I think you should pretend you're a woman who's being divorced and post about it on a message board when you're bored.
To make a long story short, I don't take any responsibility for anything I post here. It's not news, it's not truth, it's not serious. It's parody. It's satire. It's bitter. It's angsty. Your mother's a whore. You like to jack off dogs. That's right, you heard me. You like to grab that dog by the bone and rub it like a ski pole. Your dad? Gay. Your priest? Straight. @#%^ off and let me post. It's not true, it's all in good fun. Now go away.
I am sorry to hear that Abbay, and I wish you and your husband the best of luck in these hard times. Unfortunately, this may not be the proper place to seek advice on this particular topic. Idealy, the two of you should seek objective counseling. In the mean time I will pray that the two of you will have the strength and wisdom to keep each other's dignity intact.