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#1 Apr 23 2006 at 12:24 AM Rating: Decent
When someone fails to commit suicide, though it's apparent that they were attempting to, should the doctors try and save them or leave them alone?

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#2 Apr 23 2006 at 12:29 AM Rating: Decent
if the alternative is to lock them up forever so they can't hurt themself then, well.. let them die.

it seems cold hearted at first but better to die then live in a cage tied up forever. also to thin the heard if you please


(if they can be helped then by all means do whatever to bring them around, the above is for those truely intent on the action)
#3 Apr 23 2006 at 12:42 AM Rating: Decent
I think If the suicide attempt comes after sudden massive traumas such as death of a loved one the person could recover. If however, the person's decision was made because of a long string of events, I dont think recovery is as possible.
#4 Apr 23 2006 at 1:04 AM Rating: Decent
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The best answer I've ever heard to that question, is this:

To answer in any generalized sense is both foolish and contrary to the way doctors should view patients. Doctors *should* always strive to view patients as individuals (that is, people with names and faces and histories and emotions) requiring personal attention to the particular case, rather than as a diagnosis that you can slap a tried and true treatment plan on. Or, in this case, doctors should avoid making an absolute moral judgement on "the right thing to do" in every case with attempted suicide patients. It's insulting to a patient to not care deeply about the circumstances surrounding the incident and about every little bit of information you can find about who he or she is.

To put it succinctly, there are no hard and fast answers to ethical questions like this. It *has* to be taken case by case. Sometimes doctors make the right choices. Sometimes the ***** it up. Sad fact of life. Ethical and moral judgements just cannot be reduced to exceptionless rules.

For myself, though, I'd say that the cases in which it would be preferable to allow a patient to die who attempted suicide are going to be very rare. The number of people who are grateful for being saved after attempting suicide is astounding. A lot of people just don't realize what losing their lives really means until they place themselves on the threshold. For that reason, when it comes right down to it and you have only moments to decide whether to let someone die or do your best to save them, I say tend towards saving them. The worst they can be is annoyed at you for saving them if they really wanted it. And at best, you've given someone a new perspective and lease on life that they'll be extremely thankful for. Consider this: if someone truly wants to die, it's unlikely that you can stop them. If they really did want to die, they'll probably end up finding a way to do so eventually.

Perhaps it's cruel of me to say, but if someone REALLY wanted to die that badly, there's plenty of exceedingly lethal and nearly fool-proof methods to choose from. There's exceptions, but it's difficult to fail at killing yourself if you really put your mind to it Smiley: frown
#5 Apr 23 2006 at 2:59 AM Rating: Excellent
How do you know if the suicide was a short term desire and maybe even drug induced? Many drug addicts can experience depression coming off addictive drugs. These people would no doubt at a later date regret wishing to die, the withdrawl symptoms and effects being temporary.

A doctor has to assume they should save a life and try to. I think the only exception should be someone who is desperately seeking to die and is consistantly trying to do so.

*sigh*

I am just reminded of the film "million dollar baby" .....
#6 Apr 23 2006 at 3:32 AM Rating: Good
A'ight. I don't know about general rules of thumb, but if a persons life were in my hands, i would save them. I like to beleive doctors feel the same. This doesn't establish an arbitrary "rightness"/"wrongness" of the deed, but then again, who said there has to be a catch-all answer for every case. I don't think that there is any ABSOLUTE answer as to if it is right or wrong. It depends on curcumstances, culture, history, a thousand things.
I just know that i would save them.
#8 Apr 23 2006 at 3:37 AM Rating: Excellent
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If the person really wants to, they'll get another chance. Like Jennock said, it might be some temporary trauma or imbalance. Better safe than sorry.

#9 Apr 23 2006 at 8:55 AM Rating: Decent
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I heard somewhere that suicide is actually illegal, but since the people are dead, there's not much you can do. Wouldn't attempted suicide have legal repercussions then?
#10 Apr 23 2006 at 9:01 AM Rating: Excellent
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In most cases suicide is a permanent answer to a temporary problem. There are exceptions - a terminally ill person is one example - but in general people can get better, to some degree at least, after the current crisis is past.

So, yes, by all means try to save them; just don't take it personally when they turn around and try again later. You can't save everyone. Doesn't mean you shouldn't try.
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#11 Apr 23 2006 at 9:22 AM Rating: Good
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I heard somewhere that suicide is actually illegal, but since the people are dead, there's not much you can do. Wouldn't attempted suicide have legal repercussions then?


Killing another human being is illegal, reguardless of who it is. Therefore, it flows that suicide is illegal.
#12 Apr 23 2006 at 9:27 AM Rating: Decent
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Killing another human being is illegal


I'm pretty sure killing yourself is illegal too...
#13 Apr 23 2006 at 9:29 AM Rating: Good
People who do not succeed in attempting suicide were ot serious in the first place. I think we should have PBS afterschool specials on how to kill ones self effectively so that there are less failed attempts. Then the doctors can focus on the people with real problems instead of every emo kid who thinks it's cool to cut themselves.




Edited, Sun Apr 23 10:54:40 2006 by Elderon
#14 Apr 23 2006 at 9:45 AM Rating: Decent
Doctors are legally required to attampt to save any patient that comes into a hospital. That includes anything from car accidents, on the job injuries and suicide attempts. Give me a few minutes and I will find the law

Doctors are also morally obligated to attampt to save anyone when they took the modern day Hippocratic Oath.


#15 Apr 23 2006 at 9:53 AM Rating: Excellent
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shadomen the Brilliant wrote:
Doctors are also morally obligated to attampt to save anyone if they took the modern day Hippocratic Oath.
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Many doctors now choose not to take the Hippocratic Oath for varying reasons. One being it is based on a very simple form of medicine that predates the technologies and pharmacologies now available, and another being that modern legislation over-rides (albeit in a complementary way) all of its key premises.
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#16 Apr 23 2006 at 2:38 PM Rating: Default
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As staind so aptly put it...

falling is easy/
its getting back up/
that becomes the problem
#17 Apr 24 2006 at 4:36 AM Rating: Default
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as someone who's attempted suicide, i say save them. i've been in and out of mental hospitals at least a couple times a year for the past 4 years (only one was a suicide attempt),and i've seen dozens of patients come in half dead from suicide attempts. usually they are pissed for a while but almost all of them eventually were thankfull they didn't die. most attempts are only attempts because the person attempting suicide doesn't actually want to die, they just want a way out, and death is the only option they see. this is usually from some kind of emotional trauma, like a loss, or drug induced phsycosis, like a lot of others said. others (like myself) have an ongoing condition that can bring a long list of things, depression, hearing/seeing things, impulse disorders, anxiety disorders, social phobias...etc, etc. a lot of people without disorders don't understand that. depression isn't just "feeling down" and scitzophrenia isn't just having multiple personalities and psycosis doesn't mean you kill people at random. being psychotic actually only means that you expierence things that aren't real. aka visual and auditory hallucinations. people in this category tend to relapse since it's not just one issue they have to work on. they often get overwhelmed and usually end up back in the hospital if not properly medicated. either way people don't usually stay suicidal. either they fit into the first category and after they learn to cope with their issue they're fine, or they fit into the second group and it'll come in cycles, with the impulse to commit suicide getting stronger each time, which is the other reason suicide attempts happen...the impulse isn't strong enough yet. they want to kill themselves, but are still afraid of death, or the instinct of self preservation won't let them. sometimes people have every intent to kill themselves, but the method isn't actually lethal. for example...certain medicines will not kill you, in any dosage, and a slit wrist will clot if not done properly (and properly is harder than people think). it's easy to say "well just put a bullet in your head, that'll work." that usually does work,but even though suicidal people don't care about their own lives anymore, they usually still care about someone around them, and they don't want that person seeing their mutilated corpse. again, there's also that self preservation insinct that just won't let some people pull the trigger or jump off a roof, so they take pills or cut their wrists in a more passive attempt. these make up most of the people i mentioned seeing dozens of. anyway i say save them, and leave them with three disiscions...a) medication and therapy...usually works. b) learn to live with the problem (WAY harder than it sounds and not usually the choice taken), and c) try again. i know c) is kind of a ****** up option, but lets face it, people will always see it as an option.

p.s. not all people who cut themselves are emo...just the people that show off the scars and go "look at me, i have problems." these people do this, and now people think everyone who cuts themselves is just trying to get attention. so **** those emo ******** the small group of people who cut themselves for reasons other than fasion do it as a distraction from their present state. i'm sure all of you have accedentally cut yourself in the middle of something...and i'm willing to bet most of you dropped what you were doing to tend to the wound. whatever you were doing doesn't matter, all you're worried about it the cut. thats the best way i can describe it. i also knew people in the hospital who did it for the chemical thats released when you get injured...slight euphoria, highly addictive. oh and i don't cut myself, havn't in years. like any emotional escape, be it self mutilation, drugs, alchohol, it gets real old real fast, unless you get addicted, then it gets old and you're ************** doing **** you hate yourself for, which perpetuates the cycle.

oh, and as far as legalities of attempting suicide, i've never heard of charges being pressed on anyone for attempting suicide, although when i did it i was locked in a mental hospital for almost two months under order of the coroner, and would be arrested if i were to escape.
#18 Apr 24 2006 at 6:06 AM Rating: Decent
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If people really want to die they find a way. They always do. Those who survive are those who didn't want to die in the first place. They called out for attention and took drastic means when no one answered.

My mom used to work at an asylum. There was a grown man who killed himself by swallowing toiletpaper until he choked on it.

They always find a way...

Personally I'd probably shoot myself. Slitting wrists is so messy and just before you go you always get cold feet, but then it's too late. Better to go with a bang.

I'd probably do something crazy first though. Like taking over Disney World or something like that. Perhaps I'd rob a bank or two and just spoil myself. On second thoughts I might get too fond of life and get cold feet. Then spend the next 20 years locked up in jail.

Ironic, isn't it?
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#19 Apr 24 2006 at 8:18 AM Rating: Decent
TheBlix, Defender of Justice wrote:
When someone fails to commit suicide, though it's apparent that they were attempting to, should the doctors try and save them or leave them alone?

~Blix


I had a conversation about this topic with a couple friends yesterday, who have attempted suicide before. Each time they said "thank God" the doctor did save them.

Their suicide attempts were cries for help, and not actual attempts on their life. Their cries for help seemed to have worked in a way, they got the help they needed and now run pretty stable lives.

So, yes, I do believe doctors should save people who attempt suicide. Why, because they their attempt on their life may not be serious; It may just be a huge cry for help.

#21 Apr 24 2006 at 11:03 AM Rating: Excellent
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Personally I'd probably shoot myself. Slitting wrists is so messy and just before you go you always get cold feet, but then it's too late. Better to go with a bang.


Better not use a shotgun if you want to avoid a mess.
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#22 Apr 24 2006 at 11:37 AM Rating: Excellent
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I had a conversation about this topic with a couple friends yesterday, who have attempted suicide before.
You need to hang out with a cheerier bunch.
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#23 Apr 24 2006 at 11:41 AM Rating: Good
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Better not use a shotgun if you want to avoid a mess.


There's actually a guy in this area that survived a suicide attempt when he tried to shoot himself in the head. I didn't even know that was possible. But his face is a total mess, the side of his face where the exit wound was is basically just skin with lots of scarring. No eye, no external part of his ear. Never knew why he decided not to try again.
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There's actually a guy in this area that survived a suicide attempt when he tried to shoot himself in the head. I didn't even know that was possible. But his face is a total mess, the side of his face where the exit wound was is basically just skin with lots of scarring. No eye, no external part of his ear. Never knew why he decided not to try again.

One summer I did an internship at a Neurpsych clinic. A teenager came in who had attempted to kill himself in the same way, and also somehow failed. But he did manage to shatter the bones his face, blow off his nose entirely, and lose an eye.

Have you ever seen a person who doesn't have a nose? VERY WEIRD.

It's one of those things where you're so utterly unprepared to see something like that, you realize you've already grimaced in disbelief and horror and you feel like a total ***.

#25 Apr 24 2006 at 12:01 PM Rating: Decent
Ick. No nose? Whats the point of living? Sure you'd make a good side show attraction, but DAMN.
#26 Apr 24 2006 at 12:15 PM Rating: Decent
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