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#27 Apr 26 2006 at 12:16 PM Rating: Good
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[quote] if we wanted a "piece of this *****".. at which we respectfully declined.. and we got out of there and drove to the State Police barracks that happened to be close by.. We went to the back of the place and started ringing the bell..... cops came out with guns drawn on us.... We had to fight to explain waht was going on.. finally they took one of us with them to the place and arrested the guys at gunpoint..

Turns out the woman was a junkie that these guys picked up from Baltimore's inner city.. they drove her all the way out to the country to rape her and most likely kill her and leave her in this park.

Later we had to sit in the station and write up reports....
Never heard anything of it.

Junkie or not.. no woman deserves that. It just sucks that we couldn;t have done anything sooner.... but I think that I'd still rather not risk being shot over such a thing..

either way.. pretty in
#28 Apr 26 2006 at 12:16 PM Rating: Good
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apparently Bob does not wish me to post the rest.

It's all CTRL-C'd I don;t know why it only decided to post half of it...

I can edit and post everything else.. but wehn I try to post the rest it just locks.... I dunno
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#29 Apr 26 2006 at 12:17 PM Rating: Good
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OK, I'm walking away from my computer now.......

....very slowly
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#30 Apr 26 2006 at 12:21 PM Rating: Good
Baltimore sounds charming.
#31 Apr 26 2006 at 12:32 PM Rating: Decent
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Elderon the Wise wrote:
Tare wrote:
OMG RL BULLY!!!!!!
Funny you should say that. I asked my wife why people tend to back down when I am angry as I had noticed a trend. Apparently I am rather intimidating IRL when I'm angry. Funny thing is, I've never really looked at myself that way, but I guess she's right. She's always right.


Intimidation has kept me out of many o' fights.


I would help. I've done it before. When working at a drugstore, someone got out of control trying to steal stuff. He pushed and grabbed a couple customers when I hit him from the side and took him down. I actually got reprimanded for it though. Employees aren't supposed to endanger themselves in these sorts of events. Probably due to potential lawsuits.
#32 Apr 26 2006 at 12:40 PM Rating: Decent
I confronted a parent once on the assumption that the screaming girl he was dragging out of the store wasn't his kid.

I stood directly in front of the exit he was going for and, since he was quite a bit bigger than me, prepared to get my *** kicked during his possible attempt to flee.

The kid admitted it was her father pretty quickly. The guy was pretty indignant, like about to pound me into the floor indignant, until the store clerk asked him to think about how pissed he'd be if I had let a stranger walk out with her.



Edited, Wed Apr 26 13:43:21 2006 by fortnight
#33 Apr 26 2006 at 1:04 PM Rating: Good
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Thumbelyna the Hand wrote:
That stuck in my mind ever since then and since I've had kids, I've taught them that when someone tries to grab them and take off with them to fight back as hard as they can while yelling "Help me! He's a stranger! I don't know him!" I hope they never have to do that.

I really have to say that I admire parents that do this. Nothing worse than leaving a kid unprepared for a bad situation out of some misguided attempt to deny that **** happens. Good for you, Thumb.
#34 Apr 26 2006 at 1:07 PM Rating: Excellent
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Ok, so other parents (Moe, DSD, Nads, Joph, etc..), what did you teach your kids regarding strangers and whatnot? My baby is only just one, but I've been thinking lately of what I want her to know and how to present that without scaring her, you know? So I guess I'd like to know not only *what* you taught your kids, but also *when* you started discussing it.

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#35 Apr 26 2006 at 1:07 PM Rating: Good
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The Glorious Atomicflea wrote:
Thumbelyna the Hand wrote:
That stuck in my mind ever since then and since I've had kids, I've taught them that when someone tries to grab them and take off with them to fight back as hard as they can while yelling "Help me! He's a stranger! I don't know him!" I hope they never have to do that.

I really have to say that I admire parents that do this. Nothing worse than leaving a kid unprepared for a bad situation out of some misguided attempt to deny that **** happens. Good for you, Thumb.


That would never work on my son. He has no concept of strangers. He likes everyone he meets and will willingly go with people he's never met before.

So I just never take him out of the house.
#36 Apr 26 2006 at 1:09 PM Rating: Good
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Nexa wrote:
Ok, so other parents (Moe, DSD, Nads, Joph, etc..), what did you teach your kids regarding strangers and whatnot? My baby is only just one, but I've been thinking lately of what I want her to know and how to present that without scaring her, you know? So I guess I'd like to know not only *what* you taught your kids, but also *when* you started discussing it.

Nexa


I've mentioned it to my son once or twice, but he thinks it's a game now. I'm not sure how to make him understand that people can sometimes be bad without scaring him. Although, I don't think I could scare him if I wanted to. Like I stated in my other post, strangers don't bother him. He couldn't care less if he's with someone he knows, or someone he doesn't know.
#37 Apr 26 2006 at 1:15 PM Rating: Good
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When I was little, my parents wouldn't relate it to other people, but themselves. My father would tell me that if anyone came to school saying that he or mom were sick, I shouldn't go with them because he would always come get me himself, or my mom, no matter what. It was pretty much worded as "You only ever leave school with mom or I, even if someone tells you we've been in an accident and can't come, you don't go with them." That way it excluded anyone but my folks rather than trying to be specific. It was the same when I went to a party or a sleepover. "You stay with <insert parent/sibling/trusted friend here>, don't go anywhere without them, if someone comes to get you,..."etc. I was four when I first heard this, and when a man leaned out of a car to ask me for directions on my way home from school once when I was six, I knew not to walk up to the car because by then I had a seed of thought that told me that not everyone meant me well.
#38 Apr 26 2006 at 1:15 PM Rating: Decent
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Mistress Nadenu wrote:
He couldn't care less if he's with someone he knows, or someone he doesn't know.


Player in training? I bet daddy's so proud.
#39 Apr 26 2006 at 1:23 PM Rating: Excellent
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Son, you're dumb as a mule and twice as ugly. If a strange man offers you a ride, I say take it!
I've taught my kid the usual and he gets it from school as well but sometimes it seems fruitless. You give simple rules and they're easily circumvented by someone posing as a policeman or teacher. You give sophisticated rules and they're confused or forgotten by your six year old progeny. Eventually, you just do the best you can and just trust in God, Fate, society or whatever.
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#40 Apr 26 2006 at 1:36 PM Rating: Good
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That would never work on my son. He has no concept of strangers. He likes everyone he meets and will willingly go with people he's never met before.

So I just never take him out of the house.


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My two youngest ones are so like that. The daughter is just so friendly and will go up to anyone and talk with him. I don't want to cut off her outgoing-ness because of Mr. Stranger-Danger. My youngest son obeys anyone and everyone's rules that I'm terrified that someone posing as a cop is just going to tell my son to follow him and my son will.

The kids go on a lot of field trips and I've tried to drill in their head too that if an stranger tries to get them to go with them, they HAVE to go to one of the chaperones first before they go anywhere.
#41 Apr 26 2006 at 1:43 PM Rating: Good
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The Glorious Atomicflea wrote:
When I was little, my parents wouldn't relate it to other people, but themselves. My father would tell me that if anyone came to school saying that he or mom were sick, I shouldn't go with them because he would always come get me himself, or my mom, no matter what. It was pretty much worded as "You only ever leave school with mom or I, even if someone tells you we've been in an accident and can't come, you don't go with them." That way it excluded anyone but my folks rather than trying to be specific. It was the same when I went to a party or a sleepover. "You stay with <insert parent/sibling/trusted friend here>, don't go anywhere without them, if someone comes to get you,..."etc. I was four when I first heard this, and when a man leaned out of a car to ask me for directions on my way home from school once when I was six, I knew not to walk up to the car because by then I had a seed of thought that told me that not everyone meant me well.


My mom told me that type of thing when I was around five. As a result, I ran away screaming from a city worker who was cutting the grass near my school when he said "good morning" to me.

Hoorah!

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#42 Apr 26 2006 at 2:03 PM Rating: Good
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As a result, I ran away screaming from a city worker who was cutting the grass near my school when he said "good morning" to me.


And that's just the kind of thing I've always tried to avoid. Especially since mine is so out-going, I'm afraid I'd have to make it just a bit scary for it to sink in, and then he'd go overboard.
#43 Apr 26 2006 at 2:10 PM Rating: Good
The Glorious Atomicflea wrote:
My father would tell me that if anyone came to school saying that he or mom were sick, I shouldn't go with them because he would always come get me himself, or my mom, no matter what.
This is now school policy. Children at my kid's school cannot be picked up by anyone other than the parent/guardians without a telephone call to the office ahead of time. Kids remain near the office or in their classrooms until they are picked up ensuring protection. There have been too many cases where someone other than the parent has picked up a child and caused absolute chaos. Granted, in many cases it's a grandparent or something, but the fact remains that proper process was not followed makes you S.O.L..
#44 Apr 26 2006 at 2:13 PM Rating: Excellent
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Elderon the Wise wrote:
This is now school policy. Children at my kid's school cannot be picked up by anyone other than the parent/guardians without a telephone call to the office ahead of time. Kids remain near the office or in their classrooms until they are picked up ensuring protection. There have been too many cases where someone other than the parent has picked up a child and caused absolute chaos. Granted, in many cases it's a grandparent or something, but the fact remains that proper process was not followed makes you S.O.L..


At our daycare, even a phone call doesn't cut it unless the person picking our daughter up is already on the list of "people who can pick her up with our permission" that they have there. If they are on that list, then they can pick her up if we call and say they will be, and they have proper identification and a car seat. If there is an emergency and we're incapacitated or something (say we're in a car accident and rushed to the hospital), then the person picking her up has to be on the emergency contact list.

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#45 Apr 26 2006 at 3:19 PM Rating: Good
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Tare wrote:
My mom told me that type of thing when I was around five. As a result, I ran away screaming from a city worker who was cutting the grass near my school when he said "good morning" to me.

You don't know that the city worker wasn't going to follow up that "Good Morning" with a "Wanna see me weener?" So you got scared. So what? Won't be the last time, and as long as you also get praised for being adventurous when safe, it should balance out.
#46 Apr 26 2006 at 3:28 PM Rating: Decent
The Glorious Atomicflea wrote:
It was pretty much worded as "You only ever leave school with mom or I, even if someone tells you we've been in an accident and can't come, you don't go with them."


Same for me. Once when I was in kindergarten my mom was actually tied up at work and sent a coworker to come and get me and take me to my mom. They had called the school and worked it out in advance and everything. The only problem was I flat out refused to go and my mom ended up having to come get me anyway.

Hmmmm...maybe she was just testing me.
#47 Apr 26 2006 at 3:50 PM Rating: Good
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Once when I was in kindergarten my mom was actually tied up at work
You never know with those bukkake whores. It's definatetly safer to tie them up.
#48 Apr 26 2006 at 4:20 PM Rating: Good
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The Glorious Atomicflea wrote:
"Wanna see me weener?"


I didn't say he was Scottish! Smiley: laugh

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#49 Apr 26 2006 at 4:27 PM Rating: Good
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Tare wrote:
The Glorious Atomicflea wrote:
"Wanna see me weener?"


I didn't say he was Scottish! Smiley: laugh


You didn't have to! Smiley: lol I just knew.
#50 Apr 26 2006 at 5:41 PM Rating: Good
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OK, I'm walking away from my computer now.......

....very slowly

Smiley: laugh
What the hell is going on?

#51 Apr 26 2006 at 6:08 PM Rating: Good
My parents never had to do anything to keep me safe from strangers. I was born paranoid.
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