I will be playing this game soon and I was wondering if there is any proper etiquette that I need to be mindful of?
When I played for a month a year or two ago I remember that as a rdm I used to heal some of the new or struggling players that I saw.Is that ok to do or is it considered rude?I just want to be sure that while I am playing im not doing anything to annoy other players.
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I'd say follow your heart on this one. If it seems rude, then chances are it is.
Be polite and for Altana's sake, find a replacement or warn the party well in advance of when you have to leave. Don't just drop and disconnect. :)
Be polite and for Altana's sake, find a replacement or warn the party well in advance of when you have to leave. Don't just drop and disconnect. :)
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The reason I ask is because if I do see someone struggling and I heal them I don't want to get a bad reputation if this is frowned upon.Some gamers like to fend for themselves and some might want a helping hand but in the early stages of this game it is hard to tell.I just don't want to tick anyone off.
Meh in my personal experience a random heal when I'm in trouble is welcome indeed. If someone throws a fit over the fact that you saved their virtual "ego" by keeping them from dying...well, they should be allowed to die the next time then, lol.
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I will be playing this game soon and I was wondering if there is any proper etiquette that I need to be mindful of?
When I played for a month a year or two ago I remember that as a rdm I used to heal some of the new or struggling players that I saw.Is that ok to do or is it considered rude?I just want to be sure that while I am playing im not doing anything to annoy other players.
When I played for a month a year or two ago I remember that as a rdm I used to heal some of the new or struggling players that I saw.Is that ok to do or is it considered rude?I just want to be sure that while I am playing im not doing anything to annoy other players.
Dont worry yourself about the small stuff mate. Being polite and friendly is simply a matter of common sense. Its a multiplayer game, so interaction of any kind is pretty much the reason we play this and not some other offline Final Fantasy game. I always appreciated a free protect/cure, it happened a lot more in the early days of the game.
Just do what you think is right.
This is taken directly from Nick Yee's website. It is not my intellectual material nor is it my research:
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Random Acts of Kindness
A variation of this theme is the random acts of kindness that many players experience. By increasing the number of ways that players can help each other, it increases the chances that altruistic individuals help lower-level players. Individual altruistic events promote trust at the community level which is crucial for trust at the individual level when two strangers encounter each other and could potentially form a relationship.
“One of my fondest memories of the game was having my first buff cast upon me by a level 19 Shaman. I didn’t realize this could be done and it was at this point that the level of player interaction became apparent. A random act of kindness that one rarely sees in real life these days that has encouraged hours/days of play since.†[m, 25]
“Those random acts of kindness really make online games a pleasure to play in. Whether someone has tossed me a heal, SOW or other useful spell for no reason, or given me a nice item without asking. I've tried my best to return these acts to others whenever possible.†[m, 28]
Some EQ players were vocal about the annoyances of the player dependencies in EQ, and DAOC was consciously designed to make players more independent of each other than in EQ. However, these minor annoyances may actually help encourage and sustain strong social relationships in the long-run.
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The rest of that article and more of his research into the Daedalus Project and how people act in MMORPG's can be found at the following link:
http://www.nickyee.com/daedalus/archives/000429.php?page=2
Edited, Apr 7th 2009 1:10pm by Gamion
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Random Acts of Kindness
A variation of this theme is the random acts of kindness that many players experience. By increasing the number of ways that players can help each other, it increases the chances that altruistic individuals help lower-level players. Individual altruistic events promote trust at the community level which is crucial for trust at the individual level when two strangers encounter each other and could potentially form a relationship.
“One of my fondest memories of the game was having my first buff cast upon me by a level 19 Shaman. I didn’t realize this could be done and it was at this point that the level of player interaction became apparent. A random act of kindness that one rarely sees in real life these days that has encouraged hours/days of play since.†[m, 25]
“Those random acts of kindness really make online games a pleasure to play in. Whether someone has tossed me a heal, SOW or other useful spell for no reason, or given me a nice item without asking. I've tried my best to return these acts to others whenever possible.†[m, 28]
Some EQ players were vocal about the annoyances of the player dependencies in EQ, and DAOC was consciously designed to make players more independent of each other than in EQ. However, these minor annoyances may actually help encourage and sustain strong social relationships in the long-run.
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The rest of that article and more of his research into the Daedalus Project and how people act in MMORPG's can be found at the following link:
http://www.nickyee.com/daedalus/archives/000429.php?page=2
Edited, Apr 7th 2009 1:10pm by Gamion
The paragraph before that relates heavily as well:
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Facilitating Altruism
There are several reasons why player dependency encourages relationship formation. On a superficial level, it increases the possible interactions two players could have. But it’s much more interesting than that. First of all, it increases the number of ways that players can help each other. Very frequently in EQ, you meet someone new by asking for a Bind or a Clarity. The asker is humbled, the giver is empowered, but both players usually come away from the encounter with a sense of mutual benevolence. Asking help from a stranger or being asked a favor from a stranger are far rarer occurrences in DAOC because of the relative independence the game mechanics give each player. These encounters, which are frequent in EQ and rare in DAOC, help create debts of goodwill on an individual level that foster future encounters between these two players. The following account highlights these kinds of relationships:
“My primary character is a Cleric, so on one occasion my guild was on a raid in a dungeon area and I came across one players corpse. This was unusual because of where we were and how deep we were in the dungeon. I sent this person a "tell" to see if she needed a res. She replied and was very excited that I was there to res her. After she gathered her equipment she tried to give me some Platinum pieces, which I refused since I didn’t go out of my way to help her ... I was just there. A month later, my guild was performing another raid and we were wiped out by some unexpected baddies .. The person I ressed happened to be in a group near the beginning of the dungeon where we were wiped out, and before I knew it, most of her guild was there to help clear the dungeon and get our corpses back. I mean about 30 other players went out of their way to come and help my friends out just because I helped one of their friends a month before. I don’t know many people who would do that in real life … All I can say is ... Thank you Ostara†[m, 32]
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Facilitating Altruism
There are several reasons why player dependency encourages relationship formation. On a superficial level, it increases the possible interactions two players could have. But it’s much more interesting than that. First of all, it increases the number of ways that players can help each other. Very frequently in EQ, you meet someone new by asking for a Bind or a Clarity. The asker is humbled, the giver is empowered, but both players usually come away from the encounter with a sense of mutual benevolence. Asking help from a stranger or being asked a favor from a stranger are far rarer occurrences in DAOC because of the relative independence the game mechanics give each player. These encounters, which are frequent in EQ and rare in DAOC, help create debts of goodwill on an individual level that foster future encounters between these two players. The following account highlights these kinds of relationships:
“My primary character is a Cleric, so on one occasion my guild was on a raid in a dungeon area and I came across one players corpse. This was unusual because of where we were and how deep we were in the dungeon. I sent this person a "tell" to see if she needed a res. She replied and was very excited that I was there to res her. After she gathered her equipment she tried to give me some Platinum pieces, which I refused since I didn’t go out of my way to help her ... I was just there. A month later, my guild was performing another raid and we were wiped out by some unexpected baddies .. The person I ressed happened to be in a group near the beginning of the dungeon where we were wiped out, and before I knew it, most of her guild was there to help clear the dungeon and get our corpses back. I mean about 30 other players went out of their way to come and help my friends out just because I helped one of their friends a month before. I don’t know many people who would do that in real life … All I can say is ... Thank you Ostara†[m, 32]
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Thats really great!So random heals and protecting is great then!
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