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#1 Jun 11 2004 at 7:58 PM Rating: Good
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I don't get it. I just don't get it. Here I am, 28 years old, sitting here in the prime of my life on a Friday night like most every other night of my life dateless. For awhile it didn't bother me at all, now it's really starting to bother me.

It seems like everybody else in the world has no problem whatsoever getting a g/f. From the pretty boys to the geekiest of geeks, they all seem to have another half. I know it's not right or fair to compare yourself to others, but I can't help it.

I've always had this problem. I've only had like 1-2 girlfriends in my life, and they didn't last long. I'm shy and don't have the nerve to ask anybody out, and everbody I'm interested in seems to already have a b/f.

Is there anybody else out there who feels my pain?
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#2 Jun 11 2004 at 8:15 PM Rating: Good
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Let me relate personal experience here. I dated the same girl all through high school. As seems to be a universal plot, I got lots of nibbles from other girls while I was 'taken' but after we broke up, the dating scene looked like a barren freakin desert.

I told myself that I was much better than the guys most girls wer dating. I told myself all sorts of things, including the opposite of that statement. In short, I wnet through all sorts of self evaluation and wasted time. After about a year of this sort of crap, I realised the problem:

You must interact with women.

If you want to go out with a girl, then tell her so. If she already has a b/f then tell her that if she didn't you'd like to take her out. The very worst thing she can tell you is some version of 'No'. In short, you must express interest. And I don't mean by mooning from afar.

Nerve is not that hard to work up. All you have to do is look at the available options and their likely results. Then take the action that will most likely give you the result you desire.

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#3 Jun 11 2004 at 8:18 PM Rating: Decent
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I don't get it. I just don't get it.


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I'm shy and don't have the nerve to ask anybody out, and everbody I'm interested in seems to already have a b/f.


You've already discovered why you don't have a girlfriend. Here's what I did to defeat my own shyness year's ago. The secre is...

Confidence.

That's right. Confidence. You probably don't have much, certainly not where women are concerned. So what do you do?

Fake it. If you don't have any real confidence, just fake it. Pretend you have confidence. And not just when on the prowl for women, do it all the time. Pretty soon it will become second nature to you, and you won't be faking it anymore. You will actually have more confidence, and it will show. You'll have more success dealing with women (and everyone else actually) there after.

I know it sounds like a crock of **** but it worked for me, and its worked for a couple other people I've suggested it to.



#4 Jun 11 2004 at 9:36 PM Rating: Decent
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Fake it. If you don't have any real confidence, just fake it. Pretend you have confidence. And not just when on the prowl for women, do it all the time. Pretty soon it will become second nature to you, and you won't be faking it anymore. You will actually have more confidence, and it will show. You'll have more success dealing with women (and everyone else actually) there after.
The old "fake it 'til ya make it" technique. There's actually a lot of sense to the approach.

I've gone through times when I've felt really shy about meeting people. The people I met during those times never knew. I simply pretended I wasn't until it sank in "well hey, nothing is happening I can't handle when I put myself out there."
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#5 Jun 12 2004 at 12:41 PM Rating: Decent
or you could take the approach of a lot of people on this site and bury your head in an MMORPG and pretend the real world never existed, there are many out there and i for one am proud to be among their ranks.
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#6 Jun 12 2004 at 3:40 PM Rating: Decent
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Fake it. If you don't have any real confidence, just fake it. Pretend you have confidence. And not just when on the prowl for women, do it all the time. Pretty soon it will become second nature to you, and you won't be faking it anymore. You will actually have more confidence, and it will show. You'll have more success dealing with women (and everyone else actually) there after.


This works like a charm. Go with the mindset that you don't care what she thinks. It shows confidence. Find a few common grounds and your pretty much set. Also doing something nice for her that she won't expect really wins her over. Smiley: flowers
Sometimes you just gotta stop looking and wait for it to find you..it always happens when you least expect it.

Speaking from 4 years of experience with the same ball and chain heh. Smiley: smile
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#7 Jun 12 2004 at 8:27 PM Rating: Decent
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Fake it. I guess that's a solution. While we're at it, let's fake everything else. Let's buy everything on PLASTIC and bury ourselves in a mountain of debt. I have to deal with enough pretension at work. I sure as **** am not going to stoop to that level. I'd rather suffer.

It's no wonder there are so many divorces in our country with an attitude like that.
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Playing MMORPGs - there's another solution. Seems to work so far for me, but I'm getting sick of it.
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#8 Jun 12 2004 at 8:55 PM Rating: Good
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Are you looking for empathy or advice? If you just want people to say "Yeah, that sucks" then... yeah, that sucks. You should stop reading right now then because the rest of this post is advice.

If you want advice, what was said is good advice. Sitting in a room with a blanket over your head might let you take the moral high ground of "being true to yourself" but it's not going to help you find anyone. You need to go out and you need to meet people and you need to interact with them in a dating manner. That doesn't even mean going out and asking women "Will you be my girlfriend?" it just means you ask women out, get rejected sometimes, go on dates and find out the woman is a vapid idiot you never want to see again sometimes and eventually, God willing, find someone you enjoy being with and who enjoys being with you. But I can tell you that sitting around saying "I'm no good at asking women out" isn't going to help you find that someone.

It's not a question of being "fake", it's matter of self improvement. Terminal shyness isn't an asset. If you're not happy being alone due to your shyness, then you need to find a way to work past it and build your character so that shyness isn't an aspect of you that's holding you back from what you want.
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#9 Jun 13 2004 at 3:34 AM Rating: Decent
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I don't get it. I just don't get it. Here I am, 28 years old, sitting here in the prime of my life on a Friday night like most every other night of my life dateless. For awhile it didn't bother me at all, now it's really starting to bother me.


You are the reason they have internet porn, my fine feathered freind.

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It seems like everybody else in the world has no problem whatsoever getting a g/f. From the pretty boys to the geekiest of geeks, they all seem to have another half. I know it's not right or fair to compare yourself to others, but I can't help it.


So get one then.


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I've always had this problem. I've only had like 1-2 girlfriends in my life, and they didn't last long. I'm shy and don't have the nerve to ask anybody out, and everbody I'm interested in seems to already have a b/f.


Make it into an experiement in psychology for yourself. Ask out a woman day for a month. If they all say no come back and post that it was a stupid idea and that I ruined your life and I'll send you $100 US.

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Is there anybody else out there who feels my pain?


I imagine there's a lot of people who are too frightened to even TRY.

$100, I'm serious. You can do it. This is probably your last chance to date teenagers too, think of that!
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#10 Jun 14 2004 at 4:28 AM Rating: Decent
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At the same age as you I was the same way as you. I was a shy, little 25yr old who couldn't **** up the nerve to ask out a woman, even one who showed obvious interest in me.
So what did I do? I stopped over thinking it and went for it.
There are over 6.5 Billion people on the planet. More then half are women. Accounting for 18+ there's easily more then 1 billion female adults. How many have you asked out and been turned down by? Not nearly 1 Billion I'm sure. Go out and talk to women. If you sound "dorky, goofy or geeky" so what? You can't get embarressed unless you let yourself. And far too often you see a pretty woman and start thinking. That kills it right there. "oh she'd never go out with me." "oh I'll look like a dork asking her out." "oh she probably will say no and I'll feel like a loser." Just stop thinking about it and get out there and talk to women.

Or do what I'm doing and not worry about being with anyone, just busy working on myself. If it happens it happens, if not then more brownies for me. Not like any woman would dare try to come between me and my brownies. But I'm just saying. Ya know?
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#11 Jun 14 2004 at 6:35 AM Rating: Decent
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Fake it. I guess that's a solution. While we're at it, let's fake everything else. Let's buy everything on PLASTIC and bury ourselves in a mountain of debt. I have to deal with enough pretension at work. I sure as **** am not going to stoop to that level. I'd rather suffer.


Well, if that's what you want to do, that's fine with me. Happy ****

But one last note, you appeared to have missed the most important part.

Pretty soon it will become second nature to you, and you won't be faking it anymore. You will actually have more confidence, and it will show.


But if you just want to mope around, and stand off in the corner and hope some chick finds you brooding and complex, be my guest.






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Honestly its all a bunch of games for females. They love to play hard to get and wanna see if ou can stand up to their expectations and then some. Me and my current g/f played cat and mouse for 2 months till I was able to finally snag her. It takes confidence and knowing what to say at the right times.
#13 Jun 14 2004 at 8:59 AM Rating: Decent
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One way that helps people gain more confidence, is to approach and talk to girls your age, with no intention of asking them out. Decide in advance that you are talking, just to talk. Keep doing that, every chance you get. Keep it short at first. Ask about them. Ask their opinion about a move you saw. Do it with different girls. And don't ask them out! Build up confidence first. Then you will be comfortable starting up conversations. You'll have a collection of girls that you speak with in a comfortable manner.

It is typically easier to start with girls that are "safe". They already have a boyfriend, and you know it, and they know you know it. Then there's no pressure. You just get to talk, and they know you're not 'after' them.

Don't fake it, though. Communication and honesty are the prime requisites for a meaningful relationship.
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#14 Jun 14 2004 at 12:54 PM Rating: Decent
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You people really missed the point we were making, didn't you?
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#16 Jun 14 2004 at 1:40 PM Rating: Decent
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Ok pal, here's what you should do - grow a pair!

I mean that as nicely as possible. Seriously.


The thing is, we are men. It's our job primarily to be the aggressor. I know some women will come up to men, but for the most part, it's on us. Sucks, I know, but at least we don't have to give birth. :)

Women do find confidence attractive, it's built into them. So if you want to succeed with the majority of women, better get some confidence. Please, do not live your life in a dark bedroom playing a MMORPG. What a sad existence that would be.
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#17 Jun 14 2004 at 3:27 PM Rating: Decent
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You wanted advice right? ok here goes Grow a set and ask the very worst thing she could say is NO so F*@King what she said no ask some one else
and just so you know i was just like you when i was in my early 20's now haveing asked out the wrong woman lol (my ex-wife) i asked out the right one and we have been together for 9 1/2 years
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#18 Jun 14 2004 at 3:46 PM Rating: Decent
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You people really missed the point we were making, didn't you?


They did indeed. Several times.

I suspect therefore, that it is not a lack of confidence that is causing these problems so much as it is a lack of intelligence.
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I am forced to agree.

I hereby retract what I said in my first post and advise anyone (including the OP) who thinks some of us were suggesting the OP should be a phony to trick women into liking him to stop pursuing members of the opposite **** and make no further attempts to propegate your genes.

Thank you.

That is all.

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#20 Jun 14 2004 at 6:28 PM Rating: Good
Simple, take a holiday to the Philippines. When you get back, you will have all the confidence you will ever need, guaranteed.

p.s. Try not to get married while you are there.
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#21 Jun 14 2004 at 6:58 PM Rating: Decent
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Nothing for bolstering the ego like 11 year old prostitute boys, eh?
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#22 Jun 14 2004 at 7:04 PM Rating: Decent
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Dude, I feel your pain...

Here are a few learned behaviors that can help, seriously:

Learn how to dance. Learn to move on the dance floor. Find some hip-hop that you can stand and learn to feel the rythm. It will feel natural with practice and other white guys will be jealous of you.

Read some literature on empathic listening. Two open ears and a closed mouth are a woman's best friend.

Look in the mirror once each day and verbally refute your insecurities.

Be friendly and polite. Don't be too formal, though.

Good luck man, and let us know how things work out.
#23 Jun 14 2004 at 7:17 PM Rating: Good
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Nothing for bolstering the ego like 11 year old prostitute boys, eh?



I think you have me confused with someone else, and your racist attitudes toward Filipinos is very ugly.

To the OP... they have women there too, some of them are not even prostitutes, if you can believe that.

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#24 Jun 14 2004 at 7:36 PM Rating: Default
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Dude i knoqw how it goes, i made this name just to ask a few questions o a different post.

but any way, i am not vvery confident my self, but i got a girl now. sahe acctually asked me first. wow im such a looser, but its cool. i usually dont have a problem with talking to girls, its just asking them out and stuff. i get real nervous and afraid of rejection.


I woul djust say w8 untill some one asks you out. but your already 28 sooo i would(if i were you, and what io am proly gonna have to do) gain confidence in yer self. lower yer standards( i havent yet thank god)(and if you have any). and just go at it.

also that learn to dance thing is a good idea. but if you dont like teh r&b/hip hop(like me) go with the dance music(like dj stuff in rave clubs) that stuff is good imo. i am thinking about getting into Break dancing but i don thtink i am stong enough yet. that **** is bad ass.

Good luck man.
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#26 Jun 14 2004 at 9:02 PM Rating: Good
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Don't be nervous dude, its cool.

Just start hanging out at the same places as the ladies on want to hook up with. Get to know them at whatever rate you feel is necessary.
#27 Jun 14 2004 at 9:11 PM Rating: Decent
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D00d,

your best bet is total honesty. WHEN you do find a woman, don't fed her abunch of crap.... otherwise you'll be putting on a song and dance forever.

When you're with a girl be honest with her, about yourself that is, but flatter the **** out of her.

And if you do start talking to somone... just ask her if she wants to go have coffee or somthing... you don't need to **** about it.. because EVERYgirl knows by then that you want them, and the rest is pretty much a game you have to play to impress them... but if you even got that far, you're at least Close to being in....

also don't let a few failures get you down. Learn from them.
All women are different, it's pretty much a guessing game at first.. so don't be intimidated, EVERYONE goes through it.

don't believe the hype
it's Quality not quantity.

There's prolly a chick sitting at HER computer thinking the same thing as you.
but stuff usually happens when you least expected... so don't bother going crazy over it.

Waht is yours will find you.
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#28 Jun 15 2004 at 5:42 PM Rating: Decent
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what does bile mean?
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#29 Jun 15 2004 at 6:03 PM Rating: Decent
bile - the stuff that lines ur stomach and comes up after youve spewed the rest of the contents of said stomach
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#30 Jun 15 2004 at 6:54 PM Rating: Decent
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You've already discovered why you don't have a girlfriend. Here's what I did to defeat my own shyness year's ago. The secre is...

Confidence.


Yep, used to have that problem when I was younger, talking like 15 until 23-24. Last 4 years its been easy. I'm not saying be a big bullsh!ter but just come off like you are tha man without being ****
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#31 Jun 16 2004 at 12:02 AM Rating: Decent
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Relax. The more you worry about having a girlfriend, the more stress you cause yourself. You probably have better things to worry about anyway...
#32 Jun 16 2004 at 12:17 AM Rating: Decent
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your racist attitudes toward Filipinos is very ugly.

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#33 Jun 16 2004 at 12:52 PM Rating: Good
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Stop wearing your underwear on the outside. That did it for me.

BTW Does anyone else see the irony in starting a thread asking for dating advice on a messageboard with the heading "Allakhazam's Magical Realm Your Everquest Community"? Your just bound to get responses like this:

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i am thinking about getting into Break dancing but i don thtink i am stong enough yet. that **** is bad ass.

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#34 Jun 16 2004 at 12:57 PM Rating: Good
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Stop wearing your underwear on the outside. That did it for me.

BTW Does anyone else see the irony in starting a thread asking for dating advice on a messageboard with the heading "Allakhazam's Magical Realm Your Everquest Community"? Your just bound to get responses like this:

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i am thinking about getting into Break dancing but i don thtink i am stong enough yet. that **** is bad ass.


This reminds me of someone who posted something over at castersrealm forums. They don't have an OOT forum, or if they do this wasn't there. It was on the main Eq forum. Anyhow, it is this giant long post by this woman about how she was abducted by aliens and she has bizzare medical problems and she has trouble sleeping, etc.

Amazingly, no one totally flamed her about it, but several were curious about why, exactly, she was posting this here. She claimed that her psychologist suggested it, but you know it seems unlikely you would actually make the screen name, etc, and not notice it was saying things like "CastersRealm: Your Complete And Consise Everquest Resource" or whatever and mistakenly think this is a place you go to discuss your psychological problems...well...

One reply, which will live in infamy, suggested since she had already found the forum and couldnt sleep at night anyhow, she might just as well take up Everquest.

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http://forums.crgaming.com/eqbb/viewtopic.php?t=90528&start=0&postdays=0&postorder=asc&highlight=abducted%20aliens
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#36 Jun 16 2004 at 8:27 PM Rating: Decent
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wow lol
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#37 Jun 16 2004 at 8:58 PM Rating: Decent
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seriously wow... i just read part of tyhat shyt... that stuff is crazy.
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#38 Jun 16 2004 at 9:55 PM Rating: Decent
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You need some bar hoochies, yeah!!! Just remember to split before they wake.
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I believe that post was bogus.
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Americans, even scientists, don't use the metric system to describe distances. She'd have put feet not meters.
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Your posts bring forth much bile.


I fell out of my chair laughing at this. So funny, sad, and true.
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#41 Jun 17 2004 at 12:13 PM Rating: Decent
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Happy to say that I don't feel your pain for I am of the female race and it is so much easier for us, but I do understand it. A 28 year old vey shy male friend of mine is having the same problem. I'm about to start him on his own steps to dating program!! Confidence is a big thing just like everyone else has said, being yourself and having a sense of humor ranks up there to. You have to relax and have fun whether with a girl or friends because other women will see that and like it.
Being shy is a major disadvantage but if you don't talk to women you'll never go out with them. Practice--talk to women without any intention of asking them out, say anything whether it's stupid or not, just get used to talking to women you don't know. Pretend to do a survey or something, anything, you'll get a lot more comfortable talking to them and that will portray confidence. I for one don't really find men attractive until I talk to them and find out a bit about who they are. And attraction is a big thing so present yourself in the best way possible physically--doesn't mean expensive clothes or surgery here--just clothes that fit, look great on you, are clean and not wrinkled!!, a flattering haircut, the right shape of eyeglasses, yada yada yada...
Don't look for people who feel you're pain, look for people who can help you out--misery will attract misery and who wants that?
Improve yourself, don't change yourself. Let those girls know who you are and what you offer and you won't have a problem.
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Are these like Amazons or something? Never met anyone of the female race.....but then I'm from the South. Weuns don't have much culture unless yall count that stuff they scraped of my cousin Earl's tooth bout 6 month ago.
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Thanks for all the replies. Yes, I have struck up convos with gals, and some of them seem easier to approach and speak with than others. Weird chemistry thing, I guess. Guessing games and salesmenship aren't my forte. Only honesty. Sounds like most of you are talking like players on here. I don't need advice from players.

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Finally someone who seems to know what they're talking about. Lies chase lies, and i don't have the memory for all that.
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Dude, I feel your pain...

Here are a few learned behaviors that can help, seriously:

Learn how to dance. Learn to move on the dance floor. Find some hip-hop that you can stand and learn to feel the rythm. It will feel natural with practice and other white guys will be jealous of you.


Oh yea, Electronic/Techno/Breakbeat/D&B/Goa/Trance/Big Beat/Digital Hardcore/Trip-Hop/Progressive House is music i love. I bet I've heard and know more of it than you. Going to clubz is cool if you're down with it, but it all seems so put on and fake to me. Besides, I'm too old for that stuff.

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Be friendly and polite. Don't be too formal, though.

Good advice. I'll give it a shot.

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Good luck man, and let us know how things work out.

Thx. I think I'll need it.

Still, it seems pathetic to be lacking in confidence @ age 28... Sigh... Then again, I think anybody willing to admit their insecurities to others has more courage than those who don't... Maybe the lack of confidence is all fake.

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And attraction is a big thing so present yourself in the best way possible physically--doesn't mean expensive clothes or surgery here--just clothes that fit, look great on you, are clean and not wrinkled!!, a flattering haircut, the right shape of eyeglasses, yada yada yada...


That goes right up to the points mentioned above. When you play it that way, you will only attract vapid, shallow women who will date you once and never call you again. I bet you're one of those women, aren't you?

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Don't look for people who feel you're pain, look for people who can help you out--misery will attract misery and who wants that?
Improve yourself, don't change yourself. Let those girls know who you are and what you offer and you won't have a problem.


Wrong. The only person who can help you out is YOU. I'll take true, geniune misery over a false sense of optimism any day.

Remember, even Hitler had a girlfriend.



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#44 Jun 17 2004 at 4:06 PM Rating: Good
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...Remember, even Hitler had a girlfriend...

Women (as a group - not ALL of them, of course) are attracted by power - it's a biological thing.

But they are also attracted to confidence, honesty, and sincerity. And yes, faking confidence does indeed lead to actually becoming confident. Odd, but true.

But now's here's a little info no one's mentioned yet...
In their teens and early to mid-20's, women tend to be attracted to dynamic, exciting, "guys-on-the-edge." If they haven't settled down by their late 20's, they start to mature (much like we do, actually) and start looking for men with qualities they can live with for many years. This is where honesty and sincerity come in. Please note, also - they are looking for MEN, not boys. A man with boyish qualities, perhaps, but NOT a boy in a man's body (which is frequently what the guys they were attracted to are).

Oh, and temper the honesty initially - don't scare them by "being honest" and telling them ALL your faults...

You've got some excellent advice in this thread - become a man - step up and step out. Here's my phrase I repeat prior to taking a big step "Ain't nothin' to it but to do it!"

Another good one - "Carpe Diem!" Trite, perhaps, but it gets you into the mindset you need to take the bull by the horns!
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Hmmm I'm almost out of 7'th geting into 8'th... well I'm not one of those "geeks" but not one the "cool" kids. I'm not stupid tho I act like one. I'm not god awfull looking got a few pimples but not big and showering everyday and all... well IMO I guess if you (Don't laugh) what will you want. Ok think pretend litteraly you're dating a girl. Now will you like the girl to pretend to act cute and "cool" ever since she got you? Will you like it after you get asked to a date only to see her doing something by herself and her friends? Do you want her to after a couple weeks or months and you've told her that she'll take you or something or someplace you don't like? IMO think about what you wouldn't like from a girl friend change it a bit so it's a little more **** to a girl or wspeficly to your girl friend's opinion. Now think where do you find one? Of course you can try the interent but you should first think where can you meat a girl that you'll like in both apperance and personality. First step is to slowly be a romantic friend because if you first become normal friends (Althrough I'm not sure go say GTHAFM kid) you might have less of a chance of becoming a romantic couple. Now lets see she wants to know that you care for her of course. You're not supose to make her or make her think or assume that you're using her. To show affection of intrest after you guys are in love is to invite each other constantly. Quickly move on before any one else gets on her and tries to steal you or before something bad happens. Now remember if you're serious by now you should be don't wait so long and propose after your best time. Don't think of some romantic hollywood thing unless you're good at making one. Don't think you're old most get and it's a good time to get married at age 28-32 IMO. Just keep smiling and make her feel that her life is good with you I mean she wouoldn't marry you just because you had some romantic nights and days make it everysecond from se x (OOOOO I said oooo big deal) to a simple talking or sitting so it makes her feel that you do care, you do love her, that lifes going to be good with you... this is from a 13 year American born Japanese parents 7'th grade kid. Take my advice or not it's your choice bye.
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No clue tricky, didn't take the time to read it.

I'm tired of my eyeballs bleeding when I try to read **** wrote like that.

As I said in a previous post, anyone posting in that manner gets a GFY, and is labled a retard.

#50 Jun 17 2004 at 7:11 PM Rating: Good
Please hit the return key sometimes, that is almost impossible to read.

Do you think the 28 year old OP will read past the first sentence of that crap? I did, but that was becasue it took me until your last sentence, to make any sense out of anything you said in there.

By the way, in grade 7 you don't know **** You haven't even hit the bar scene yet, and the OP is already out the other side.

Actually, most 28ish year old single girls/women, will be feeling their clock ticking pretty hard, and will really be doing some determined searching for the future father of their children. All of their friends should be settling down, having babies, and that should drive them straight into your arms, bit like a stampede. It shouldn't be too hard to cash in here.
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I believe that post was bogus.
1. Simple fact sticks out.
She's from Denver, Co, USA and says
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The room was small; perhaps 4m x 4m x 3m

Americans, even scientists, don't use the metric system to describe distances. She'd have put feet not meters.


Well, yes, it is stunningly unlikely. Personally I thought the whole aliens thing less convincing then the fact she put the room size in meters, but that is just me.

The reason I posted it is because just that one reply from the one person who says "well since you found this forum already you might as well just start playing Eq" I personally find so funny I just had to share it.

Perhaps this is because my sense of humor has not matured since I was twelve. Alas.
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