So, as some of you may know I have a steady relationship – I have had a girlfriend for over 5 years – and since September 2003 we live in our own house.
All fine and dandy? Err, no.
The thing is: I work as a sports journalist and often spend late nights and weekend days in the office. After all, those are the prime sports hours and thus I am supposed to be here.
My girlfriend has a ‘normal’ (if you consider working 70 hours a week for a wager I wouldn’t even dare to employ myself a Taiwanese 12-year old for) job and – you guess it folks – spends most of her evenings at home. Without me.
Now, in order to spend as much quality time together as I can, I have quit hockey (which f#cking sucks as I miss my friends a lot), quit going out twice a week (see the hockey part) and started learning how to make a proper dinner, buy flowers and generally be the ideal boyfriend. I guess it’s not really me the way I live now, but I feel I am kind of forced to be so in the great wheel we call love life.
When I have an evening off and we are together, I do my best to make the most of it. I try not to get my mood into the way when things bother me (I have a fierce temper, have little patience and am stubborn like a child) and give her a nice time. In a way I guess you could say that I bark like a dog and do whatever you wants me to.
Unfortunately these evenings always have the same end. She’ll try to work on my guilt feeling in order to get me so far that I’ll quit my current job (which I love) and get employment closer to home and at more appropriate times. I never manage to hold my temper when she plays her guilt card and this results in petty little arguments and fights.
Does anyone of you experience the same? Input is greatly appreciated.