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#27 Dec 19 2010 at 8:12 PM Rating: Excellent
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And it's no different than if you showered at a gym.

And guess what, no one who isn't brain dead should care in the first place. Why? Because you are delusional if you think every gay guy wants to have sex with you.


Oh, yea that's right, gay men aren't attracted to men... what was I thinking.... o.O... I thought by now people would drop that stupid argument. So, I guess you think heterosexual men aren't attracted to lesbians?


Holy sh*t, this has got to be the most stupid argument from you ever. And that's saying a lot.

And don't fuCking ask me to explain.
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Almalieque, you clearly haven't followed the history of DADT at all. This has been going on for seventeen years and if you had ever bothered to investigate how politicians defended the policy, then you have no right to get into the discussion.

Maybe you'd also take care to notice that NO POLITICIAN has used the privacy issue as grounds to oppose DADT.

Here's one thing to read. In it, the defense departments general counsel discusses how the historic opposition to DADT was extremely similar to what was holding back integration in the 40's. And he's someone who doesn't believe homosexuality is a "self-identifier" which I assume refers to the idea that being gay isn't something you are forced into.

Check this too--it's a fairly comprehensive list of rebuttles to the typical republican responses (though it is still written as an article--not an essay).
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Yet General Amos said that because of “the very tough fight in Afghanistan, the almost singular focus of our combat forces as they train up and deploy into theater, the necessary tightly woven culture of those combat forces,” he would recommend against the repeal right now.


They worry that the marines won't accept the openly gay soldiers. It has NOTHING to do with them being worried about the gay guy seeing them naked. That's like asking for a different surgeon because he's gay. He's going to have FAR more intimate relations with your body than any gay guy in your troop does. But you'd be a dumbass to make it an issue.

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Gays aren’t risking dying because they’re dying to do makeovers and make-outs in the barracks. They’re going to adapt and fit in. They’re good at that because they’ve had to be.


Believe me, no one has EVER tried to use the privacy issue to oppose DADT, because it is horrendously weak and is based on a premise of prejudice, which the Republican party needed to avoid if they actually wanted to defend the bill. Notice how they are all super careful to avoid dissing gays? But the fact is that their arguments are extremely weak if you assume that they don't think the troops are irreparably homophobic.

I'm not fucking making crap up. These have ALWAYS been the arguments against DADT's repeal. Just because you think you have authority to refute that because you've chatted with some friends doesn't mean squat.

HAVE people made the privacy objection? Yes. But no politician with any hope of defending DADT has. And the fact that most people making the privacy claim often end up asserting that the guys locker room will turn into an orgy doesn't help (no, really, most articulated articles on the subject inevitably mention that the straight guys are gonna turn to the gays for sexual gratification). And THAT'S the biggest objection they make.

I also like the hidden assertion that gays are sexual deviants that will become the whores of bases.

And have you noticed that the privacy option is rarely mentioned even outside of politics? That's because it is grounded firmly in homophobia.

P.S. You DO realize that many other countries have gays in their military, right? Have you noticed that the lack of privacy hasn't caused the entire system to fragment?

Literally the only capacity the privacy issue has been discussed with has been when the Defense Department said there would be some issues to look into if DADT was repealed (note: they were NOT offered as reasons it shouldn't be). You can find them here, with a pretty good rebuttle, but I'll quote them too:

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Despite the uncertainty of timing, another military official said that the Department of Defense was beginning to look at the practical implications of a repeal — for example, whether it would be necessary to change shower facilities and locker rooms because of privacy concerns, whether to ban public displays of affection on military bases and what to do about troops who are stationed or make port calls in nations that outlaw homosexuality.


The second one is a fucking joke and has nothing but homophobia to do with it. It's great going to war and having it forbidden from slapping your pal on the back.

The last one is frankly the military's biggest concern. But it's one they already have experience with when it comes to female soldiers in areas that have harsh restrictions on their sex.

But none of these were offered as reasons DADT shouldn't be repealed. They were stated as what the Defense department was thinking about should it fall.

[EDIT] forgot to add second link.

Edited, Dec 19th 2010 9:18pm by idiggory
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#29Almalieque, Posted: Dec 19 2010 at 8:25 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Idiggory,
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I'm not going to waste any more time with you. You asked a question, I gave you the answer. If you don't like that answer or believe it's true, then that's a personal problem. It is what it is.

I never argued about the history of DADT and admitted that there are people who are ignorant, I responded based on my personal experience, because that's all I can go on.


Then don't claim that your antagonists are making stuff up to suit their needs, when you don't even have a fucking clue (ADMITTEDLY) and aren't even willing to educate yourself when someone GIVES YOU SOURCES. And PS, claiming that I was wrong regarding why people were opposing DADT is arguing about its history.

Because, guess what, you have NO personal experience in this matter. You chatting with a friend about it doesn't suddenly give you insight to some issue.

And, PS, not liking the answer to a question is only a personal problem if your answer is correct. Yours isn't. Goodbye.
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#32Almalieque, Posted: Dec 19 2010 at 8:36 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) I have faith that they will also. Like I said, it's all politics. If the big wigs in the military were really for repealing the DADT, then they would have done it a while back.
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Holy sh*t, this has got to be the most stupid argument from you ever. And that's saying a lot.

And don't @#%^ing ask me to explain.


There's nothing for you to explain as you just made up stuff to counter. Thanks for pointing that out and saving me the time from asking you to explain. Straight men don't suddenly think a beautiful lady isn't attractive after finding out that she's a lesbian. Women don't suddenly think a handsome guy isn't attractive after finding out that he's gay. What makes you think it would change between two people of the same sex? That biologically doesn't make sense.


None of this is the point. God, you're thick.
#34Almalieque, Posted: Dec 19 2010 at 8:40 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Didn't know being in the military with homosexuals didn't count as personal experience... This is why I'm not wasting my time debating your "logic". You're pulling up sources from the past and stuff and I'm talking about the present as I'm living it..
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Nadenu wrote:
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Holy sh*t, this has got to be the most stupid argument from you ever. And that's saying a lot.

And don't @#%^ing ask me to explain.


There's nothing for you to explain as you just made up stuff to counter. Thanks for pointing that out and saving me the time from asking you to explain. Straight men don't suddenly think a beautiful lady isn't attractive after finding out that she's a lesbian. Women don't suddenly think a handsome guy isn't attractive after finding out that he's gay. What makes you think it would change between two people of the same sex? That biologically doesn't make sense.


None of this is the point. God, you're thick.


Wait, wait, wait.. I make a statement, you respond back as that is the dumbest argument ever (haven't heard that before) I REPEAT what I said originally and you say that wasn't the point? HELLO!! I was the one who first made the point, if anyone here is thick, it's you...

Bard understood the point and interpreted your response the same way... so, I think you should try it again if you meant something else.
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1. The privacy issue is the exact same as having a man share close quarters with a woman.
What is the privacy issue that exists for a gay man that doesn't exist for a straight man? If you want to say it's the same as with a woman, explain the connection please.

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2. Because they are assumptions. They aren't admitting that they are gay so you have nothing to argue against.
I don't see this as being a significant distinction. If you know someone is gay, then your attitude towards them shouldn't be different if they have explicitly admitted it. I don't buy that somehow them being allowed to admit it magically changes the way people think about a person.
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#38 Dec 19 2010 at 8:50 PM Rating: Good
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1. The privacy issue is the exact same as having a man share close quarters with a woman.

2. Because they are assumptions. They aren't admitting that they are gay so you have nothing to argue against.


1. No it isn't. They are similar in one sense and very different in another.

If you discourage close quarters because you think the people are sexually voracious, then it is the same--you don't want to change with people of the other sex because it is a sexual atmosphere.

If you discourage close quarters due to modesty, however, there is absolutely no argument against gays sharing living quarters. They have all the same parts you do--it isn't somehow extra barbaric to expose them.

Furthermore, there's an actual risk of sexual tensions when a straight man/woman are together. When gays are with straight people, the attraction is one sided. Nothing is going to happen because any sexual tension is unreciprocated so it doesn't build upon itself. So even if men/women are kept apart for sexual reasons, it still isn't necessarily a problem.

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There's nothing for you to explain as you just made up stuff to counter. Thanks for pointing that out and saving me the time from asking you to explain. Straight men don't suddenly think a beautiful lady isn't attractive after finding out that she's a lesbian. Women don't suddenly think a handsome guy isn't attractive after finding out that he's gay. What makes you think it would change between two people of the same sex? That biologically doesn't make sense.


A. Not all men are attractive to gay men--fact. Not all women are attractive to gay women--fact.

B. Not all gay men are sexual fiends who will pounce on a straight man at the first chance they get--fact. Not all gay women are sexual fiends who will pounce on straight women at the first chance they get--fact.

C. When's the last time you heard of a straight man or women getting sexually abused or assaulted by a gay in a gym locker room?

D. You might still find them attractive, but it's a WHOLE DIFFERENT story when you know they aren't into your gender. There are a lot of straight guys I find attractive. There's no sexual tension between us because they don't reciprocate. And no gay guy (who's not a lunatic) tries to push sex on a straight man. For one thing, that's an excellent way to suddenly find yourself the target of a hate crime (seriously). For another, you know as well as anyone else that you are wasting your time.

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I have faith that they will also. Like I said, it's all politics. If the big wigs in the military were really for repealing the DADT, then they would have done it a while back.


The military != the politicians. If General Patraeus wanted to stop DADT ten years ago, he still wouldn't have been able to until Congress repealed it. Notice how Obama is commander-in-chief of the armed forces? HE couldn't repeal DADT until congress said so. The bill literally had nothing to do with the "big wigs in the military."

Congrats on demonstrating how little you know about how the US works.
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#39 Dec 19 2010 at 8:52 PM Rating: Excellent
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I think Alma's upset that he's never been hit on by a gay man.

So sad.
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If it wasn't alma, I'd volunteer to help. Maybe Bard will take one for the team.

Oh yeah, and @ alma, when the Pentagon released its report saying that the repeal of DADT would cause little to no immediate harm to the armed forces (and no extended harm), it also included a commentary on why the military SHOULDN'T segregate bathrooms.

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Though some troops suggested during the study that there should be separate bath and living facilities for gays, the report recommended against it because it would be a "logistical nightmare, expensive and impossible to administer."

Further, separate facilities would stigmatize gays and lesbians in the way that "separate but equal" facilities did to blacks before the 1960s, it said.


*cough*

Edited, Dec 19th 2010 10:01pm by idiggory
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#41Almalieque, Posted: Dec 19 2010 at 9:00 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Because you have no proof, you're just stereotyping. I would have bet $100 that this chick in my class was ***** with her friend and apparently I was wrong. I didn't treat her differently because I thought she was something. There's another guy who acts 120% flamming ***** besides talking to/about women. People still thinks he's a ****, but there isn't any proof to say otherwise. If you're spending that much time thinking about someone's sexuality, then you're wasting time.
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

A. You were SURE this girl in your class was a "*****" and you know another guy who's "flaming" and you think that people weren't treating them just as bad as if they had come out (even if they weren't?) Until my senior year, I was the *only* out kid in my school. Do you think I was the only one being mocked for being gay?

B. You are only showing how retarded you are if you refuse to read the rebuttles. I'm replying to what you said SPECIFICALLY. I completely understand WHAT you are saying--I'm telling you that you are wrong. The WISE thing to do is evaluate the opposition's argument and try to logically rebuttal. But I guess that basic skill is lost on you. That, or you just like maintaining ignorance.

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If you're spending that much time thinking about someone's sexuality, then you're wasting time.


That I agree on, which is precisely one of the reasons why I don't think segregated bathrooms matter.
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Maybe Bard will take one for the team.
I've already serviced a serviceman. Not sure what more you want me to do.
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Because you have no proof, you're just stereotyping. I would have bet $100 that this chick in my class was ***** with her friend and apparently I was wrong. I didn't treat her differently because I thought she was something. There's another guy who acts 120% flamming ***** besides talking to/about women. People still thinks he's a ****, but there isn't any proof to say otherwise. If you're spending that much time thinking about someone's sexuality, then you're wasting time.


Noooo... you're not a homophobe at all!
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My FAVORITE thing about the DADT repeal? How some Republican senators are so pissed off that it passed that they are now going to vote against the treaty with Russia out of spite. Lindsey Graham says she won't support it because she doesn't like democrats forcing votes on issues.

LOL WHAT? You are going to vote against a measure you originally supported because you are angry that the democratic congress is trying to vote on issues before we have a lame duck gov't on our hands?

Gotta love America.

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I made the connection by telling you it's the same as with women. If you want a better explanation, why don't you ask a woman who doesn't approve with showering with random men why she feels that way. I have no problem with that idea. Throw everybody together in the shower, I don't care...
Oh, so the privacy isn't actually your argument then. I don't see the connection making the same as with women, please explain how this is.

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I don't see this as being a significant distinction. If you know someone is gay, then your attitude towards them shouldn't be different if they have explicitly admitted it. I don't buy that somehow them being allowed to admit it magically changes the way people think about a person.
Because you have no proof, you're just stereotyping. I would have bet $100 that this chick in my class was ***** with her friend and apparently I was wrong. I didn't treat her differently because I thought she was something. There's another guy who acts 120% flamming ***** besides talking to/about women. People still thinks he's a ****, but there isn't any proof to say otherwise. If you're spending that much time thinking about someone's sexuality, then you're wasting time.
If you didn't treat someone differently based on what you thought about them, why would what you thought being true or not change how you treat someone?

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Good job lame duck session. Like de-segregation of the military, just one necessary step to take.
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#48 Dec 19 2010 at 10:59 PM Rating: Excellent
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Lindsey Graham says she won't support it because she doesn't like democrats forcing votes on issues.


Lindsey Graham's a dude. Granted, he has a girl's name, a southern accent, lacks ********** & fits the whole "christian conservative whom bangs male hookers but isn't really gay" profile so i can see how that would confuse you.

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And Alma thinks gays are icky, which is fine as it is his right to do so. There is no need to "argue" with him about other reasons why he doesn't support DADT repeal, as the "Alma thinks Gays are icky" is the root cause & everything else is BS.

So please stop.
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And Alma thinks gays are icky, which is fine as it is his right to do so. There is no need to "argue" with him about other reasons why he doesn't support DADT repeal, as the "Alma thinks Gays are icky" is the root cause & everything else is BS.

So please stop.


Um, no.
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Canada, [...] hell, practically every other military on earth worth mentioning has figured out how to make it work. I'm sure we'll figure it out somehow.
Something's wrong with this.

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And Alma thinks gays are icky, which is fine as it is his right to do so. There is no need to "argue" with him about other reasons why he doesn't support DADT repeal, as the "Alma thinks Gays are icky" is the root cause & everything else is BS.

So please stop.


Whoa, sparklepony. Who died and made you Alla? I find it humorous that you are asking for a halt to upstanding debate (if you can call taunting a moran debate, which in here, you certainly can) when you yourself are sitting in the back of the metaphorical point bus.

The focus of his argument is the total lack of comprehension of what constitutes an enforceable policy or law vs. public ideology. Someone can think all day long that brown people are lawnmowing jobstealers who shoot out anchor babies like fireworks, but as long as they don't violate a policy or break a law by doing so, then I have jacksh*t to say about it. You can't regulate thought, so the fact that anyone thinks that gays are icky is FUCKING POINTLESS.

Suck it up, 'men'. Be happy that thinking some chick has a hot *** and you'd like to hit that won't get you accused of rape. Hooray, freedom from oppression.

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