Hello, this is player, Filielle, reigning from my home server of which I started my game, on Fairy Server. As a short introduction, I tend to have traveled servers quite a few times, sociologically and personally reviewing server communities and their economic approach in-game. I traveled only to Garuda, Carbuncle, and Fairy server once again, but now I am back on a trip to Carbuncle to see what I deemed as worthwhile friends at the time.
When I have come back to the server with my real-life fiance, Kuroganashi, we became exposed to subliminally rising hostilities from our old friends and LS mates of which we trusted before we took our leave back to fairy (the last server we were on). It was my decision to see these players again in-game as I care and consider their well-being and am self-aware that they might be happy to see us.
What end up happening was that when we were going to establish ourselves upon Carbuncle, transitioning within thought about whether or not we should stay for a longer while than the 3 months given time to transfer again, the LS, "FireKingdom" that me and Kuroganashi ran a few months prior, was taken over under different leadership. Though we were invited within the early week we arrived again within the reformed FireKingdom ls, me and my fiance already had multiple ls' that we re-started and thought our old members would like to fuse ls'.
What ended up escalating was being blacklisted by Dizzlizm and receiving shouts within Aht Urhgan Whitegate from Mannix (all the latter and other names stated here on after, being old members of FireKingdom under me and Kuroganashi's organization), against us establishing a new LS on the server, and calling us in shout and tells, vulgarities. Also I have dealt with the usual player hostility of party monopolization while I farm. The rival party at the time consisting of members from one singular ls membership as I have seen in a while ago in Kuroganashi's Dynamis LS (all the rival party members being from that same dynamis ls), and am aware of such player tactics of hostility, with my mind unsettled in these kind of conditions against my own will of enjoying the game.
Also, Hume Players, Tronsy and Jujubee have lost my respect within times past, as Jujubee was known in the LS as the flirt and Tronsy as a suspected RMT (being he explained that he pulls, "favors" for his real-life friend of which he receives mass amounts of gil each real-life week from.) Also, Tronsy being a married man in real-life as he told Kuroganashi and the LS beforehand, flirting in turn with Jujubee as well online. (jujubee giving her myspace information at the time: http://www.myspace.com/greyy_eyes )
In conclusion, I give my examples of what I have experienced from these players to you, in hope that you won't have to deal with such matters within your game as well. May the light of the extent of my knowledge, shed insight into your forever, pealing eyes.