As others have pointed out, your gear is not top of the line if you do not at least have earth and light staff on bard.
Here is some information for you about both staves:
http://wiki.ffxiclopedia.org/wiki/Light_Staff
FFXI Wiki wrote:
*10% increase to Light Element Magic Spells
*"Cure" potency +10%
This not only helps you when trying to throw some helpful heals out for your healers (you should be subbing /WHM till 70+), but it increases (by a huge portion) the accuracy of your lullaby,
requiem, dark threnody, and finale spells. The difference is really night and day on other jobs such as BLM, RDM, and other jobs that use the staves. At least it was for me.
On top of that, the cost of light staff now days is...extremely cheap to say the least:
http://www.ffxiah.com/item.php?id=17557&sid=1
I remember paying 500k for mine back in 2005 (when prices were about what they are now). Consider yourself lucky at how cheap they are now. They truly are one of the most efficient pieces of equipment per money spent ratio out there. Most career bards opt for the HQ version of it, as well.
Earth staff is much the same.
http://wiki.ffxiclopedia.org/wiki/Earth_Staff
FFXI Wiki wrote:
*+10% to Earth Element Magic Spells
You may not be seeing resists right now, but I can assure you they will come around in the next 20 or so levels. Elegy is a fairly important spell. It will also give more accuracy to your lightning threnody as well.
The price? Similar to light staff.
http://www.ffxiah.com/item.php?id=17551&sid=1
As for your leader? A total jerk. While I believe you do have much to learn about bard, I surely would not kick you (or even comment on it) in a party. There is a reason why people say bards can play naked and still go from 1-75 fairly easy. No one really cares about a bard's equipment (except, apparently, your former PT leader). All that matters is if they can sing minuet/madrigal/march/ballad/elegy/lullaby. =p
On a serious note...
Jump on over to the bard forums and they'd be able to give you a better explanation on how earth/light staves effect how you play BRD. There are a few stickies detailing equipment for bards from 1-75.
Edit: After reading the post once more (I was just answering the main post and didn't read your replies)....
You sound very arrogant and demanding. If you wish for people to explain to you why you are wrong, then act in a civil manner. There are plenty of resources at your disposal when it comes to FFXI. You could have simply done the research and found out without having to make a post at all.
http://wiki.ffxiclopedia.org/wiki/Main_Page
http://wiki.ffxiclopedia.org/wiki/Bard
http://wiki.ffxiclopedia.org/wiki/How-To_Guide:_Bard
http://wiki.ffxiclopedia.org/wiki/Bard:_Guide_to_Playing_the_Job
http://wiki.ffxiclopedia.org/wiki/Bard:_Guide_to_Weapons_and_Armor
http://wiki.ffxiclopedia.org/wiki/Bard_Guide_by_Tattersail
http://wiki.ffxiclopedia.org/wiki/Guide_to_Dispelling_Effects
http://www.ffxiah.com/index.php
http://ffxi.allakhazam.com/search.html?
http://ffxi.cannotlinkto/
http://www.killingifrit.com/
http://www.killingifrit.com/forums.php?m=topics&s=16
http://ffxi.allakhazam.com/db/jobs.html?fjob=9
http://ffxi.allakhazam.com/db/jobs.html?fjob=9;mid=120068350850761425;num=4;page=1
http://ffxi.allakhazam.com/db/jobs.html?fjob=9;mid=118338334183661612;num=4;page=1
http://ffxi.allakhazam.com/db/jobs.html?fjob=9;mid=118338334183661612;num=4;page=1
You are also ignorant of the fact that there is a
job forum sitting to the left of you under the forums menu. You will not find one bard on that forum who would
not recommend you buying at least earth and light staff if not a select few of the other staves (yes, they are that good).
On a positive note, with your current attitude you will make a fine 75 BRD.
Edited, May 29th 2008 5:43am by HitomeOfBismarck