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#102 Jan 17 2009 at 11:19 PM Rating: Good
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This thread got pretty gay just now, with all the girl on mangirl hugs, and the dick measuring contest that Kavekk sparked, it's getting kinda uncomfortably gay in here.



But now that you're here you got it straightened out.


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#103 Jan 17 2009 at 11:35 PM Rating: Good
You know me, always heteroing up threads.
#104 Jan 18 2009 at 1:04 AM Rating: Good
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NixNot wrote:
This thread got pretty gay just now, with all the girl on mangirl hugs, and the dick measuring contest that Kavekk sparked, it's getting kinda uncomfortably gay in here.


Are you calling me a mangirl? THAT might make me cry, Nixy.
#105 Jan 18 2009 at 3:15 AM Rating: Excellent
No GB, he is calling Tailmon a mangirl.

Also, different circumstances etc etc you shouldn't generalise based on just what you have seen.
#106 Jan 18 2009 at 11:27 AM Rating: Good
The lady down the road got nobbled the other day for fraudulently claiming benefits. She was claiming as living alone with her 5 year old son, but in reality her husband ( a well paid security guard, who recently got sacked for nicking booze from work and flogging it on ) was living there, HE was paying the rent, and her 22 year old son was also living there contributing to the bills .

Not only that, she was cleaming disability --- for alcoholism. Apparently, it's an illness, and they give you money to actually GET booze so you don't get the shakes .

She's in big doo-doo now, and she's spent the last few days banging on doors, wanting to know who snitched up her hubby for nicking from work, and who snitched her for benefit fraud . Funnily enough, was my ex who did her husband for nicking from work, and he got a nice 10k out of it.
#107 Jan 18 2009 at 11:36 AM Rating: Decent
Wait, you get ten thousand pounds to dob one guy in? What the flux?
#108 Jan 18 2009 at 11:37 AM Rating: Decent
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Kavekk wrote:
Wait, you get ten thousand pounds to dob one guy in? What the flux?


A guy got 10,000 to do another guy. Kinda makes you wanna turn gay, huh?
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#109 Jan 18 2009 at 12:26 PM Rating: Excellent
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You guys need to worry a whole lot more about the CEOs of failing industries drawing 14 million dollar bonuses than about the lives of TANF recipients. Btw, welfare, in general, as a federal program only last 24 months--that happened in 90s when Clinton did welfare reform.

Also, eliminating welfare will keep couples in abusive relationships together. I see women afraid to leave their physically abusive husbands because their only option is a shelter. Alot of shelters aren't safe and really not good for kids--some are though.


If you really want to resolve issues around welfare, one big thing would be to promote universal healthcare for the working poor and affordable childcare. Being self-righteous doesn't make for good social policy.

Edited, Jan 18th 2009 3:33pm by Annabella
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#110 Jan 18 2009 at 12:30 PM Rating: Decent
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Baron von Annabella wrote:
You guys need to worry a whole lot more about the CEOs of failing industries drawing 14 million dollar bonuses than about the lives of TANF recipients


How about both?

Two completely different things.
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#111 Jan 18 2009 at 12:36 PM Rating: Excellent
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TirithRR wrote:
Baron von Annabella wrote:
You guys need to worry a whole lot more about the CEOs of failing industries drawing 14 million dollar bonuses than about the lives of TANF recipients


How about both?

Two completely different things.


People complain about feeling cheated or their being a drain on the economy. The problem isn't the poor, it's the rich who are ******* the middle class over. It's all connected. It's easy to act as if welfare recipients are the real evil, especially with all the mythos surrounding welfare queens. I grew up in low income housing and have been involved in activism around poverty and government funding as well as having done graduate work in social policy. It's alot more complex than it is generally portrayed and at the end of the day, I sure as don't give a **** if a welfare recipient has a blackberry. I care if Joe ******* CEO has a golden parachute while all the employees lose their pensions. If we keep focusing on feeling cheated by the poor, we miss out on looking at the big picture.
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#112 Jan 18 2009 at 12:49 PM Rating: Excellent
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The Great BrownDuck wrote:
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I don't understand why people like to pretend so many of those on welfare are abusing it.


It's not pretend. Try living in a welfare neighborhood for one year, see how you come out feeling about it.


And it's this mentality. I get tired of when I don't hate and resent people on welfare there is this type of accusation. I agree with Allegory and I lived in a welfare neighborhood for 17 years and I worked hard and got a full scholarship to college. Part of the reason I went into social work is trying to give back on some symbolic level to my neighborhood.
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#113 Jan 18 2009 at 12:57 PM Rating: Decent
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Baron von Annabella wrote:
The Great BrownDuck wrote:
Allegory wrote:
I don't understand why people like to pretend so many of those on welfare are abusing it.


It's not pretend. Try living in a welfare neighborhood for one year, see how you come out feeling about it.


And it's this mentality. I get tired of when I don't hate and resent people on welfare there is this type of accusation. I agree with Allegory and I lived in a welfare neighborhood for 17 years and I worked hard and got a full scholarship to college. Part of the reason I went into social work is trying to give back on some symbolic level to my neighborhood.


It's hard to get rid of 15 years of seeing lazy people milk the system. I think it did get better after 1996 or so, when ever it was Clinton did his thing.

But my mother's cousin had been on Welfare her whole life, her parents were, and if the recent change hadn't done anything, her children would have been too. There was no reason for her to try and get a job (boy was she pissed when they finally gave her the boot though.)
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#114 Jan 18 2009 at 12:57 PM Rating: Default
I think for those who really need it there are 5 that are already on it that are abusing it. When did cell phones become a necessity? When did internet, hair dye or text messaging? I grew up without a phone, I turned out just fine.
#115 Jan 18 2009 at 12:58 PM Rating: Good
Anna, people can argue and complain about a whole lot of subjects and still agree that SELFISH ******* CEOS are Teh Axis of Evil. Because they are. Smiley: nod
#116 Jan 18 2009 at 1:03 PM Rating: Excellent
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TirithRR wrote:
Baron von Annabella wrote:
The Great BrownDuck wrote:
Allegory wrote:
I don't understand why people like to pretend so many of those on welfare are abusing it.


It's not pretend. Try living in a welfare neighborhood for one year, see how you come out feeling about it.


And it's this mentality. I get tired of when I don't hate and resent people on welfare there is this type of accusation. I agree with Allegory and I lived in a welfare neighborhood for 17 years and I worked hard and got a full scholarship to college. Part of the reason I went into social work is trying to give back on some symbolic level to my neighborhood.


It's hard to get rid of 15 years of seeing lazy people milk the system. I think it did get better after 1996 or so, when ever it was Clinton did his thing.

But my mother's cousin had been on Welfare her whole life, her parents were, and if the recent change hadn't done anything, her children would have been too. There was no reason for her to try and get a job (boy was she pissed when they finally gave her the boot though.)


I saw the same **** that you guys did my entire childhood. I still have members of my immediate family on government aid. I really think that the problem-- in general-- is that we're so programmed to blame and resent the poor for all the problems that this kind of negative view of them is widespread. It's socially regressive though--because by making being poor a moral failing, we have failed to focus on the problems of the increased stratification of wealth in this country and the realities is that nationally, our real money income has fallen for over 40 years. We don't as a country collectively look at how international corporations and the greed of the wealthiest 1%, who for the first time since the 19th century, own the vast majority of the wealth in the country. We are too distracted about demonizing the poor or being pissed off at unions or whatever.

This type of **** gets in the way of any real broad coalitions that would focus on addressing the problems of poverty. As the economy gets worse, the problems of the current economy is going to be increasingly everyone's issue.
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#117 Jan 18 2009 at 1:05 PM Rating: Excellent
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How about both?

Two completely different things.


Because of the scale. One problem costs <.3% of our resources, and the other costs significantly more.
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#118 Jan 18 2009 at 1:07 PM Rating: Excellent
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Baron von Annabella wrote:
The Great BrownDuck wrote:
Allegory wrote:
I don't understand why people like to pretend so many of those on welfare are abusing it.


It's not pretend. Try living in a welfare neighborhood for one year, see how you come out feeling about it.


And it's this mentality. I get tired of when I don't hate and resent people on welfare there is this type of accusation. I agree with Allegory and I lived in a welfare neighborhood for 17 years and I worked hard and got a full scholarship to college. Part of the reason I went into social work is trying to give back on some symbolic level to my neighborhood.


Annabella,

Its a little different in England. I am from a working class family and in the area I grew up there were people who's entire aim in life was to live off the state. They would become pregnant to gain a council flat and fleece the state for every penny, wasting it on goods and services they did not need that gained them nothing of value in life.

There is also a known issue with people being trapped in a poverty trap. Once in it, it is hard to leave. There are known case studies where single parents (mainly mothers) have been trapped in the situation of being better off being on income support than working. By not working and living on the state, council tax and other bills are covered. The moment they start work, that means trying to pay bills and childcare on minimum wage with more additional bills! Insanity! There is no motivation to even try to return to work unless you earn a particular salary and that is not always possible.

So there are two issues. One is the sub culture of those who have only known living off the state. The other are those who are unfortunate enough to find themselves in the position of having to live off the state as they gain too little support to return to full time work.

My perspective is that for those that wish to work, we should give financial aid to make work PAY and not penalise them in suddenly asking for all tax bills to be paid. Someone not claiming benefit and working in a part time job is better for their long term employability and also for the state (even if they do not pay some taxes). I have so much time and gladly pay my taxes for people who try to work.

Benefits do not stop in England. We have too many people now on "disability" benefit when the real disability is just being unwilling to work. The problem with "disability" is that once on that kind of benefit an employer will be loathe to employ you.

I have no time for those who do never seek to work who could work. They should not be entitled to my tax pounds Smiley: disappointed

I know you probably think I am very right wing and a Thatcher child but I am actually a socialist at heart. I just do not beleive that people should be allowed to abuse a safety net put there for people in need, not those who are workshy. The more people abusing those benefits will mean less money available for those who truly need it Smiley: frown
#119 Jan 18 2009 at 1:10 PM Rating: Good
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It's socially regressive though--because by making being poor a moral failing, we have failed to focus on the problems of the increased stratification of wealth in this country and the realities is that nationally, our real money income has fallen for over 40 years.


Good luck getting anyone to believe that. I cited accurate statistics at Shado "I hate unions" men and no one seemed to believe me. Most people on Alla, and I extrapolate that it's the same for most middle class Americans, are too blinded by the advance of technology and their hatred of the poor to see they're being scammed.

Edited, Jan 18th 2009 4:15pm by Kavekk
#120 Jan 18 2009 at 1:12 PM Rating: Good
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I dont know how it works in the US but, do you have programs for those on welfare to: offer formation and education to get a good job; help people seek a job that fits them with compatibility tests; constant check ups on beneficiaries to make sure they are actively participating in getting that job; etc.?
New tools and help are always better than just handing people a check. Teach a man to fish and all that.
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I dont know how it works in the US but, do you have programs for those on welfare to: offer formation and education to get a good job; help people seek a job that fits them with compatibility tests; constant check ups on beneficiaries to make sure they are actively participating in getting that job; etc.?
New tools and help are always better than just handing people a check. Teach a man to fish and all that.
Also, allow them to go back to work and still receive benefits. Here, you can go back to work and social services take up 70% of what you earn off of the cheque they give you, allowing you to earn 30% more to try and get off of support altogether.
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#122 Jan 18 2009 at 1:20 PM Rating: Decent
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My perspective is that for those that wish to work, we should give financial aid to make work PAY and not penalise them in suddenly asking for all tax bills to be paid. Someone not claiming benefit and working in a part time job is better for their long term employability and also for the state (even if they do not pay some taxes). I have so much time and gladly pay my taxes for people who try to work.


Certainly, it should never be worse to work than not to. I think that, in general, taxation and such needs to be more of a smooth transition than a series of harsh drops.
#123 Jan 18 2009 at 1:22 PM Rating: Good
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How is childcare in the US? Can you get it for cheap if you are in the low salary brackets? Also, healthcare..
#124 Jan 18 2009 at 1:24 PM Rating: Decent
Here, all benefits (except disability) are bound to making an effort to improve one's situation. That usually means that you need to apply to jobs/schools -- it is of course easy to just turn up to job interviews drunk and such ***** -- and if you don't find anything, you'll end up with a "€1.50 job" in addition to your benefits, and those jobs usually suck.

Anyhow, if you don't make some sort of effort, benefits get cut (usually by 30% each time). That does of course only lead to getting money under the table or whatever in turn.

I think this system is good. If you make things harder for the leeches, they will also get harder for the people who honestly want to start working again. Maybe the job centres/welfare offices should employ precogs. Smiley: sly


On a side note, I'm currently sort of glad that my benefits are too low to live off them, period. Talk about the kick in the a$$ I needed.
#125 Jan 18 2009 at 1:25 PM Rating: Good
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I mean, I guess If you divided your time whining/doing something about the problems proportional to the damage those problems cause, that would be ideal.

But the chance of that happening is roughly equivalent to the chance Smash's hilarious NL poker strategy couldn't boast a higher ROI than Madoff's listed gains, and it exploits the same weakness.
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#126 Jan 18 2009 at 1:33 PM Rating: Decent
It's also telling to compare the US Republicans and conservative parties* over here (which are really just Labour/Social Democrats in a different colour).
Just sayin'.
*Granted, the German Republicans are farther right than their American counterpart, but no one ever votes for them.
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