Ok, so Karma is this huge thing here, or so I'm told. But you know what, I've recently come to the conclusion I give a rats a$$ about Karma. This is why, because I dont care if you dont like me. All i care is that I voice my opinion in a manner that is clear, and if need be beligerant and hateful. Some times the guy standing on your foot has to be hit to move him. Sometimes there is no PC way out of a situation, and to be honest I think PC is a term for 'politically corrupt'. So you;re nice and never offend anyone, you only eat vegan foods, wear clothes that dont harm a living creature, and NEVER EVER say anything that might be harsh or offensive. Congratulations, our forefathers hate you.
How does this relate to FFXI? I'll tell you how, when im playing a game and a lovely friend from across the Atlantic says "Yank" i shrug it off, but as soon as any American says '***', 'Limey', or even in some cases 'Asian' people come un-freaking-glued. These are usually the same people that pratice something called reverse dicrimination. Why are we sooooo concerned? Why does it matter if we use terms like '***' or 'Limey'? Well yes it is offensive, to some. It's mostly culture, I know that, but here's the real question. WHY ARE THE NORTH AMERICANS THE ONLY ONES WHO ARE EXPECTED TO BEND TO THE WILLS AND/OR NEEDS OF ANOTHER CULTURE? Thats right, because we live in a "democracy", or more appropriately a "republic" (dont ask me what I think of these, they're not really pretty), where (so it says in the constitution) all men are yada yada yada. So that means we have to respect every one, every creed, every culture.
I would almost agree with that reasoning for this, EXCEPT, that we, as a culture, are rarely respected. Yes so my government screwed up, yes my president is a moron at times, yes my economy does have influence in places it shouldn't. Buttttt thats not me. Thats not any other american I personally know. As individuals we are treated like dirt for the sins of our parents. This is all fine and dandy, but here's one for you:
If some one ever tells you America is Imperialistic, or Empiristic laugh at them. The last great empires were British (India, Africa, the Carribean) and the French, (Africa, and South America). Everyone also seems to think we started Vietnam, but in fact it was Frances Police and Military there that started this. (You can look it up, its also featured prominently in 'We Were Soldiers') So how are we evil incarnate? Thats right because our zealous government wants to make the world safer, not that it can be done by any one nation mind you. Now why do we want to do this? Why do we as a nation allow this to happen? Because between the people who want everyone on Earth equal (and expect our government to feed starving people in Africa, and remove evil dictators), and a trigger happy administration (come on, even if you support the war, which I do, "end justifies the means", you have to admit it was quick to guns) we have PCed ourselves to death. So the next time some one says something in-game that insults you, remember, its only a word. Period. No one can ever expect 2 alien cultures to mesh perfectly, this is why South Vietnamese helped the North. But what you say, and how you carry yourself reflect your culture, Japanese, American, Dutch, British.
We alllllll have bias. Mention the "Bomb" to a JPN player, or tell a brit that if it weren't for american weapons the 'Battle for Britain' would have been lost, you'll see old animosities come out. Why? Because you remind them of a time that they weren't doing so well, but then how many NA players get offended by the word 'Yank'? A DEROGATORY term from as far back as the civil war and most likely revolutionary. I've never met an NA player that was ever offended by it, just like im not offended by 'cracker', 'boss', 'whitey' or a myriad of other words. Why am i not? Because if I were offended that would make the word have power. It would raise it from word to epitaph, and why would we want that?
My point in all this is all cultures should work TOGETHER to mesh better. Most people just seem to take for granted that NA players often try to change for others. For some reason we want to impress JPN, BRIT, and GER people. Why? What makes them superior to us? My answer to this. Because JPN players tend to be polite to me, so I try hard to be polite to them. My only logic, the golden rule. Its cyclical you know, it has to be returned to be earned. Use the words you want to use, be as tactful as you want to be, be as rude as you want to be, but always remember that THAT is what Karma is. And learn to tell the difference between venting, and a full on attack at some one, thing, or institution. You'll be happier for longer if you do.
Aries. God of War.
Ghost of a conscience.
PS If you read all of this im sorry, its probably a waste of time. ^^