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#377 Jul 01 2010 at 7:59 PM Rating: Excellent
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If you want to talk about logic, you might want to actually pick a "side" that isn't using nothing but a list of logical fallacies to argue the issue.
Gay marriage would make a lot of people happy while giving up basically nothing. I'll let others take it from there.
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Gbaji, your reading comprehension is atrocious. You claim that in Perez v. Sharp they link marriage and procreation, and yet:

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The right to marry is as fundamental as the right to send one's child to a particular school or the right to have offspring


Sigh... You can lead a horse to water...

Reading comprehension means being able to follow the flow of the words, not just pluck single sentences out. The Judge is equating one fundamental right to two others previously established. One of which is the right to send your child to a school of your choice. The other is the right to procreate. Now... Wait for it... Read further and see where that right to procreate comes from. It comes from Skinner, in which it *and* marriage are linked to that right. Perez quotes Skinner. How did you miss it? I even bolded it for you...


And if we're going to talk about comprehension, why did the judge choose to list off two rights in that section both having to do with children when making his case for marriage being a "fundamental right"? Think about it. Don't just read the words, understand what the person writing them is saying.


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Here, they're quite clearly making a distinction between the right to marriage and the right to procreate.


No. He's saying that they are similar. Not identical, but similar. He's saying that just as a person has a right to decide where to send their child to school, and just as a person has a right to choose to procreate, a person has a right to marry. He's saying that these things all fit into a similar category and exist as "fundamental rights" because they share common social import.

He's absolutely not making a distinction between them. And, more to the point, he then specifically quotes from Skinner in which that justice declared them together to be a fundamental right. Precedence comes from somewhere, and this concept of marriage as a fundamental right ultimately comes from that statement in Skinner. Ironically, I only included the first paragraph so that no one would claim that I was leaving out the bits about choosing schools for you children. I don't see how that removes the later and more relevant statements, but I didn't want someone insisting that I left them off because I did.

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Thus the right of procreation can be denied separately from the right to marriage, and vice versa.


Not according to Skinner. Skinner combines the two into one. In fact, even though the case had nothing at all to do with marriage, marriage is mentioned only one time in the case in the sentence quoted later in Perez (and presumably in other court cases since). Why, if the case is purely about forced sterilization and the justice is making a point about the "right to procreation", does he say "marriage and procreation are fundamental..."?

Think about what the words mean and why they were written. That one use of the word marriage wasn't added to skinner just as flavor. It has a meaning. The two go hand in hand.

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The fact that this has not yet happened does mean they legally cannot be - and we are, after all, having a legal debate, despite the several pages in this thread you spent trying to discuss things which have nothing to do with the law. If marriage and procreation are so inextricably linked to the justices as you claim, then why list the right to send your child to a particular school?


Because they have similar justifications having something to do with the state stepping in and making decisions for reason of social/physical/mental health. You have to read more of Perez to see that he's debunking a state position that it's for the good of the people to not allow mixed races to marry, complete with some pretty weak arguments about diseases and whatnot. So cases relevant to the issue of the state taking a "public good" position for discrimination would be logical choices.

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Is this another right that's somehow linked to marriage? If you get a divorce, are you required to send your child to the nearest public school? Or are you simply picking and choosing the lines you want from the ruling just like you're accusing everyone else of doing?


I think you're reading too much into it. I included the whole section so no one could argue that I cherry picked the section. There happens to be an additional reference in there which isn't part of what I'm talking about. Don't read anything more into it than that.

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Why is it that procreation and marriage are linked so powerfully by this ruling and yet nothing else that he happened to mention are?


Because the quote from Skinner effectively says so. The logic is pretty simple really:

If a right to procreate exists, then by extension any law which places limits or burdens on the choice of who to procreate with must infringe that right.

Limits on marriage represent clear limits or burdens on the choice of who to procreate with.

Therefore, those limits on marriage violate a "fundamental right".



My argument is that since that establishment of marriage as a "fundamental right" rests on the effect of limiting marriage on the resulting limits on procreation choices, a law which places limits or restrictions on marriage only to couples who cannot procreate does *not* violate the fundamental right at question.


Get it?
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Um... As to the Skinner reference, did you bother to read Perez v Sharp?

Yes, I did. Which is how I know that the stance of marriage being a fundamental right comes before the part you claim was instrumental in making that statement. Here, let's try quoting a broader portion rather than the bit you selected:

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The due process clause of the Fourteenth Amendment protects an area of personal liberty not yet wholly delimited. "While this Court has not attempted to define with exactness the liberty thus guaranteed, the term has received much consideration and some of the included things have been definitely stated. Without doubt, it denotes not merely freedom from bodily restraint, but also the right of the individual to contract, to engage in any of the common occupations of life, to acquire useful knowledge, to marry, establish a home and bring up children, to worship God according to the dictates of his own conscience, and, generally, to enjoy those privileges long recognized at common law as essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness by free men." (Italics added; Meyer v. Nebraska, 262 U.S. 390, 399 [43 S.Ct. 625, 67 L.Ed. 1042].) Marriage is thus something more than a civil contract subject to regulation by the state; it is a fundamental right of free men. There can be no prohibition of marriage except for an important social objective and by reasonable means.

No law within the broad areas of state interest may be unreasonably discriminatory or arbitrary. The state's interest in public education, for example, does not empower the Legislature to compel school children to receive instruction from public teachers only, for it would thereby take away the right of parents to "direct the upbringing and education of children under their control." (Pierce v. Society of Sisters, 268 U.S. 510, 534-535 [45 S.Ct. 571, 69 L.Ed. 1070, 39 A.L.R. 468].) Again, the state's vital concern in the prevention of crime and the mental health of its citizens does not empower the Legislature to deprive "individuals of a right which is basic to the perpetuation of a race--the right to have offspring" by authorizing the sterilization of criminals upon an arbitrary basis of classification and without a fair hearing. (Skinner v. Oklahoma, 316 U.S. 535, 536 [62 S.Ct. 1110, 86 L.Ed. 1655].)


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The judge in this case is drawing a claim to marriage being a fundamental right from earlier defined rights regarding decisions of procreation and child rearing.

He first derives it from an earlier ruling regarding the due process cause in a case regarding education. You're acting as though he is taking his concept of marriage as a fundamental right from Skinner when this is not the case. Had you actually read the case rather than looking for snippets to take out of context, you'd have known this and saved yourself just another embarrassing episode of Gbaji Looks Like An ***.

This is also setting aside the fact that the importance of Perez isn't merely the statement that marriage is a fundamental right (as that can be taken from other decisions as well) but rather the recognition that the status of marriage observed by the courts is one that includes state recognition.

Look, I think it's great that you're now frantically looking at these cases and Googling, trying to slavage some sort of a point. Given your performance over the last three or four pages, it's painfully obvious that you hadn't done so yet so at least you're starting to at least try.

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No. You never really have.

Actually I gave quite a few examples before. I'm not sure who you're trying to convince here -- others have already recognized that I've done this. I'd guess that anyone bothering to follow these threads also knows that I have. I suppose this leaves the possibility that you're trying to convince yourself. Which certainly seems plausible.

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It would make my answer more reasonable, though.

Not really and I'd hope that before you started denying people their rights you had a better argument for it than "Sounds good to me".

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Let me leave you with one other quote from Perez, but I'll add the last sentence of the paragraph, which your quotes tend to leave off

Wow. Just wow. You don't even read these things, do you? I mean, you not only skim the court cases but you obviously just skim the posts as well. I have repeatedly (and as recently as my last post to you) acknowledged that marriage can be denied to people (just as any right can and is denied to people given sufficient reason) based off this very passage and now you think you've got some big "Gotcha!" I haven't seen before? Really?? Are you that stupid that you're actually taking a passage I've referenced at least a half dozen times in this thread and saying "Ah ha!! You never read THIS, did you?!"

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha....


Thanks for that. I'm leaving on vacation tomorrow so probably won't be responding much to this thread, if at all, after this but that was awesome! You've absolutely shown everyone that you don't have a clue.

Thank you.
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#380 Jul 01 2010 at 8:31 PM Rating: Default
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Let's see if you can follow incredibly basic logic.

1) Marriage is a fundamental right.


Ok.

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2) As a legal status, marriage comes with certain benefits.


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3) Marriage without these benefits is not viewed as a legal marriage in the eyes of the state. (That would be your "write your own marriage contract" idea.)


Yup.

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4) There is no evidence that denying these rightsbenefits to homosexuals will benefit the state. (In agreement with Perez v. Sharp, it has to benefit the state in such a way as to advance a significant social objective.)


First off, you changed a word. We were talking about the benefits being denied, not the ability to enter into the contract. There is no "right" involved in just that. However, I'll grant that by removing the benefits to a group, you will create a "burden or limit" on their obtaining or utilizing that right. It's effectively an increased opportunity cost to choosing to marry. I just want us to be clear about what is actually being denied. The lack of benefits for gay couples only mildly infringes their "right" to marry in the sense that others have an incentive and additional benefits for doing so which gay couples do not have access to.

Second, you are looking at it backwards. There is no evidence that by providing those benefits to homosexuals will benefit the state. I'll go back to my farm subsidy example. If we determine that it will benefit the nation economically if we subsidize wheat production, we can use that to justify a wheat subsidy. No one in their right mind would argue that since the state can't show that it benefits by denying the subsidy to okra farmers that it's a violation of their rights not to receive the subsidy.

Surely you agree with that logic?

As I stated earlier, the test for applicability is if the law as written can be shown to advance a social objective and is reasonable to achieve that. You're looking at it backwards. It's not about whether or not it's beneficial to deny homosexuals that bonus, but whether it's beneficial to provide it to heterosexuals. Since only heterosexual couples can produce children, if we accept the premise that the purpose of marriage incentives in the first place is to encourage procreation within a legally defined marriage contract, then limiting said benefits to only heterosexual couples absolutely passes the test.


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5) Homosexuals should have the right to marry.


A right to enter into their own marriage contracts, just as everyone else does? Absolutely.

The question is whether or not the lack of government benefits/incentives and ease of contract availability in the existing law constitutes a violation of that right. And as I pointed out earlier, when we don't look at the issue backwards, it clearly passes the test.


We don't start by looking at how groups of people are affected by laws and then deciding if that's "fair" We start by looking at what the laws do and asking if the purpose of the law is good, and if the law reasonably achieves that purpose with no unnecessary infringement of other liberties. The okra farmers right to grow the crop of his choice is clearly infringed by the existence of a wheat subsidy, but the subsidy wasn't created to hurt the okra farmer but to increase the amount of wheat grown. In the same way, a set of benefits and codified and easily obtained marriage contract set up for heterosexual couples can be said to infringe the homosexuals marriage choices, however, that set of laws was not created to hurt the gay person, but to increase the number of heterosexual couples who entered into a strictly codified marriage contract.

It passes the test IMO.



Hopefully, I answered your additional questions already, so I'm not going to quote the rest.
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Um... As to the Skinner reference, did you bother to read Perez v Sharp?

Yes, I did. Which is how I know that the stance of marriage being a fundamental right comes before the part you claim was instrumental in making that statement.


Yes, Joph. I did read that part. I rejected it as meaningful because while it happens to be mentioned first in the opinion, the case he quotes doesn't shed any light on the issue. It just happens to include "to marry" in a list of other rights.

I think you're getting to caught up on the order of the words. Do you think that he wrote the opinion while forming the opinion itself? I'm pretty sure he'd thought through the whole thing and did the research and derived his position *before* putting pen to paper. And just as you often write what you're going to argue first and *then* list the reasons why, it appears as though this section of the opinion is written with that stylistic approach.

He put the weakest supporting case first in what is essentially the thesis paragraph of that section. He ends the paragraph with the thesis (that marriage is a fundamental right). Then he follows with more solid reasoning to support his opinion.


Is that really the best you can do? You're going to counter a paragraph which very specifically correlates the right to marry with the right to procreation with a statement that another quote happens to list it as a right and appears earlier in the opinion? Let me say again: Weak.
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gbaji wrote:
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Nowhere has anybody said that "fundamental rights" can never in any way be infringed for any reason.
That is an assumption of an argument that simply declares that since marriage is a fundamental right, then benefits granted by the state to those who marry can't be denied to gay couples.
You have to show that there is legitimate and objective reason to DENY a fundamental right to a group of people, we shouldn't have to argue that rights should apply to everyone before we make exceptions.

So far you've tried to say something about the ability to produce children, but said nothing about raising children, which is the vastly more important part of the process. Gay couples, whether two men or two women, can in fact raise children (and recent studies have shown that kids raised by lesbian couples have better social and academic skills and less susceptibility to aggression).

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4) There is no evidence that denying these rightsbenefits to homosexuals will benefit the state. (In agreement with Perez v. Sharp, it has to benefit the state in such a way as to advance a significant social objective.)


First off, you changed a word. We were talking about the benefits being denied, not the ability to enter into the contract.
Except they aren't allowed to enter into the contract either.

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#383 Jul 01 2010 at 9:06 PM Rating: Excellent
Here's a benefit to the state.

Homosexuals who marry should have the right to adopt or foster under most state laws (unless a law was written explicitly to prevent married gays from adopting, which has been discussed in a few states already.)

That means more children will be taken out of the state orphanages and into the foster system and into loving homes, leaving less of a burden upon the state, and thus less of a tax burden upon the citizens of the state.
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Here's a benefit to the state.

Homosexuals who marry should have the right to adopt or foster under most state laws (unless a law was written explicitly to prevent married gays from adopting, which has been discussed in a few states already.)

That means more children will be taken out of the state orphanages and into the foster system and into loving homes, leaving less of a burden upon the state, and thus less of a tax burden upon the citizens of the state.
But then those kids will catch the gay disease by eating gay food!

Think of the children cat, think of the children!
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4) There is no evidence that denying these rightsbenefits to homosexuals will benefit the state. (In agreement with Perez v. Sharp, it has to benefit the state in such a way as to advance a significant social objective.)


First off, you changed a word. We were talking about the benefits being denied, not the ability to enter into the contract. There is no "right" involved in just that. However, I'll grant that by removing the benefits to a group, you will create a "burden or limit" on their obtaining or utilizing that right. It's effectively an increased opportunity cost to choosing to marry. I just want us to be clear about what is actually being denied. The lack of benefits for gay couples only mildly infringes their "right" to marry in the sense that others have an incentive and additional benefits for doing so which gay couples do not have access to.

You were doing so good. You agreed that marriage is a fundamental right, per Perez v. Sharp. You agreed that a marriage is not recognized by the state if it doesn't come with these benefits. Thus, by removing the benefits, you eliminate the marriage and infringe on the right. How can that not be the case? You are absolutely infringing on these rights by not offering them the same benefits, because as far as the state is concerned, a marriage without these benefits is not legally a marriage.

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Second, you are looking at it backwards. There is no evidence that by providing those benefits to homosexuals will benefit the state. I'll go back to my farm subsidy example. If we determine that it will benefit the nation economically if we subsidize wheat production, we can use that to justify a wheat subsidy. No one in their right mind would argue that since the state can't show that it benefits by denying the subsidy to okra farmers that it's a violation of their rights not to receive the subsidy.

Doesn't matter. Perez v. Sharp does not state that a right must be granted only if it can be shown that it advances society to do so; it stated that a right can be infringed only if this advances society's purpose. That is not the case here. It's a very clear distinction made in the ruling.

The rest of your post is equally wrong because the whole logic train is derailed at that point. I'd elaborate but I need to leave for the night.
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I can't wait til gbaji tries to propose to someone with the line "a marriage between us would be a fiscally advisable way for us to raise offspring!" before getting 5 fingers across the face.

Honestly, can anyone show me a representative that believes that the sole purpose of marriage is to encourage people to marry before having children?



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False. We only have to find that there is a legitimate and objective reason to "provide" a benefit to one group and not another. The argument I have made for marriage benefits more than meets that requirement.

Except, as you've completely failed to acknowledge once again, the benefits in this case go hand-in-hand with a fundamental right that, as stated in Perez v. Sharp, cannot be infringed upon except for a significant societal purpose. You can't have the legal status of marriage without the benefits and vice versa. You can't just make up the law on this point. It's very much well-defined.

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If the marriage is the contract, and the contract is not only legally allowed, but is made available, then what the hell is missing? The only thing is the benefits. Hah! But in California, even that isn't missing. The California Domestic Partnership laws provide exactly the same state benefits as the Marriage laws, including all the benefits possible from the state of California. In fact, the only thing missing is that said status doesn't qualify one for federal benefits. Of course, the DOMA at the US level prohibits that anyway, so no change in California would have any actual effect on benefits or contracts or anything at all for gay couples in California.

Which should be telling you that people only want to have an identical status since they're already getting all the benefits associated with the status. Instead, you're deluding yourself into thinking that they're being manipulated somehow. Funny how all the grassroots movements that you disagree with are being manipulated, but the ones you like are examples of democracy in action. How can you honestly claim to be a free thinker with such ridiculous double standards?
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Doesn't matter. Perez v. Sharp does not state that a right must be granted only if it can be shown that it advances society to do so; it stated that a right can be infringed only if this advances society's purpose. That is not the case here. It's a very clear distinction made in the ruling.


No. It's a subtle distinction, but what you're saying would require that the actual "infringement" be shown to advance some social purpose. But that's not what the test requires. If it did, a whole lot of things would not be seen as constitutional but are.

The test is that the law must advance some social purpose and that if that law includes some infringement that said infringement is a reasonable component of the law working to the social purpose. Remember that in this case, we're talking about a relative issue. By creating state defined marriage contracts for straight couples, and providing a set of benefits if they enter into them, we've made it easier for them to enter into said marriage contracts. We haven't made it "harder" for gay couples to do so except in a purely relative way. If we hadn't done any of that for straight couples, gay couples would be no worse off today on the issue of marriage, right?

The incredibly minor infringement thus levied on gay couples is certainly "reasonable" in the context of the significant social purpose of encouraging straight couples to marry. In the same way that the okra farmer is harmed in a very minor way by not receiving the same subsidy that the wheat farmer gets (actually, this is a more significant harm in fact), we would still allow the wheat subsidy to stand because it's purpose is to encourage the production of wheat, not okra.

If you can argue that the purpose of marriage laws is to get gay people to marry, then you'd have a point. But that would be a particularly hard argument to make, and there are reams of evidence pointing in the other direction. Common law marriage laws for a start. If gay marriages were the intent of our marriage laws, why have we never applied common law marriages to gay couples? Clearly, the "purpose" of our marriage laws was specific to straight couples. Everything else follows from that point.
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No. It's a subtle distinction, but what you're saying would require that the actual "infringement" be shown to advance some social purpose. But that's not what the test requires. If it did, a whole lot of things would not be seen as constitutional but are.

The test is that the law must advance some social purpose and that if that law includes some infringement that said infringement is a reasonable component of the law working to the social purpose.

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Marriage is thus something more than a civil contract subject to regulation by the state; it is a fundamental right of free men. There can be no prohibition of marriage except for an important social objective and by reasonable means.

Unless you're reading some further case law that you haven't revealed here, then you're completely bending the text of the ruling. It says that the prohibition of marriage must be to advance an important social objective. Extending marriage rights (and yes, benefits) to gay couples is in no way a significant setback to the social objective in question. If you have two versions of the law, identical except that one contains the infringement and one does not, then it must be shown that the version containing the infringement is significantly superior to the one without. You cannot, in any way, show how gay marriage is a blow to the established marriage paradigm. You can't. You can make up some argument about how it cheapens the value of marriage, or how it's not essential to the role the law was designed for, but those are ideological arguments that have no place whatsoever in this legal argument.
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Except, as you've completely failed to acknowledge once again, the benefits in this case go hand-in-hand with a fundamental right that, as stated in Perez v. Sharp, cannot be infringed upon except for a significant societal purpose. You can't have the legal status of marriage without the benefits and vice versa. You can't just make up the law on this point. It's very much well-defined.


The benefits are not the fundamental right. The right to enter into a marriage contract is. Not providing a set of benefits and a pre-defined contract to just sign does represent a minor infringement of that fundamental right, but it's incredibly minor.

The "fundamental right" of marriage presumably existed prior to the US creating a set of benefits. Thus, the benefits *cannot* be the right. They can affect and influence the rate at which one might choose to enjoy that right, but that's not the same thing. I've explained this several times in this thread. A benefit cannot ever be a right. Period. End of story.


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Which should be telling you that people only want to have an identical status since they're already getting all the benefits associated with the status.


I'm not denying that people want that. People want lots of things. Ponies for example. What I'm denying is that by not getting what they want, their constitutional rights are being infringed. See how that works?

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Instead, you're deluding yourself into thinking that they're being manipulated somehow.


Of course they are. They're being convinced that they must fight for something which 90% of them don't want, and then further convinced that their rights are being infringed because they aren't being encouraged by the government to do that thing which 90% of them don't want to do anyway. Think about that for a moment.

A marriage contract is a significantly binding document. Most people would not choose to enter into it unless they felt they had to. For most of history, we've had to create really strong forces to make people enter into them (to one degree or another). Social stigma, creation of the importance of family names, lineage, labels for people who didn't follow the rules, and today a set of benefits to try to convince people to do so with positive reinforcement. And despite all of that, we've still only been moderately successful historically at convincing people to do this.


And here comes the gay rights movement insisting that it's somehow a violation of their rights that no one thought to pressure them to marry? Lol. It's funny if you stop and think about it. We've spent centuries trying to come up with methods to force straight couples into marriage, and gay people are pissed because we aren't forcing them? Ah... But we got rid of all the "force". We use a carrot instead of a stick, don't we?

Let's pretend for a moment, that tomorrow we eliminated all the benefits granted via the state status of marriage. Let's say we re-institute all the traditional social rules and stigmas we used through most of history to coerce people into marrying. But since this is modern times and we're all socially aware and open and whatnot, lets give the gay people the choice to fight to be treated exactly the same as straight people. So they'll be subjected to shotgun weddings. They'll be labeled with scarlet letters. Their parents will arrange their marriages without their say. They'll be called old maids and scorned socially if they don't marry by a certain age. Whatever historically used social pressure you can think of, let's apply it to gay people.

How hard would gay people be fighting for marriage if that was the case? I'm thinking not so much...


They fall for it because it has been made to appear to be something positive which they are being denied, and for which no negative appears to be applicable to themselves. The reality is quite different.


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Funny how all the grassroots movements that you disagree with are being manipulated, but the ones you like are examples of democracy in action. How can you honestly claim to be a free thinker with such ridiculous double standards?


Not at all! I fully agree that most people involved in any sort of movement are ignorant of more than basic surface aspects of the issue themselves. That's why I don't tend to judge the validity of political positions based on what the members of those movements believe or what they are being told, but based on my own assessment of the issue itself. The mere fact of misunderstandings among the masses about the issue doesn't make the issue itself a good or bad one to follow. That would be a dumb way to make up one's mind, right?

It's funny, because I'm often attacked for doing this. Which I find strange. Varus will spout some stereotypical rhetoric and I'll respond with something like "His reason is wrong, but the position is correct, and here's why..." and I get a chorus of "But that's not why most people believe that", as though that somehow invalidates my own argument. Of course the majority argument in almost any issue is going to be an overly simplistic and often factually incorrect one. That's because most people are persuaded by emotion and aren't very good at critical thinking. Again though, that has no bearing on whether the thing they are supporting is a good or bad idea.
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The benefits are not the fundamental right. The right to enter into a marriage contract is. Not providing a set of benefits and a pre-defined contract to just sign does represent a minor infringement of that fundamental right, but it's incredibly minor.

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3) Marriage without these benefits is not viewed as a legal marriage in the eyes of the state. (That would be your "write your own marriage contract" idea.)

Yup.

You can't legally enter into a marriage contract without those benefits. You've already agreed to this. I give up, the cognitive dissonance here is overwhelming.
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Finishing up a final script run, so I'll be heading out for the weekend. I'll say one more thing though:

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Marriage is thus something more than a civil contract subject to regulation by the state; it is a fundamental right of free men. There can be no prohibition of marriage except for an important social objective and by reasonable means.

Unless you're reading some further case law that you haven't revealed here, then you're completely bending the text of the ruling. It says that the prohibition of marriage must be to advance an important social objective.


I would wager good money that if we could talk to the guy who wrote that and asked him if by "marriage" he meant "marriage between a man and a woman" and did not intend it to be applied to gay couples, he would think we were crazy even for asking the question and of course he meant marriage as he and everyone else understood it to be at the time.

That's a separate point of course, but it does bear being said. I've already shown how later in the opinion he clearly associates marriage and procreation. I guess the problem is that when most of us hear the words "fundamental right" we assume it applies to "everyone". But it doesn't apply to single people, right (the benefits at least)? And it doesn't apply to siblings, right? And it doesn't include multi-partner marriages either (I believe a justification for denying polygamy appears in Perez). Clearly, there is an intended context within which "marriage" is intended here. I just think reading the words "marriage is a fundamental right" and taking that as an absolute, even though it clearly was not meant to be at the time those words were written is the wrong way to read the opinion.

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Extending marriage rights (and yes, benefits) to gay couples is in no way a significant setback to the social objective in question.


Wrong way to look at it. Extending those rights does not further the social objective and failing to do so does not significantly infringe on the rights of gay people. I know you disagree with that, but what are they really being denied here? I'll ask you to again go back to the basics. Ignore the labels and look at the facts. What are gay people being denied? A pre-written contract to sign, and a set of benefits which they largely don't need.

I'll point out the farm subsidy analogy. You have yet to respond to that. If the okra farmers rights are not being infringed sufficiently to make the subsidy unconstitutional, then how can you argue that the gay couples rights are in this case? It's the same thing. Gay couples do not lose anything (much of anything anyway) because straight couples gain. It's a purely relative thing.

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If you have two versions of the law, identical except that one contains the infringement and one does not, then it must be shown that the version containing the infringement is significantly superior to the one without. You cannot, in any way, show how gay marriage is a blow to the established marriage paradigm.


Let's get away from the labels. I absolutely can show that by increasing the number of people competing for the same government benefit that it decreases the relative value of the benefit and therefore it's incentive effects. If everyone gets a free pony, and not just good girls, then the use of a free pony as an incentive for girls to be good is clearly reduced. That's the logic of this argument. By extending the qualifications the value of the benefits themselves are reduced as an incentive.

The social purpose for the laws are harmed by extending them. And this is before we even consider the slippery slope aspects of this. The shift of purpose required in order to justify the inclusion of gay couples into state marriage benefits requires that we eliminate and/or ignore any procreation aspect. I know that many of you argue that this is already the case, but I don't agree with that argument at all. Furthermore, if we accept that procreation, or at least the potential for procreation isn't a key component of marriage (the contract in this case, for which we use government benefits at an incentive), then most of the other restrictions disappear as well. There's no reason to limit it to adults. There's no reason to deny it to close relations. Take away the procreation angle, and why deny those groups as well?

Polygamy becomes an obvious next target as well. If it's a fundamental right to marry the "person" of your choice, why be restricted to just one person? Isn't that unfair?


I'm not arguing for or against any of those. But I am saying that once you open that barn door, don't be surprised when all the horses run out. And that's a lot of horses. We'll be left with a whole bunch of people getting those benefits and not so many people not getting them. Which absolutely does weaken the incentive effect.

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You can't. You can make up some argument about how it cheapens the value of marriage, or how it's not essential to the role the law was designed for, but those are ideological arguments that have no place whatsoever in this legal argument.


I just did. Of course it weakens it. It weakens it unnecessarily as well. Let's apply the test again, shall we? Is there some other way in which we could provide for the contractual marriage needs of gay couples without harming the incentive value of the state marriage benefits currently applied to heterosexual couples? Why yes! We can codify a marriage contract which isn't connected to the state status, and which anyone could enter into! Eureka! We have a solution which does everything we want and meets all the "tests" we need to pass.

Doesn't it? Why is that not the correct solution?
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#394 Jul 02 2010 at 10:04 PM Rating: Default
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You can't legally enter into a marriage contract without those benefits. You've already agreed to this. I give up, the cognitive dissonance here is overwhelming.


Of course you can. You're just too caught up on the labels. A "marriage contract" is simply a contract which defines your marriage. Whether you enter into a contract because the law writes it for you and required that you enter into it, or if you do so by signing a piece of paper with the exact same contract written down makes absolutely no difference in terms of the legality of the contract, or its enforceability.


People entered into marriage contracts in the US long before we created government benefits for them. So yeah, you can enter into a marriage contract without the benefits. Why would you think otherwise?

And no. I have *never* agreed to that. Stop playing word games.

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#395 Jul 02 2010 at 10:18 PM Rating: Excellent
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A marriage contract is a significantly binding document. Most people would not choose to enter into it unless they felt they had to.


Your entire argument is idiotic and baseless to begin with, but this statement right here nullifies any credibility you may have had. You just as well might have said "I'm retarded" and moved on.
#396 Jul 02 2010 at 11:31 PM Rating: Good
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A "marriage contract" is simply a contract which defines your marriage.
This sentence needs to be taken out and shot in the streets, preferably repeatedly in the kneecaps, because all it does is promote circular logic (see "logic, circular").

I'll even give the companion sentence to it that makes the circular logic blatantly obvious: "A 'marriage' is what two or more people who have a marriage contract are contracted into." Which, not in so many words (but in similar ones that can't reasonably be interpreted in any other way) is what your argument has been based on.

Net result: your argument may be "correct", but it only is because it is solely composed of tautologies.
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#397 Jul 03 2010 at 1:42 AM Rating: Good
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gbaji wrote:
A "marriage contract" is simply a contract which defines your marriage.
This sentence needs to be taken out and shot in the streets, preferably repeatedly in the kneecaps, because all it does is promote circular logic (see "logic, circular").

I'll even give the companion sentence to it that makes the circular logic blatantly obvious: "A 'marriage' is what two or more people who have a marriage contract are contracted into." Which, not in so many words (but in similar ones that can't reasonably be interpreted in any other way) is what your argument has been based on.

Net result: your argument may be "correct", but it only is because it is solely composed of tautologies.


He's philosophically invincible!
#398 Jul 03 2010 at 7:44 AM Rating: Decent
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Finishing up a final script run, so I'll be heading out for the weekend. I'll say one more thing though:

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Marriage is thus something more than a civil contract subject to regulation by the state; it is a fundamental right of free men. There can be no prohibition of marriage except for an important social objective and by reasonable means.

Unless you're reading some further case law that you haven't revealed here, then you're completely bending the text of the ruling. It says that the prohibition of marriage must be to advance an important social objective.


I would wager good money that if we could talk to the guy who wrote that and asked him if by "marriage" he meant "marriage between a man and a woman" and did not intend it to be applied to gay couples, he would think we were crazy even for asking the question and of course he meant marriage as he and everyone else understood it to be at the time.

What he *meant* to say?

Seriously?

Read it. It says what it says.

This did *not* bear being said.
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#399 Jul 04 2010 at 5:32 AM Rating: Good
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If you want to talk about logic, you might want to actually pick a "side" that isn't using nothing but a list of logical fallacies to argue the issue.
Gay marriage would make a lot of people happy while giving up basically nothing. I'll let others take it from there.
I guess this was totally ignored because it's hard to argue with.
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gbaji wrote:
If you want to talk about logic, you might want to actually pick a "side" that isn't using nothing but a list of logical fallacies to argue the issue.
Gay marriage would make a lot of people happy while giving up basically nothing. I'll let others take it from there.
I guess this was totally ignored because it's hard to argue with.
<gbajilogic>Actually, we have to give up a lot to allow benefits to gay marriages. That increased tax burden on heterosexual couples will put too much strain on our economy. Disregard the fact that homosexual couples have always and will always subsidize heterosexual marriages while not being allowed the same benefits. Come on, this should be obvious.

Think about it...</gbajilogic>
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#401 Jul 04 2010 at 8:31 AM Rating: Excellent
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I love how gbaji wants us to pick a decide and defend it "not based on emotion." Even though we've been telling him the point all along is emotion. Normal people (whether gay or straight) do not get married for any supposed financial benefit. They do it because they love the other person, and in our society the symbolic sanctifying of that love is marriage. Money is not the issue, and never has been. Every time gbaji or varrus or any other conservative drags us into a 12 page debate about the financial aspects of marriage, all they're doing is obfuscating the point: we should allow homosexuals to get married because they love each other the same way a man and woman in heterosexual marriage love each other, and our society recognizes the bond between two people through the ceremony of marriage.

There is no other reason.
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