & religious preference)?


No, but I'd like you to name one that's enforced on any sort of regular basis since you seem to think there are. "Blue Laws" do not count, since they are rarely enforced.

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If you knew the difference between gender and sex then you would realize that you're making an unnecessary differentiation, because not only does that make no sense, it doesn't hinder my argument.


How? Sexual orientation has never & will never be a factor in deciding that girls shower with girls & boys shower with boys. Sex/Gender are not sexual orientations. This makes perfect sense. How does it support your argument? What is your argument, for that matter?

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There's no such thing as "reverse discrimination". Discrimination is discrimination is discrimination.


Agreed.

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So you agree that there is no discrimination against homosexuals in SSM because it's based on sex not sexual orientation and every man is held by the same rules regardless of sexual orientation. Finally...


I wasn't talking about SSM, we are talking about DADT. But in regards to SSM, I'll grant you that opposite sex marriages were assumed when marriage laws were first written, but since then the US Government has progressed to the point where they've made it illegal to discriminate based upon sexual orientation. Ipso-Facto, not allowing one group (Gays) while allowing another group (straights) to take part in Government sanctioned benefits is the very definition of discrimination.


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I believe I gave at least 3 (logical reasons for DADT), maybe you should learn to read.


I can read fine, you simply can't communicate effectively via the written word. It's ok, some people are just better at it than others. What I'd like you to do, using complete sentences, is write what YOU (no hypothetcals) believe are 3 logical reasons DADT shouldn't have be repealed. I'd like you to start this response, for clarity's sake, with, "I, Alma, believe it is logical to repeal DADT because..."

Bonus points if you bullet point the 3 logical reasons you believe DADT should not have been repealed.

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Ask yourself this. If you're living with a roommate, and you had a chance to marry him and receive literally hundreds to thousands of extra dollars a month, your own house, more freedom, benefits, etc, that you wouldn't?


No, I wouldn't. Could you please link to any evidence at all that straights are pretending to be gay for the benifits in the military? Can you link to any evidence that this is happening in States where SSM is legal?

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Your ignorance is making the best of you...


See what I mean about you not being clear? What does THAT attempt at a diss even fucking mean? What am I even ignorant of (Besides anatomy when I draw using MsPaint)?

This is WHAT YOU SAID:

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If a janitor cleans a woman's locker room while women are in there only to later find out that the janitor is really a male, not a female, do you think the women would be like "oh, well, he's been here the whole time, so who cares?" I'm sure that they would be creeped out.


So far, in all of the plethora of craptastic posts you've made on any and all subjects that are "gay", the above quote is the closest I've ever seen you come for giving a reason as to why YOU think DADT shouldn't have been repealed. Applying that analogy to yourself, once again, YOU would logically be the girls in the locker room & GAYS would logically be male janitors dressed as girls.

And you would be creeped out by finding out your fellow soldier, was gay.

There's nothing wrong with that; but it isn't a logical or legal reason to make your fellow soldier HAVE to hide their identity from you. The choice should have ALWAYS been theirs & now it is.







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#453 Oct 05 2011 at 8:39 AM Rating: Decent
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I don't particularly care that a man sees me naked, but I've said why I don't like to shower with them and it was really only two sentences. However, since I'm capable of writing things without them being drowned in garbage syntax, I'll list them:

  • Same reason lots of women carry pepper spray
  • Been catcalled enough times by dudes while wearing clothes. Been catcalled in front of my sweatpants-clad mom while I was a gangly boy-like twelve year old. Never gotten catcalled when I've been with a male friend.


Somehow this makes me uncomfortable about showering with men
#454 Oct 05 2011 at 8:54 AM Rating: Decent
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Alma took this argument to the stupid place, and Omega's going right in there after him.
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#457Almalieque, Posted: Oct 06 2011 at 5:40 AM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Not literally at 100% of the time. Some men prefer to be medically checked out by another male doctor. At the same time, if a man had to choose between being sexually checked out by a homosexual male or an attractive woman, I would bet a paycheck that the majority would pick the latter, especially if the other person were naked as well. I would argue the former for women if the men were strangers.
#458 Oct 06 2011 at 5:47 AM Rating: Excellent
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(and two in the rear!!).
Well look who's singing a different tune about this repeal now!
#459 Oct 06 2011 at 5:52 AM Rating: Default
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Omega,

I'll address your post shortly. I'm at a cafe and only have limited time at each sitting (half day today), but I will say the following.

If you are unable to provide EXACTLY what part is incoherent, then you have no argument about my "inability to communicate", especially when others can repeat my claims with a 75%+ accuracy.

You haven't provided anything yet to show otherwise.
#460 Oct 06 2011 at 5:56 AM Rating: Default
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I don't particularly care that a man sees me naked, but I've said why I don't like to shower with them and it was really only two sentences. However, since I'm capable of writing things without them being drowned in garbage syntax, I'll list them:

  • Same reason lots of women carry pepper spray
  • Been catcalled enough times by dudes while wearing clothes. Been catcalled in front of my sweatpants-clad mom while I was a gangly boy-like twelve year old. Never gotten catcalled when I've been with a male friend.


Somehow this makes me uncomfortable about showering with men


So are those acceptable reasons for a heterosexual not want to shower with a homosexual? If not, then why?
#461 Oct 06 2011 at 5:58 AM Rating: Excellent
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I wasn't trying to get you to do anything by that comment. I was just stating the obvious. There is no other legitimate reason for you not to answer that question other than the belief that by answering it, you'll contradict yourself.

Hrmm... nope. Still didn't work. Nice job trying to pretend that you weren't doing it, though. Was almost as successful as your attempts to "scare" me into answering your poorly created argument Smiley: laugh

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And once again, no, everyone isn't allowed to speak openly about their sexuality in the military. That's just BS that you made up.

You're conflating "speak openly" and "speak without limits".
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#462 Oct 06 2011 at 5:59 AM Rating: Excellent
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you have no argument about my "inability to communicate", especially when others can repeat my claims with a 75%+ accuracy.

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#463Almalieque, Posted: Oct 06 2011 at 6:32 AM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) If the above quote is all that you can see as being a reason, then honest to God, you are truly an idiot. I'm not even joking. I listed several reasons why and if all you can gather is what YOU want to believe to be my argument even after I explicitly said that WAS NOT MY ARGUMENT, just answering the question, then you are incapable of comprehending.
#464 Oct 06 2011 at 6:44 AM Rating: Default
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Hrmm... nope. Still didn't work. Nice job trying to pretend that you weren't doing it, though. Was almost as successful as your attempts to "scare" me into answering your poorly created argument


You already did, hence your reply. I didn't give you an argument, I asked a question. There is no need for me to "trick" you into answering the question because I already know the answer. The simple fact that you wont answer it, only proves ensures the answer. Else, if you thought it contradicted my point, you would have answered it in attempt to counter. Instead, you're merely playing around for your own enjoyment.

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You're conflating "speak openly" and "speak without limits".


How so?
#465 Oct 06 2011 at 9:05 AM Rating: Excellent
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Instead, you're merely playing around for your own enjoyment.

You've noodled out that I'm rolling around your retarded question like a cat with a ball rather than wasting time dignifying an asinine query?

Nice job, Nancy Drew.

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You're conflating "speak openly" and "speak without limits".
How so?

By pretending that the mere mention of your heterosexual partner or an attraction to the other sex is disallowed as it was for homosexuals.

You already knew this, of course.
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You've noodled out that I'm rolling around your retarded question like a cat with a ball rather than wasting time dignifying an asinine query?

Nice job, Nancy Drew.


What you have done was avoid self-contradiction. There was no "stupid question" involved. The fact that you've been "rolling around" the question and admitted to it is evident that you're not taking this seriously nor are concerned about time. Given that, you can't use the "waste of time/ irrelevant" argument on answering that question, because everything you've been saying has been a "waste of time" and "irrelevant" to the argument.

The only thing left is that you're avoiding self-contradiction by making fun out of the situation as opposed to just addressing it. At least you recognize it, because I can play cat and mouse like this all day (if time permits). It's much better than arguing with people who pretend statements aren't there or understandable. I would much rather play your game.


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By pretending that the mere mention of your heterosexual partner or an attraction to the other sex is disallowed as it was for homosexuals.

You already knew this, of course.


Depending on the person, it is. Nice to pretend or believe that it isn't.

Anyways, that wasn't even my point. My point was that there are other forms of discrimination outside of sexuality in a whole that people accept, i.e. women not serving in the Infantry or Armor. I'm not saying it's "right", but various forms of discrimination is blatant in the US military forces and none of that seems to matter, only for people to be open about being ****.

So by only making a big deal when it affects homosexuals, you are indeed pretending that they are special because everyone else is expected to "suck it up". The point wasn't that any other form of discrimination is the SAME as the discrimination towards homosexuals (as you attempted to prove) but that other forms of discriminatio exist.

Edited, Oct 6th 2011 5:28pm by Almalieque
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There was no "stupid question" involved.

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Given that, you can't use the "waste of time/ irrelevant" argument on answering that question, because everything you've been saying has been a "waste of time" and "irrelevant" to the argument.

Even a brief flash of intellectual rigor would show you the problem with that line of assumptions.

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My point was that there are other forms of discrimination outside of sexuality in a whole that people accept, i.e. women not serving in the Infantry or Armor.

*Shrug* So pass around a petition.

What you're failing to get, or else you do understand but you just want to make a big deal of it anyway, is that people can have legitimate reasons for worrying about one thing over the other or can believe there's a good enough reason for one thing to justify it, but not the other. So one can think that barring people from admitting their sexuality is a poor decision but feel that barring women from the infantry is valid and thus not try to change it. Hell, you can even feel the opposite way if you'd like -- it's just that most people in charge didn't and so they changed it.

I'm not sure why this is such a sticking point with you but you latch onto it in every debate tangentially related to sexuality.

Edited, Oct 6th 2011 10:44am by Jophiel
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Almalieque wrote:
And once again, no, everyone isn't allowed to speak openly about their sexuality in the military. That's just BS that you made up.

You're conflating "speak openly" and "speak without limits".


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Jophiel wrote:
By pretending that the mere mention of your heterosexual partner or an attraction to the other sex is disallowed as it was for homosexuals.

You already knew this, of course.


Depending on the person, it is. Nice to pretend or believe that it isn't.

Anyways, that wasn't even my point. My point was that there are other forms of discrimination outside of sexuality in a whole that people accept, i.e. women not serving in the Infantry or Armor. I'm not saying it's "right", but various forms of discrimination is blatant in the US military forces and none of that seems to matter, only for people to be open about being ****.
Your memory is pretty bad Alma.

Edited, Oct 6th 2011 5:53pm by Aethien
#469 Oct 06 2011 at 10:13 AM Rating: Good
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Almalieque wrote:
Sweetums wrote:
I don't particularly care that a man sees me naked, but I've said why I don't like to shower with them and it was really only two sentences. However, since I'm capable of writing things without them being drowned in garbage syntax, I'll list them:

  • Same reason lots of women carry pepper spray
  • Been catcalled enough times by dudes while wearing clothes. Been catcalled in front of my sweatpants-clad mom while I was a gangly boy-like twelve year old. Never gotten catcalled when I've been with a male friend.


Somehow this makes me uncomfortable about showering with men


So are those acceptable reasons for a heterosexual not want to shower with a homosexual? If not, then why?

Surely if it's this big of a deal, the soldier in question would be able to not shower with the other soldier in question?

Or are you forced to stand next to a particular person when you shower?
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What you're failing to get, or else you do understand but you just want to make a big deal of it anyway, is that people can have legitimate reasons for worrying about one thing over the other or can believe there's a good enough reason for one thing to justify it, but not the other. So one can think that barring people from admitting their sexuality is a poor decision but feel that barring women from the infantry is valid and thus not try to change it. Hell, you can even feel the opposite way if you'd like -- it's just that most people in charge didn't and so they changed it.

I'm not sure why this is such a sticking point with you but you latch onto it in every debate tangentially related to sexuality.


If someone can get this point through his thick skull, I will send them $10.00*

Seriously.


*I'm poor.

Edited, Oct 6th 2011 12:42pm by Eske
#471 Oct 06 2011 at 11:18 AM Rating: Excellent
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He's of the opinion that everything must be 100% equivalent and that if there are even perceived contradictions it's a huge problem. Of course that attitude makes you freeze, and leaves you unable to ever change anything, and so is pretty much useless. It also completely ignores the issue that equivalency is based on your initial assumptions and what metrics you're using to evaluate the situation, and so isn't some absolute state that can really be nailed down.

Still ignoring my post I see.

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#474 Oct 06 2011 at 11:34 AM Rating: Excellent
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I can read fine, you simply can't communicate effectively via the written word. It's ok, some people are just better at it than others. What I'd like you to do, using complete sentences, is write what YOU (no hypothetcals) believe are 3 logical reasons DADT shouldn't have be repealed. I'd like you to start this response, for clarity's sake, with, "I, Alma, believe it is logical to repeal DADT because..."

Bonus points if you bullet point the 3 logical reasons you believe DADT should not have been repealed.


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Read my previous post towards you. Unless you tell me exactly which part that you don't understand, then you're full of trash because others were able to repeat my point with a much greater percentage of accuracy.


I, Alma, believe it is logical to repeal DADT because...read my other posts?

You give various situations & fall back on your shower defense. You say "Oh, men will marry men for the money!"

Neither of these are reasons why you, Alma, believe DADT shouldn't be repealed. You've said so yourself: you don't use common showers. Why do you care if two men want to milk the system? You can't possibly oppose SSM & DADT repeal as much as you do without a "Horse in the race": There is an underlying reason in this somewhere.

In all of your gibberish, the "creeped out if gay dude's look at my junk" is the only time I've seen you communicate YOUR feelings on gays. You dance around a lot, but you're not communicating what it is about gays being married or being open in the military that effects you.

Let's do this madlibs style:

"I Alma, believe DADT shouldn't have been repealed because________________________________________
I feel this way because___________________________________________________________________________
The repeal of DADT effects me negatively because__________________________________________________
(You can use this space to ramble, but please try to limit this to one paragraph. Focus!)________
In conclusion, it was illogical to repeal DADT because____________________________________________"

You still haven't explained what I'm ignorant of, but I'd rather you just focus on the mad lib.





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if a man had to choose between being sexually checked out by a homosexual male or an attractive woman, I would bet a paycheck that the majority would pick the latter, especially if the other person were naked as well.
Would you bet a paycheck if the options were homosexual and unattractive woman?
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#476Almalieque, Posted: Oct 07 2011 at 4:13 AM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) I've only supported that notion since day 1 of any sexuality argument. I've accepted numerous times that life has double standards. My argument towards you all is the belief that double standards don't exist. Instead of accepting the fact that the very same reason why women and men are separated are the same reasons why certain people don't want to be in close quarters with homosexuals, you all pretend that there exist other reasons in order to support your claim. Just admit that it's a double standard, stop pretending that women and men are separated for any other reason.
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