I never argued the fact you agreed with my second statement on extremity. I merely pointed out that the way you chose to phrase your comment was broad, and just as harmful in topics like this as extremism is: broad generalization:
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This is what I noticed from this forum. If you mention that you are religious, then you're instantly criticized. It's one thing to not believe in God, but when you start ridiculing others who believe in something that isn't any more believable than what you believe in, then you are crossing that line which you are referencing to.
Each sentence is a broad generalization geared to imply anyone who is a regular here and is NOT religious criticizes people who are. Which is
absolutely untrue. As pointed out by PPs many of the regulars here are religious yet they are not criticized for it. I have not criticized people for their choice in religion. I *WILL*, as will others, criticize those who come in with a judgemental attitude and use their religion to justify their gross misconduct, but that is different.
But to imply that anytime you come into this forum and mention you are religious you are ridiculed just for
being religious is wholly and utterly false. And to continue that implication by your choice of words, refusing to be more specific but instead to keep your comments general enough that anyone would read it as meaning that anyone who holds to a religion will be ridiculed in here by anyone who does not hold to a religion is worse. You throw folks like me under the bus, becoming the evil faithless one who relishes in tearing you and your fellow Christians down anytime you make a peep.
And I hate that in this particular topic, because I see people like you do it all the time. You have no issues making false generalizations instead of taking the time to more accurately explain your stance, which in the end hurt others in the crossfire. Fortunately this is just a gaming forum, but out in the real world when you start to use broad statements, or don't clarify, these are the types of things that can cause a lot of damage. I've watched it happen on a local board and what started off as one broad generalization became a huge war that turned friends against each other. All over a few poor choices of wording and too many broad generalizations. NO ONE can work on a good dialogue when each side throws broad accusations towards the entire entity hitting every person within that idealogy instead of the ones who deserve it.
So I clearly said:
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Its comments like this that create the feeling of Us vs. Them in any sensitive topic, and makes it harder to actually have a mature conversation. Don't take your observations from a few people and broadly color the entire population the same
Why can't you understand that and just say "Oops! That's not what I meant. Here, let me clarify..." instead of getting your panties so much in a twist you feel the need to defend a paragraph that could have taken you 3 minutes to change? I mean, really? If you cant even acknowledge something tiny as this, Im pretty sure I could see why some people WOULD attack you when you discuss religion. It has nothing to do with the religious aspect at all. Its because you refuse to back down even when you're wrong. And thats just good fodder for us folk who like to mind f
uck when we're bored and have time!
As for your god awful analogy,k lets break it down a bit, shall we?
Below is your original statement and your analogy:
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This is what I noticed from this forum. If you mention that you are religious, then you're instantly criticized. It's one thing to not believe in God, but when you start ridiculing others who believe in something that isn't any more believable than what you believe in, then you are crossing that line which you are referencing to.
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So, what if i were to say, " I see a lot of hunters in the South. I've met hunters in other areas before, but most of them were all from the South?" Would you equate that to "All Southerners are hunters?"
Your analogy is god awful because it in no way even comes close to your original statement, which is what I commented on. It's apples to oranges, and even if I answered "Why no Ama, I woudn't equate THAT at all!" it would have absolutely no bearing on what you originally wrote.
The major difference between your original statement and the analogy, which makes it so god awful to use in this instance, is that in the analogy you actually
used adjectives, giving your sentence more of a description:
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So, what if i were to say, " I see a lot of hunters in the South. I've met hunters in other areas before, but most of them were all from the South?" Would you equate that to "All Southerners are hunters?"
Your statement lacks those, again, giving it the broad generalization I first pointed out. Your analogy is actually much more descriptive, narrowing down your thoughts and intents. So its godawful to use in this instance. Because it in no way compares to what you originally stated, therefore making it worthless.
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I didn't give you an "immature question", I asked you to explain your position.
Ive explained my position so many times that you coming back with something this inane *is* an immature question. Because I had clearly explained my stance more than once. You are having a tantrum because you dont like it when people point something out that you didnt do well. Im not your mother, I dont need to answer immature questions to a tantruming child who isnt getting her way. I dont need to do anything for you. Feel fortunate I was bored enough today to take the time to answer one more time. =)
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In the grown folk world, we call that whining.
I guess you would know since you do it so well ;)