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#527 May 04 2011 at 6:46 PM Rating: Good
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If it's "her body", then it's "her child". It doesn't just magically change from "her body" to "our baby". As you just said, she didn't have to have sex with him. It might suck for her, but tough **** in all honesty.
Nah sorry, it's not just her foetus, after all, it takes two gametes to form a zygote. That does not change the fact that it's her body. Do you know what "non-sequitur" means? (:


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Wow, slap me silly.. Whodathunk it.. The dictionary's definition of "science" is different from science's definition of "science". I guess you overlooked the fact where a poster showed how my definition was a "mathematical definition"? This is where the conversation ended when I said that doesn't disprove my statement, only approves it in mathematical/comp sci.

So, either way, you're wrong..
Nah, you just don't use words in their right context.

I like how your replies are getting shorter though, keep that up.
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#528 May 04 2011 at 6:57 PM Rating: Good
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Belkira wrote:

And while the woman is pregnant, she has FAR FAR FAR more responsibility than the man has. Which is what I've been trying to point out to you for three pages or so now...


Concept, Bel, Concept... It's the same responsibility, different tasks.


But no... it really isn't.

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Of course. And...?


That makes your original statement in question contradictory.


No... it doesn't.

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It can, you just don't want it to be. Proof of that is even if you believed the two scenarios aren't equal or fair, they are just as close of the two that you can get, yet you are against them. Why is that?


I have to be honest, I'm not sure what you're asking me here. They're "just as close of the two that you can get?" Wha...?

I dislike both of your "options" because in the first case, the child suffers because the father doesn't pay child support. In the second case, abortions are restricted.
#529gbaji, Posted: May 04 2011 at 7:22 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) At the risk of injecting any sort of rationality into the discussion (yeah, I know!), I think the point is that if the father is required to support the child, then he should also have some say in the choice to abort. What you're essentially saying is that the woman alone gets to decide whether to abort, but both she and the father are responsible for the result of her decision.
#530 May 04 2011 at 8:02 PM Rating: Excellent
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I just think it's important to acknowledge that there really is no answer that is completely fair to all parties. The fairest thing to do with regard to the parents-to-be of course would be to allow them both to make a decision to either keep or abort the pregnancy. If both of them choose the same thing, then great. Problem solved. But if one wants to abort and the other does not, then the child is kept with the one not wanting to abort taking full single responsibility. Of course, this is still somewhat unfair to the woman if she wants to abort and the father doesn't since she has to carry the child to term. Additionally, it's not fair at all to the child since it's going to only have one parent.
I hate analogies so much, but I'm bored and thought of one.

Say both of you adopted a dog. You both put an equal amount into the adoption fees. However, the co-adoptee has a sh*tty small apartment where dogs over 50 lbs are not allowed, and you live a spacious suburban McMansion. They still agree to pay half of the fees, but who's the one who has to deal with dog sh*t in the carpet?

Now, the dog is fundamentally retarded. They just can't learn how to not sh*t in your pristine white carpets. Now, I don't advocate getting rid of pets, but this is really more than you bargained for! Hey, we all have moments of weakness. (What this really means: this is where the analogy falls apart because the dog is a conscious being. Again: analogies suck, but they're fun to make.

Now, why should your co-adoptee make you keep the dog when they don't have to deal with sh*t in their carpets?

If you love dogs, you can just replace dog with "cats" and replace ********** in your carpet" with "claw the crap out of your expensive designer furniture."

Edited, May 4th 2011 9:09pm by Sweetums
#531 May 04 2011 at 8:25 PM Rating: Decent
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No I'm saying you insist on using the laymen definition in the context of scientific or mathematical discussion.


Not that I necessarily disagree with you otherwise, but you do understand why it's pedantic to insist that people speak with strict technical accuracy in what is an otherwise lay-people's discussion? Most of us understand the difference between hypotheses, theories, and proofs and no one is confused when we use them interchangeably in colloquial contexts, so quibbling over them just detracts from the substance of your argument.
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On an unrelated note to anything else happening, Alma, please quit citing your (alleged) comp sci degree as though it somehow makes you an expert in how physical sciences work. The fact that it has the world "science" in it is not related to the scientific method - at least not the parts of comp sci that you work on.
#533 May 04 2011 at 8:35 PM Rating: Good
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No I'm saying you insist on using the laymen definition in the context of scientific or mathematical discussion.


Not that I necessarily disagree with you otherwise, but you do understand why it's pedantic to insist that people speak with strict technical accuracy in what is an otherwise lay-people's discussion? Most of us understand the difference between hypotheses, theories, and proofs and no one is confused when we use them interchangeably in colloquial contexts, so quibbling over them just detracts from the substance of your argument.
I understand why it looks pedantic, but in the context of what Alma was saying, it was important to use the correct terminology. Otherwise it's just idle babble.
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#534gbaji, Posted: May 04 2011 at 8:37 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Ok. I laughed. Who else laughed? ;)
#535 May 04 2011 at 8:41 PM Rating: Good
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gbaji wrote:
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I understand why it looks pedantic, but in the context of what Alma was saying, it was important to use the correct terminology. Otherwise it's just idle babble.


Ok. I laughed. Who else laughed? ;)
Well you are the king of idle babble.
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#536 May 04 2011 at 9:15 PM Rating: Decent
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Nilatai wrote:
gbaji wrote:
Nilatai wrote:
I understand why it looks pedantic, but in the context of what Alma was saying, it was important to use the correct terminology. Otherwise it's just idle babble.


Ok. I laughed. Who else laughed? ;)
Well you are the king of idle babble.


My babble is anything but idle. Ok. Except for this.
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#537 May 04 2011 at 9:39 PM Rating: Excellent
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I dislike both of your "options" because in the first case, the child suffers because the father doesn't pay child support. In the second case, abortions are restricted.


At the risk of injecting any sort of rationality into the discussion (yeah, I know!), I think the point is that if the father is required to support the child, then he should also have some say in the choice to abort.


Yeah, that's what me an Nilatai thought Alma was getting at, too. Apparently, he doesn't think the father should have any say whatsoever in the abortion part, just that he should be able to never pay child support.

I know, it's confusing.
#538 May 04 2011 at 9:43 PM Rating: Decent
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Belkira wrote:
gbaji wrote:
Belkira wrote:
I dislike both of your "options" because in the first case, the child suffers because the father doesn't pay child support. In the second case, abortions are restricted.


At the risk of injecting any sort of rationality into the discussion (yeah, I know!), I think the point is that if the father is required to support the child, then he should also have some say in the choice to abort.


Yeah, that's what me an Nilatai thought Alma was getting at, too. Apparently, he doesn't think the father should have any say whatsoever in the abortion part, just that he should be able to never pay child support.

I know, it's confusing.


Ah. Well... So much for injecting rationality then.
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#539 May 04 2011 at 10:24 PM Rating: Good
gbaji wrote:
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gbaji wrote:
Belkira wrote:
I dislike both of your "options" because in the first case, the child suffers because the father doesn't pay child support. In the second case, abortions are restricted.


At the risk of injecting any sort of rationality into the discussion (yeah, I know!), I think the point is that if the father is required to support the child, then he should also have some say in the choice to abort.


Yeah, that's what me an Nilatai thought Alma was getting at, too. Apparently, he doesn't think the father should have any say whatsoever in the abortion part, just that he should be able to never pay child support.

I know, it's confusing.


Ah. Well... So much for injecting rationality then.


For the record, I do believe that the father should have a say in the decision whether or not to abort. I think that's the right thing to do.
#540 May 05 2011 at 5:39 AM Rating: Default
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Nah sorry, it's not just her foetus, after all, it takes two gametes to form a zygote. That does not change the fact that it's her body. Do you know what "non-sequitur" means? (:


Oh! So, now you're differentiating the fetus from her body? It's not HER fetus now, but their fetus?

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Nah, you just don't use words in their right context.

I like how your replies are getting shorter though, keep that up.


Really? Just admit that you were wrong. Even if my words were in the wrong context (which they weren't) that only means that you were wrong on my knowledge of math and science.

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But no... it really isn't.


How not? They are both equally charged with the responsibility of raising the child. Each parent is doing different things to make that a success.

Belkira wrote:
No... it doesn't.

You just admitted the connection in your prior post.

Belkira wrote:
I have to be honest, I'm not sure what you're asking me here. They're "just as close of the two that you can get?" Wha...?

I dislike both of your "options" because in the first case, the child suffers because the father doesn't pay child support. In the second case, abortions are restricted.


Meaning just that. In those two scenarios, it is about as fair as you can get, but you have reasons against them. So, you can't simply say "oh, it can't ever be fair", you just have arguments against solutions that would make it fair or as fair as it can get.

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On an unrelated note to anything else happening, Alma, please quit citing your (alleged) comp sci degree as though it somehow makes you an expert in how physical sciences work. The fact that it has the world "science" in it is not related to the scientific method - at least not the parts of comp sci that you work on.


That was my point, thanks for stating that. Even if I were wrong on his accusation of the scientific terminology, that doesn't make me an idiot of ALL sciences. A geologist probably wouldn't be able to hold a conversation in Biology, but that doesn't mean he doesn't know anything about science.

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Yeah, that's what me an Nilatai thought Alma was getting at, too. Apparently, he doesn't think the father should have any say whatsoever in the abortion part, just that he should be able to never pay child support.

I know, it's confusing.


I didn't know English was that confusing. I presented two one sentence scenarios. You read them with predetermined thoughts of my argument. It happens all of the time on this forum. Nilatai and you have yet provided me a sentence that even implied that a man should have a say-so in the matter. If you provide a "confusing" sentence, then I'll concede to your accusations. Until then, I'm not going to apologize for your lack of comprehension.

My personal opinion on the man's opinion is still unformed, but that has no matter with the argument of equal responsibility.

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For the record, I do believe that the father should have a say in the decision whether or not to abort. I think that's the right thing to do.


By that, you mean able to physically talk and express their opinion? Or do you mean actually having legal right to deny or attempt to deny an abortion?
#541 May 05 2011 at 6:40 AM Rating: Good
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Can we just say it is unfair and move on? A lot of things about life are unfair, some can be made fair (like marriage) and some can't (abortion vs. Child support). Noble of you to try though.
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I presented two one sentence scenarios. You read them with predetermined thoughts of my argument. It happens all of the time on this forum.


I really don't know what you guys are debating any more as I try not to read your posts, but by your own admission you "break things into parts to lead to a conclusion." If you break things into parts to explain your argument as you would to a second-grader, it means your method of debate just sucks. Present your argument, not pieces of it, especially not if those pieces do not lead to the logical conclusion almost anyone would find.
#543 May 05 2011 at 7:19 AM Rating: Good
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Oh! So, now you're differentiating the fetus from her body? It's not HER fetus now, but their fetus?
When did I say otherwise? Just because his DNA is fused with her DNA, it doesn't change the fact that a foetus is essentially a parasite living inside her body. Granted the term "parasite" may summon up unpleasant imagery but that's essentially what it is. So yes, while it is their foetus, it resides solely inside her body. Understand?


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Really? Just admit that you were wrong. Even if my words were in the wrong context (which they weren't) that only means that you were wrong on my knowledge of math and science.
You were the one trying to use the laymen definition with regards to scientific principles. As is evident from when you said:

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theories arise from lack of facts


See?



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#544 May 05 2011 at 8:04 AM Rating: Default
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Can we just say it is unfair and move on? A lot of things about life are unfair, some can be made fair (like marriage) and some can't (abortion vs. Child support). Noble of you to try though.


What makes one to be made fair and not the other? There is no way to make marriage "fair". Just as with abortion, your only two choices are

1) Get rid of marriage all together

2) Allow marriage to anyone and anything at anytime.

Simply allowing SSM doesn't make marriage fair. Noble of you to try though.

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I really don't know what you guys are debating any more as I try not to read your posts, but by your own admission you "break things into parts to lead to a conclusion." If you break things into parts to explain your argument as you would to a second-grader, it means your method of debate just sucks. Present your argument, not pieces of it, especially not if those pieces do not lead to the logical conclusion almost anyone would find.


Funny that you mentioned that, because I didn't do that just then. I presented my entire argument and that's exactly what happens. That is why I do it pieces, because I spend posts trying to explain something that someone made false judgment on something they didn't fully read. So to try to prevent that, I try to do it one sentence/statement at a time.

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When did I say otherwise? Just because his DNA is fused with her DNA, it doesn't change the fact that a foetus is essentially a parasite living inside her body. Granted the term "parasite" may summon up unpleasant imagery but that's essentially what it is. So yes, while it is their foetus, it resides solely inside her body. Understand?


Cool, so since it's THEIR fetus living inside HER body, then she can do whatever she wants to HER body as long as it doesn't interfere with THEIR fetus. Well, that was easy.

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You were the one trying to use the laymen definition with regards to scientific principles. As is evident from when you said:

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theories arise from lack of facts


See?


I referenced the difference between a scientific fact vs a scientific theory. If you still don't want to accept that fact, then that is your personal problem.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scientific_fact#Fact_in_science wrote:
In the most basic sense, a scientific fact is an objective and verifiable observation, in contrast with a hypothesis or theory, which is intended to explain or interpret facts.[20] (For an example, see Evolution as theory and fact.)

Various scholars have offered significant refinements to this basic formulation, some of which are detailed below. Also, rigorous scientific use of the term "fact" is careful to distinguish: 1) states of affairs in the external world; from 2) assertions of fact that may be considered relevant in scientific analysis. The term is used in both senses in the philosophy of science.



Funny how you were so quick in attempt to provide "evidence" to support your argument, even unprovoked, but you were reluctant to provide any evidence supporting your claim that I insinuated a man's say so in abortion.
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Marriage to anyone yes...not sure why you want "anything" included though...
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Marriage to anyone yes...not sure why you want "anything" included though...


Because they are people who claim to be in love with objects and they are prevented from marriage benefits based on current laws.
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Marriage to anyone yes...not sure why you want "anything" included though...


Because they are people who claim to be in love with objects and they are prevented from marriage benefits based on current laws.


Get back to me when objects are people.
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Marriage to anyone yes...not sure why you want "anything" included though...


Because they are people who claim to be in love with objects and they are prevented from marriage benefits based on current laws.
To be fair, the box did have a degree from the University of Phoenix.
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Cool, so since it's THEIR fetus living inside HER body, then she can do whatever she wants to HER body as long as it doesn't interfere with THEIR fetus. Well, that was easy.
Okay. Why? Justify your position.



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I referenced the difference between a scientific fact vs a scientific theory. If you still don't want to accept that fact, then that is your personal problem.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scientific_fact#Fact_in_science wrote:
In the most basic sense, a scientific fact is an objective and verifiable observation, in contrast with a hypothesis or theory, which is intended to explain or interpret facts.[20] (For an example, see Evolution as theory and fact.)

Various scholars have offered significant refinements to this basic formulation, some of which are detailed below. Also, rigorous scientific use of the term "fact" is careful to distinguish: 1) states of affairs in the external world; from 2) assertions of fact that may be considered relevant in scientific analysis. The term is used in both senses in the philosophy of science.



Funny how you were so quick in attempt to provide "evidence" to support your argument, even unprovoked, but you were reluctant to provide any evidence supporting your claim that I insinuated a man's say so in abortion.
Oh good, you provided links. That still doesn't change that fact that your claim that theories arise from lack of facts is true, when in fact the exact opposite is.
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