Intimacy (Gay Thread, sorta)Follow

So do you kiss? Or is that to 'personal' for you? The reason I ask...

I was at my friends this week for halloween/wiccan sabbath...and Friday I had some time so I went to Christophers (the BF). We of course did the usual grunting marathon...but for the second time now he refuses to let me press my lips on his even just for a moment. He says that its too intimate for him and he doesnt like to do that until he's more comfortable with someone, basically someone he's been dating for awhile (to be fair, its only been a few weeks).

So is this common? Maybe every guy I've dated has just been whorish...because kissing has always been the way it all starts. How can kissing be more intimate then 2 bodies naked and tangled up with each other?

Kissing is an expression of feelings and desire, and is rarely a requirement for sexual stimulation and/or climax. Sex is just a physical action/reaction. Plain and simple. Gay or not.

Edited, Nov 3rd 2007 8:47pm by StubsOnAsura

Listerine helps alot...

Yes I do think about that...but I've tried to kiss him before we even get naked.



Yes and I understand that well...but its not like I'm asking him to play tonsil hockey...just lips mooshing together for 1 second, to see. I myself hold big stock in kissing (not that if he's a bad kisser I'll dump him). I just find it funny that you can ***** for 4 hours and not kiss once in that time.

Edited, Nov 3rd 2007 8:53pm by Dyadem

I like that movie too...the only problem is I'm doing this pro-bono.

So, did I just turn into Flix by asking questions about relationships? I was so bored and excited to be home and finally posting at my own PC again that I just rambled off anything I could think of to make a new thread (and the OoT looked to be really dead...like so dead that my AIDs seems like a good thing).

After googling that word, I think in part you may be correct.

Edited, Nov 3rd 2007 9:09pm by Dyadem

All this talk about kissing and love is just silly. Everyone knows that t3h gheys have no souls and therefore cannot experience emotions. Duh.

I agree that kissing is often as much if not more intimate and sensual than intercourse, and that if I can feel a connection with someone I'm likely to spend hours kissing them. I can have sex without kissing, but not with someone I have any connection with; kissing is going to happen then. One of the things that makes us human is that we have evolved to the point where we can have intercourse face-to-face, rather than from behind like an animal. If you ask me, that's one of the reasons why humans are one of the more monogamous creatures on Earth, because we can make eye contact while making love. We can attach a conciousness to the thing we're having sex with, unlike a dog or a sheep, who act purely on instinct and could care less who or what has intercourse with them, so long as they are propogating their species. Humans have sex for so many other reasons.

Now I admit, I've not watched any gay ****. Well, not any with dudes, anyway. So I'm sort of uncertain whether or not men make love face-to-face ever, but I imagine that from a purely mechanical point of view it'd be easier stomach-to-back. I suppose that makes gays slightly less human, and in need of some further evolution.

Okay, that was just added in to be mean, but what I'm saying is, while kissing isn't always more intimate than intercourse, it is always intimate. You don't press your mouth against another human's without some feeling there. Well, unless you're one of those people who just kisses everyone, but once again you're not really human if you're doing that.

In summary, man, I love me some kissing. And sexing, too. And don't forget fUcking. Love to fUck. FUck fUck fUck. Ahhh yeah.

I thought Dyadem was a chick?? What the **** is this? The OoT is a haven for fudgepackers.

I think they are outnumbering the "breeders" as they call us.

That's pretty lame for you, BT. Lowering standards, are we?

I did say "but @#%^ing might not."

But feel free to poke your finger in my **** without kissing me .


Edited, Nov 4th 2007 10:42am by StubsOnAsura

Sorry, you're not my type.