I need you to do me a favour. If you haven't already gotten your junk snipped off, go sit in a crowded area(bus/subway) where you need to squeeze your legs together, no manspreading. Remember that feeling. Then, once you've gotten everything tossed in the wastebasket, again go to crowded area and sit without spreading your legs. Come back and tell me how much of a difference it is.
Are men justified or not in manspreading? You'll be one of the few people on earth who can truly tell.
Honestly? As far as my expertise at riding crowded buses goes, as long as you're being reasonable, you should be comfortable. That goes for both men and women.
That being said, I've seen ******** in full recline, feet up and **** while the bus is solidly packed. I'm surprised no one backhanded that kid.
So, when I eventually get the procedure done (I wonder if my insurance would allow for me to fly out to Thailand...) and heal reasonably enough to use the bus regularly... I'll update you.
Also, while I don't care about it, asking people about the status of their junk is incredibly rude. Doesn't bother me. The junk itself does, but being asked about it is nbd.
Also, congrats. Glad life's happier for you now.
I know, it's really insane how much of a difference it's made. Plus emotions are fun. And annoying. So much crying. Homg.