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#377 Dec 29 2010 at 9:37 PM Rating: Good
Almalieque wrote:
Backpedaling and twisting the subject.


Sure, sparky. Whatever. Live in your delusional world.
#378 Dec 29 2010 at 10:26 PM Rating: Good
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Sure, sparky. Whatever. Live in your delusional world.

Usually this is no solace to me, because people still vote based on delusions. But not this time. This time they lost. Even though in the future their opposition will be forgotten, white washed, or even twisted as having championed gay rights, and even though no lessons will be learned, today--now--is victory. The past can be tarnished, but the present can not be diminished.

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#379 Dec 29 2010 at 11:48 PM Rating: Decent
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In thinking about it, another reason that men and women are, for the most part, kept seperated when in communal naked spaces has to do with mitigating risk. I'm not sure how many men realize this, but if a woman is to be in a doctors office and asked to remove any clothing by a male doctor, a female nurse is asked to step into the room. This is just as much for the doctor's protection (maybe even moreso, really) as for the woman's protection. I wonder if that plays a factor here, as well.


Men and women are kept separate for several reasons, mainly sociological, cultural reasons stemming from childhood. Whether or not they're good ones is up for debate.

1) Body shame. As children, we are taught that certain parts of our bodies are only for us (our "privates"). Part of this is to protect us from predators, and part of it is simply part of the Puritan background of not showing skin. Children will gladly go about naked and exposing themselves if not taught to do otherwise, usually through scolding. As a result, most of us grow up with a deeply ingrained sense that we should not expose ourselves to others, especially those of the opposite sex. However, children typically are taught that it is ok for their same-sex immediate family (other trusted individuals) to see them.

2) Sexuality innocence. As children grow, we generally try to suppress their knowledge of sexuality until later adolescence (aside from discouraging it). We continue to segregate them by sex so that they have less exposure to sexual temptation and knowledge.

3) Rape. Gee, no surprise that if you throw naked women in front of naked men, there might be some extra rape. Sexual urges increase, and the substantial weight and strength advantage that males typically have over women increases the risk considerably. Women are also likely to feel afraid of men in such situations (considering they are afraid of them in many safer situations, like simply walking in a public place). While there may be similar urges by placing like sexes together, the lower prevalence of homosexuality alongside the more similar physiques makes it far less of a problem.

So even among the reasons that do relate to comfort, they are predominantly a matter of comfort with respect to gender rather than sexuality for adults. Of course MEN are typically less comfortable with the idea of showering with a gay man than a woman. That has nothing to do with the social reasons with which we originally began (and continue) segregating men and women (primarily for female protection, puritanism, and to reduce adolescent sex).
#380 Dec 30 2010 at 4:28 AM Rating: Decent
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Anybody that has served in the military, has ALREADY showered with gay members of the same sex. They've done so for the most part, knowing full well, or suspecting that those people were gay. Anyone that claims otherwise is a fool, and a liar. There have always been gay people in the military, and they have always showered with their straight counterparts. Whether they serve openly or not is irrelevant. Almost nobody in the military is going to come out as gay and shock people, everyone around them is going to respond with "Yup, I figured he/she was *****".

The point is moot. STFU and move on.


You're ignorant. You're just making up crap. Please silence yourself.


Wrong again fUcknuts. I spent most of my time in the Navy living in a room about the size of a school bus with 18 other guys. You really can't get any closer living arrangements. Everyone knew (or suspected with a high degree of accuracy) who was gay and who was not.

Again, the point is moot. Straights and gays have been showering together in the military since the invention of the shower. And Varus's arguments look thoughtful and well planned compared to your disjointed gibberish. Please, shut the fUck up and go away.
#381 Dec 30 2010 at 6:07 AM Rating: Good
It's hardly indicative of great insight to know whether someone in the navy is gay or not.

Hint: they are.

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#382 Dec 30 2010 at 6:26 AM Rating: Decent
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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Almalieque wrote:
Backpedaling and twisting the subject.


Sure, sparky. Whatever. Live in your delusional world.


How is posting my original post backpedaling and twisting the subject? Just admit that you were wrong. You confused my argument with a fictional one that you made up. Why don't you read Kachi's response quoted below. That is the real reason why men and women are separated, not that trash that you made up. So at this point, you can accept the truth (what Kachi posted below) or stay in denial. You know and everyone knows that this separation is psychological.

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Men and women are kept separate for several reasons, mainly sociological, cultural reasons stemming from childhood. Whether or not they're good ones is up for debate.

1) Body shame. As children, we are taught that certain parts of our bodies are only for us (our "privates"). Part of this is to protect us from predators, and part of it is simply part of the Puritan background of not showing skin. Children will gladly go about naked and exposing themselves if not taught to do otherwise, usually through scolding. As a result, most of us grow up with a deeply ingrained sense that we should not expose ourselves to others, especially those of the opposite sex. However, children typically are taught that it is ok for their same-sex immediate family (other trusted individuals) to see them.

2) Sexuality innocence. As children grow, we generally try to suppress their knowledge of sexuality until later adolescence (aside from discouraging it). We continue to segregate them by sex so that they have less exposure to sexual temptation and knowledge.

3) Rape. Gee, no surprise that if you throw naked women in front of naked men, there might be some extra rape. Sexual urges increase, and the substantial weight and strength advantage that males typically have over women increases the risk considerably. Women are also likely to feel afraid of men in such situations (considering they are afraid of them in many safer situations, like simply walking in a public place). While there may be similar urges by placing like sexes together, the lower prevalence of homosexuality alongside the more similar physiques makes it far less of a problem.

So even among the reasons that do relate to comfort, they are predominantly a matter of comfort with respect to gender rather than sexuality for adults. Of course MEN are typically less comfortable with the idea of showering with a gay man than a woman. That has nothing to do with the social reasons with which we originally began (and continue) segregating men and women (primarily for female protection, puritanism, and to reduce adolescent sex).



QFT.. That is right.. of course with you saying that, it will be treated differently than me saying it. That's all I'm saying is to acknowledge the fact that this is all about comfort, but when men use "comfort" against gay men, it is negatively labeled.

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Wrong again @#%^nuts. I spent most of my time in the Navy living in a room about the size of a school bus with 18 other guys. You really can't get any closer living arrangements. Everyone knew (or suspected with a high degree of accuracy) who was gay and who was not.

Again, the point is moot. Straights and gays have been showering together in the military since the invention of the shower. And Varus's arguments look thoughtful and well planned compared to your disjointed gibberish. Please, shut the @#%^ up and go away.


Let me break this down for you. I'm not denying the living conditions of the military. My dad was in the Navy, I've been on Tiger cruises and seen the living conditions. What I'm calling you out on is the belief that every military person showered with a homosexual. You simply don't know that, because you're just making that up. In the handful of times that I actually did participate in an open shower, there is a much higher percentage that I have not as opposed to I have showered with a homosexual. Have I ever? I don't know, maybe maybe not. But with 5-10 group showers in my life, you can't say with confidence that I have.

There's a reason why other servicemen label the Navy as "gay". You can't compare your time in the Navy with other services on living conditions, because they are completely different.

So, as I said earlier, please silence yourself. You sound real ignorant.


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"It's hardly indicative of great insight to know whether someone in the navy is gay or not.

Hint: they are. " - Kavekk


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#383 Dec 30 2010 at 8:07 AM Rating: Good
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#384 Dec 30 2010 at 8:55 AM Rating: Good
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How is posting my original post backpedaling and twisting the subject?


You're using privacy as a reason for why DADT shouldn't be repealed. Now that you realize how assinine that sounds, you've decided to change your tune and pretend you were just trying to stick up for the men who are afraid to shower in a communal space with someone who might be homosexual.

That's called backpedalling. And you trying to pretend that's what you were on about from the very begining is called twisting the subject.

I understand why you need it spelled out for you. It's difficult to be confronted with your delusions. Smiley: frown

And while I don't disagree with Kachi, and have said some of the same things myself, you're both idiots if you think those are the only reasons that exist for why men and women are seperated in communal naked places. There are a myriad of reasons, and sure, comfort is one of them. Some comforts are understandable and should be accomodated. Some should not be tolerated.

If it makes a platoon in the army more comfortable to shower with underage girls, should we then change the rules for them?
#385 Dec 30 2010 at 9:48 AM Rating: Good
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3) Rape. Gee, no surprise that if you throw naked women in front of naked men, there might be some extra rape.
I don't think unisex bathrooms or even group sleeping quarters would cause more (extra) rape.
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3) Rape. Gee, no surprise that if you throw naked women in front of naked men, there might be some extra rape.
I don't think unisex bathrooms or even group sleeping quarters would cause more (extra) rape.


I always though women had developed a natural defense to this situation by comparing the men's ***** sizes in front of them. It would either disable a man by making him turn away in shame, or have them start taunting each other which would shift focus away from the women allowing them to escape.
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#387 Dec 30 2010 at 10:09 AM Rating: Good
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3) Rape. Gee, no surprise that if you throw naked women in front of naked men, there might be some extra rape.
I don't think unisex bathrooms or even group sleeping quarters would cause more (extra) rape.


I always though women had developed a natural defense to this situation by comparing the men's ***** sizes in front of them. It would either disable a man by making him turn away in shame, or have them start taunting each other which would shift focus away from the women allowing them to escape.


what were you thinking when you made this post

what were you thinking
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Kavekk wrote:
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3) Rape. Gee, no surprise that if you throw naked women in front of naked men, there might be some extra rape.
I don't think unisex bathrooms or even group sleeping quarters would cause more (extra) rape.


I always though women had developed a natural defense to this situation by comparing the men's ***** sizes in front of them. It would either disable a man by making him turn away in shame, or have them start taunting each other which would shift focus away from the women allowing them to escape.


what were you thinking when you made this post

what were you thinking


I don't know. Let me ask NyQuil, he'll be able to figure it out.
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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
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How is posting my original post backpedaling and twisting the subject?


You're using privacy as a reason for why DADT shouldn't be repealed. Now that you realize how assinine that sounds, you've decided to change your tune and pretend you were just trying to stick up for the men who are afraid to shower in a communal space with someone who might be homosexual.

That's called backpedalling. And you trying to pretend that's what you were on about from the very begining is called twisting the subject.



WTFRU talking about? WTF do you think me and Sir X was arguing about for pages now? You just haven't been paying attention and now you realized that you were confused and instead of admitting that you were confused yourself, you're claiming that I changed propositions...

Let me spell this out for you... This is my first post....again..

Almalieque The Wonderful wrote:
"o.O Source? From my experiences, that has been the least of anyone's concerns. Sounds like you're making stuff up.

According to the big brass who agreed to the repeal on certain circumstances stated a whole other argument. Coincidentally, the same one I later used... "


The bold was in reference to the nonsense the OP stated that this was all about bigotry. I countered to ask for sources because that hasn't been the case from my experiences.

Then I said the following:

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"The military living conditions are often tight and close, causing people to live with each other and shower together. Allowing open homosexuals to live with heterosexuals causes the same privacy issues as allowing men and women to live, sleep and shower together. So, the conclusion would be to either have separate billeting or have everyone live, sleep and shower together, regardless of sex or sexuality. This is why they agreed to the repeal, just at a later date.
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This was me explaining that the privacy argument is being used, the same privacy issues between men and women, not bigotry remarks that the OP said, i.e "The whole argument stems from the idea of the gay as a sissy who can't be trusted in war,".

From there, me and Sir X talked back and forth on what exactly are these "same reasons" between men and women vs straight and homosexual men.. See below...

"[Sir X]You bring up the privacy issue, but why would there be a privacy issue with gay men that wouldn't be there with straight men? What is the issue of privacy?
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From this point, Sir X was claiming that the reasons why women don't want to be in close quarters with men are different thanwhy straight men don't want to be in close quarters with gay men. I countered to say that they are the same thing except one is upheld and the other isn't, creating a double standard.

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What is the privacy issue that exists for a gay man that doesn't exist for a straight man? If you want to say it's the same as with a woman, explain the connection please.



I made the connection by telling you it's the same as with women. If you want a better explanation, why don't you ask a woman who doesn't approve with showering with random men why she feels that way. I have no problem with that idea. Throw everybody together in the shower, I don't care...


This is where you came in...

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No, I'm telling you it's a privacy issue and you want more detail than I can give. So, instead of me making stuff up, something that you all are so very use to doing, I'm telling you to ask a female. This is because the best response I can give is "it's the same privacy issue with women and men".



So... your opinion is that it shouldn't be repealed because of a privacy issue, but you don't really understand and can't explain why privacy would be an issue?

Alrighty then..


This is where you started off being confused. I was never arguing that it shouldn't be repealed, but there are legitimate reasons for not repealing it other than bigotry listed by the OP, i.e. "The whole argument stems from the idea of the gay as a sissy who can't be trusted in war,".

You created an argument that never existed and begun arguing it. I even told you at this point that I was just trying to get Sir X to acknowledge the similarity in scenarios..

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This has been nothing but a game the entire time with Sir X.

I want him to accept the similarity. He's trying to lure me into saying something to be the basis of his argument. He doesn't want to admit the similarity first, because that would take away from his argument. You have to keep up Belkira!


Then you said the following "So... privacy isn't an issue, and you're fine with the repeal?"

I responded yet another time in order to correct you .

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Once again, I merely corrected the false assumption that everyone who is against the repeal is because of prejudice. I only used the privacy issue because that's what the generals and big politicians are stating in their defense. The entire point is that while some people are just bigots, that isn't true for everyone. The privacy issue is a legitimate point. You all just refuse to accept that because that's how society is making homosexual gains, by calling everyon bigots and homophobes if they disagree.


I can keep going on and on and on, but it is evident that my entire point has been that there are legitimate reasons for not wanting to repeal DADT with privacy being an example.

You responded to the privacy issue by saying "It's not an issue, though. There are homosexuals in the military right this second. You probably showered with one when you last took a communal shower. All the yammering about privacy is just a way to stall and keep people from getting rid of an archaic and stupid rule."

So, I asked if you had a problem with open showers with men since "it isn't an issue"? This was me making the connection that the reasons for why heterosexual men don't want to take showers with homosexual men are the same reasons why women don't want to shower with men. These reasons are legitimate reasons that are not based on bigotry as the OP stated, i.e. "The whole argument stems from the idea of the gay as a sissy who can't be trusted in war,".

You responded that you would have a problem with men, but not women. So, I asked, if it weren't a privacy issue, then why do you care if it's a man or a woman next to you? You responded to say that because men and women have different body parts. So, I asked you where does this physical discrimination stop? You replied in places where you aren't naked. That response proves that it has nothing to do with the fact that your coworker has a *****, but the fact that you don't feel comfortable seeing it or him seeing you. Else, it wouldn't matter if you were naked or clothed, because in both scenarios, your coworker still has a *****.


So in conclusion, I've been on topic the entire time. You have been the confused one debating a fictional argument. When you said "Noooooo. That's not true. Not at all. You have said many, many times, "I have my own, personal reasons for not wanting DADT repealed, but the general brought up a good point that I hadn't thought about: Privacy issues. That's a very good point!", it became obvious that you combined 3 different arguments and confused yourself.

TL:DR: You're wrong.

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And while I don't disagree with Kachi, and have said some of the same things myself, you're both idiots if you think those are the only reasons that exist for why men and women are seperated in communal naked places. There are a myriad of reasons, and sure, comfort is one of them. Some comforts are understandable and should be accomodated. Some should not be tolerated.


As long as you admit that you're wrong about anatomy being the primary reason for the segregation as opposed to comfort.

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If it makes a platoon in the army more comfortable to shower with underage girls, should we then change the rules for them?


Nope. As I said, a double standard isn't necessarily good or bad. I'm just wanting you to accept the fact that it's there and stop pretending that it's somehow different.

Just as you complain about people throwing in children, objects and animals in SSM arguments, there's no reason why two grown adults can't shower together other than comfort.

I'm glad that you finally agree.
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Now than I can shower with other men while screaming "I'M GAY!!", I plan on joining the military. It just wasn't the same without the yelling and obvious pixie dust wafting off my skin.
#392 Dec 30 2010 at 7:32 PM Rating: Good
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Now than I can shower with other men while screaming "I'M GAY!!", I plan on joining the military. It just wasn't the same without the yelling and obvious pixie dust wafting off my skin.


I've been wondering where you were in this thread.
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3) Rape. Gee, no surprise that if you throw naked women in front of naked men, there might be some extra rape.
I don't think unisex bathrooms or even group sleeping quarters would cause more (extra) rape.


To be fair in playing Devil's Advocate, theoretically, no it wouldn't, but in practice, maybe. I wouldn't go so far to say "rape", but I wouldn't doubt an increase in sexual harassment. This goes back to my point. It's typically acceptable for a woman to express such concern of being harassed or assaulted, but not men, when in both scenarios, the "attacker" is a man.

Again, not saying double standards are inherently bad or good, but they exist. I would argue that women are more likely to come forward about a sexual harassment or sexual assault than men. I would go further to say that a male's pride is probably the biggest reason for him not to come forward in fear of being ridiculed or seen less of a man, while a woman is probably fear of further harassment.

There was a male Soldier in my last unit who was sexually assaulted by a gay man and they were definitely feelings of embarrassment floating.
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It's typically acceptable for a woman to express such concern of being harassed or assaulted, but not men, when in both scenarios, the "attacker" is a man.

Again, not saying double standards are inherently bad or good, but they exist.

Unless it's statistically more likely to a significant degree that women would be harassed by men than men by men or women by women. In which case it makes complete sense to make arrangements accounting for the majority cases and leave the minority cases to be handled in some other fashion as they arise.
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That's all I'm saying is to acknowledge the fact that this is all about comfort, but when men use "comfort" against gay men, it is negatively labeled.


As it probably should be. Comfort is only ONE of the reasons for segregation in the first place, and in those cases, it is because men are able to easily overpower women-- women who are legitimately afraid to be around men in a vulnerable state. Men are typically comfortable in this situation BECAUSE they have nothing to worry about from women. And men and women are not really afraid of sharing facilities with the same sex-- just uncomfortable. There's a substantial difference between a shyness/modesty/homophobia and fear. Plenty of males and females are uncomfortable changing or showering around the same sex-- that doesn't mean they're afraid of them.

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you're both idiots if you think those are the only reasons that exist for why men and women are seperated in communal naked places.


Those were the only major ones I could think of. If you know of others, please share.

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I don't think unisex bathrooms or even group sleeping quarters would cause more (extra) rape.


It probably would, but not significantly, no. However, shared locker rooms and showers-- places where people are undressing-- are the primary places for elevated risk, and surprise surprise, these are the places that opponents of gays in the military are most concerned with.

If there was any doubt from my earlier post, I strongly support the repeal. Restricting the freedom to perform a job one is perfectly capable of doing based on what is at best a weak case for an inconvenience just doesn't jive with me in the least. I thought I made that clear enough otherwise.
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It's typically acceptable for a woman to express such concern of being harassed or assaulted, but not men, when in both scenarios, the "attacker" is a man.

Again, not saying double standards are inherently bad or good, but they exist.

Unless it's statistically more likely to a significant degree that women would be harassed by men than men by men or women by women. In which case it makes complete sense to make arrangements accounting for the majority cases and leave the minority cases to be handled in some other fashion as they arise.


I'm not denying that. That's why I say double standards aren't inherently bad or good. It's only logical to make the separation as it is currently done, but at the same time, people shouldn't act like the men's concern is somehow different than women's concern in reference to comfort.


oh, as for the downplaying of the survey, I kept forgetting to reply. I can't prove that you were just "making fun of me" and not downplaying the survey, but it very well seems that you were doing both by mentioning the local gas station suggestion box. By mentioning that, it appeared as if you were making a comparison of the two. I'll leave it at that.


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As it probably should be. Comfort is only ONE of the reasons for segregation in the first place, and in those cases, it is because men are able to easily overpower women-- women who are legitimately afraid to be around men in a vulnerable state.


Correction, Comfort is the MAIN reason for the segregation. The women's concern is just as legitimate as the men's concern, because they are the same thing. How is the man not in any less vulnerable state? Haven't heard "Don't drop the soap" before?

As pointed out, the person next to you does not affect you washing yourself in any way, shape or form. You are simply afraid, prejudging that a man might do something or just not comfortable with the idea of sharing a shower. It's one or the other and people label it as "legitimate" for women and "homophobia" for men.

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Plenty of males and females are uncomfortable changing or showering around the same sex-- that doesn't mean they're afraid of them.


This is my point exactly. They are people expressing otherwise. Some people may just feel uncomfortable changing around homosexuals, but they aren't afraid of them.

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It probably would, but not significantly, no. However, shared locker rooms and showers-- places where people are undressing-- are the primary places for elevated risk, and surprise surprise,


From my "research" and years of propaganda reception, rape more commonly occurs with someone you know in a private area. If you were alone in a public shower, I can see an increase in rape, but I would argue a higher result of sexual harassment than assault.

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these are the places that opponents of gays in the military are most concerned with.

Concerned, yes, but not because of an increase of assault or harassment, just out of comfort. If a gay person wasn't doing those things before, s/he probably isn't going to start doing them being open.

In any case, that was my point to the OP, these concerns aren't based on bigotry, just comfort.

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If there was any doubt from my earlier post, I strongly support the repeal. Restricting the freedom to perform a job one is perfectly capable of doing based on what is at best a weak case for an inconvenience just doesn't jive with me in the least. I thought I made that clear enough otherwise.

You say weak, yet all of society (practically world wide) segregates men and women on the same inconvenience.

This is all politics. Women are still restricted from performing certain jobs and there is no outcry, because no one cares beyond women being able to serve.

I wouldn't be surprised if they treat the homosexuals just as they do women, not authorized to be in certain combat arms and special teams since they are the ones that express the greatest discomfort. LOL that would be funny because society would fight that and then the women would be upset because they haven't been able to join those organization for a much longer time.



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In Alma's world, all gay men have no restraint and will go at any other male no matter his orientation or where they are. Or if they're even attracted to said "vulnerable male".
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In Alma's world, all gay men have no restraint and will go at any other male no matter his orientation or where they are. Or if they're even attracted to said "vulnerable male".


No, in my world, homosexual men are no different than heterosexual men in reference to sexual desires.


Why do you insist that there's more to it other than what it really is?
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