If you're looking for a linkshell that offers guidance and assistance with helping develop your experience, I would like to extend an invitation to the linkshell I am in.
We do not hold your hand through things, however, we have no issues and enjoy (myself personally) quite a bit helping people, as long as you're willing to put forth the effort to help yourself along the way.
The things we do vary from Rank Missions, ZM/CoP/ToAU/WoTG Missions, AF quests, Avatar runs, scheduled events that members put forth interest in, and all out just having fun. We really enjoy doing Campaign battles (the new Wings of The Goddess expansion), and Besieged battles together as well.
If this sounds like a linkshell you would like to join, please do not hesitate to message me in game (name is Endtanis[also in my signature]), and I would be more than happy to deliver a linkpearl to you.