Beej wrote:
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Wow. I think... given the choice, I'd rather have anyone I know die of some long-term illness than something as sudden and unexpected as an auto accident. There's no time to say goodbye
I understand what you are saying and I knd of agree with you. Losing someone close to you in the snap of a finger is never easy and leaves you with alot of "what if" questions....
I can also second this. In february I lost my best friend, who had a terminal illness, although at the moment it was under control. He was very healthy at the time, but he got mugged and shot in the head.
There is absolulely nothing that can prepare you for the sudden loss of a loved one. I believe, in his case, he wouldve preferred dying if not from the disease, at the very least older (he was 22). To this day, there is no answer to our questions. Just a neverending numbing feeling.
In my mind, i had been preparing and accepting the fact that someday, he would probably die and I'd have to deal with it... but to lose him like that. Its very tough.
I'm so sorry about this death. A big taru hug to everyone who's mourning.