Sometimes it's not meant to be.Follow

I grieve for the lost life of the child. And for your own loss.

Who can argue with this kind of thick headed logic?

Right! We should save it for the funeral.

Abbey, that was the name.

Also BT you weren't posting back then, or were you lurking. That was a year or two before you time.

The obvious answer here is to outlaw abortion and for women to send their unwanted children to Senjiow.

What the hell is so thick minded about it? Maybe if you open your mind instead of that fly-infested yaw you call a mouth you would understand.

Read this twice, then shutup and think about it.

Everything you do in life is a choice.

I'm so so sad for you two. I can't begin to feel what you two are going through.

But I'm really concerned that there seems to be a vital piece of sex-ed missing among some of the forum posters.

Natural conception and childbirth is actually such a chancey thing, (Although you can NEVER rely on it for birth control).

For instance, in a normal, healthy population of child-bearing-age women, on average 5 out of every 8 pregnancies naturally miscarry within the first 2 months. After the first 3 months, pregnancies have a much better chance of going to full term.

There used to be such a taboo against telling ANYONE you were pregnant, until you were a minimum of 3 months along, for just this reason. It was also known you had to guard against getting attached to the pregnancy until the first 3 months were up.

I've been feeling pretty sick with apprehension whenever a poster gets on and celebrates a positive pregnancy test, and tells us that the pregnancy is less than 2 months old. It's happened a few times this year, and I never know whether to rain on their parade with this statistic, or just keep my mouth shut and pray hard that they are going to be lucky with the odds.


I'm really sorry, Senjiow, you probably really didn't want to hear any of this right now. And you might not be the proud father-to-be that announced your new pregnancy recently, that I'm thinking of.

Ugh, just because someone doesn't have the same views as you doesn't make them a fanatic. I was abstinent for the better part of 18 years, and it was my choice. I have plenty of chances in junior high and high school to get my freak on, but I chose not to. Why the hell does being over 18 exclude you from the same thing? I have a few friends who are in their mid 20s and they are virgins as well. They are not fat or ugly, they are just waiting.

If you think that burying the bone is the only way to show someone you love them, you are going to be a very lonely person or have a lot of shallow relationships.

So because you and your friends don't feel that consumating a relationship by making love is a good thing to do, the rest of us that do find lovemaking to be one of the greatest bonding experiences are lonely persons? Random sex, and making love to the person you are in love with are two different things. Besides, you have yet to answer to the possibility of rape, failed contraceptives and just stupid mistakes on the part of young people who just failed to realise the possible consequences of their actions.

Should all of the above be punished by emotionally and social backwards people like you? Take a good look at today's society, and ask yourself if removing abortions as a possibility for all those people is a good thing. If you still claim that people who have abortions are scum, then you really shouldn't be breeding yourself. I have no patience with people that can't see shades of grey in today's world.

A post announcing a stillbirth ends up a debate on abortion.

Good Good

Does this mean we can start cracking jokes about them having a party after the D&C?

It's not being narrow minded, it's being aware of the consequences of their choices.

edit:actions sounded dumb.

Edited, Oct 19th 2007 10:04am by Senjiow