I am depressedFollow

I skimmed a lot of this but I did see a couple of replies that made sense.

Women are not your problem. Women are not the reason you are depressed. The reason is you.

A lot of this is because of your age. I'm sorry, but at 15 everything is a crisis. You'll eventually grow out of that. However, you have to do something about YOU.

You should be focusing on yourself and what makes you happy, and things that you like to do and/or are good at. No one else can make you happy, except temporarily. If you don't like you, no one else will either.

Then, eventually, girls will see you for what you are and it will all work out.

Oh, and as for the whole drug thing, I've seen what being on meds can do to a person. Unless you want to be a zombie, don't go that way but you really should see your doctor and be thoroughly evaluated. Eventually, depending on what diagnosis they give you, if any, the treatment you seek is really up to you, as long as there are options. You don't have to take the drugs just because they tell you to.

Edited, Oct 19th 2007 2:19pm by KassandrahKnight

I try to make sure I tell my husband I love him almost every time we're on the phone. As pathetic as it sounds, I always worry, "What if this is the last time I talk to him!?"

Losing someone unexpectedly will do that to you. And I never tell a guy I'm dating that I love him, even as a joke, unless I mean it.

As a joke, I mean when you say something teasingly to someone and they act all offended and you say, "Aww, I still love you," or something. I didn't mean like, when they are all serious and say "I love you," so I joke around and say all sarcastically, "Yeah, I love you, too. "

Maybe I'm just ruined on it due to having two fanatical girlfriends. One of them is the one you and I talked about. They both would freak right the fUck out if didn't say it multiple times a day.. and there was hell to pay if I ended a phone conversation without saying it.

It made saying it a chore as opposed to a reminder of the feelings we shared.

That just sounds so sad and fatalistic :(

Nifty.

I don't mind saying in front of anyone though. PDA's A-OK in my book.

Well you guys are probably saying it because you really really love each other, which is awesome. The girls I've dated that say it over and over and over and over have only done it out of insecurity.

I'll get past it eventually when I meet the right lady, I'm sure.

But, until then:

I'm 18, living on my own (well, in a flat with other people) and setting the kitchen on fire. You were reading the other guy's post.

I can't help but wonder if the new girl has said it to you, or vice versa, yet?

The first time my ex told me.. we were both in the process of "making love" for the first time. She locked her big watery eyes onto mine and said "I've fallen in love with you, Ryan." I broke down and started sobbing like an infant as I had never been able to really feel it when someone said it before.

I really hate that ***** sometimes.

You were in the middle of sex and you started crying?





So I assume the relationship was over after that then.

Pffft Belkira your husband is scared of telling you how he feels in front of his buddies?

wuss.

We've been best buddies for close to twenty years; saying "I love you" is old hat. It's weird, though, how the same words can mean something so different and yet the same.

Ohhh you mean the one that looked better when she was anorexic.


Seriously dude how do you have serious relationships with gingers and people with eating disorders?

I wanted to make sure that I wasn't just trying to replace him. Feelings suck.