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#1 May 03 2004 at 4:50 PM Rating: Decent

I don't know what to do fellas.

It's been 5 1/2 wonderul years. I'm so attched to her still, although I know she doesn't love me. I've changed so much for her I don't know who I am anymore. I still want to be friends with her, but I always feel when she does talk to me ,it feels like we'll be ok, like any other fight. But now I'm starting to realize that we may never become whole again. How long is it going to hurt, and what have some of you done in the past to get over it?

I just put so much into this.
#2 May 03 2004 at 4:54 PM Rating: Good
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My advice: drink.

A lot.

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Edit: It must be Monday, I can't spell

Edited, Mon May 3 17:55:18 2004 by TwiztidSamurai
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#4 May 03 2004 at 4:58 PM Rating: Decent
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Be a man for the love of God. Have some self esteem. Best way to get through this is to **** everything that you can that's not laden with disease for about two years.
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#5 May 03 2004 at 5:00 PM Rating: Decent
heh, she was my first true love.
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heh, she was my first true love.

No, more likely just the first one who didn't press charges.

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#7 May 03 2004 at 5:07 PM Rating: Good
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No, more likely just the first one who didn't press charges.

Yeah, they try to fool you with things like "criminal charges" or a "restraining order", but girls love attention. Some might call it "stalking", but nuts to them.

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#8 May 03 2004 at 5:11 PM Rating: Good
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Gadin, my best friend hooked up with one of my dorm friends back when we were freshman and they were together for about the same amount of time as you. They survived 2 years on just ICQ and holiday visits and seemed perfect for each other. Then suddenly it just didn't fit anymore and it was pretty shocking because they'd made a lot of life changes and stuff just to be together. All I can say is that the pain will go away and leave you with experience; you just have to get through the hard part a day at a time.
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#9 May 03 2004 at 5:15 PM Rating: Decent
She's really leaving me for a chance to hook up with a guy she met in EQOA, but I'll be the first to leave!

Here's the thread I wrote to him on the other boards:

http://eqoaforums.station.sony.com/eqoa/board/message?board.id=diren&message.id=8263

The guy is a real snake, and I pointed it out months ago to her that he's trying to weasel his way in our house. First it was the late nite tells. Then came the swapping of cell phone numbers (while I was at work).
#10 May 03 2004 at 5:17 PM Rating: Decent
thank you Pikko :)
#11 May 03 2004 at 5:17 PM Rating: Good
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She's really leaving me for a chance to hook up with a guy she met in EQOA

Oh my...how sad. That's all I can say...
#12 May 03 2004 at 5:18 PM Rating: Decent
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Why would you want to stay with a women who leaves you for someone she met playing a video game?

Time to look beyond the trailer park for future potential mates.
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That better make you get over her faster. :P
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#14 May 03 2004 at 6:01 PM Rating: Good
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Why would you want to stay with a women who leaves you for someone she met playing a video game?

Time to look beyond the trailer park for future potential mates.


now that is GOOD ADVICE!
#15 May 03 2004 at 9:48 PM Rating: Decent
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You know, if it's any consolation, the guy is probably fat and lives in his parent's basement.
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I think that'd probably make him feel worse.
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#17 May 03 2004 at 10:15 PM Rating: Decent
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Hmmm....Good point. Oh well.
#18 May 04 2004 at 12:52 AM Rating: Good
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This is my first trip to the new watered down OOT.

My advice would be that you should think about barrowing a pair of ********* and giving her the axe Asap.

Over the years, reading this forum has made me laugh, its made me mad, and it has made me contemplate. But never, has one single thread, with a mere 16 responses made me cringe as much as this one.

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#19 May 04 2004 at 8:46 AM Rating: Decent
**** her, **** him and then go **** whoever you can ;)
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Email Bordael and get his account banned ;) hehehe
#22 May 04 2004 at 9:31 AM Rating: Good
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Knock her up. Then she'll have to stay with you!
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#23 May 04 2004 at 9:53 AM Rating: Good
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It'll be like three years before you quit comparing everyone, at least mentally, to her. The doubts that she's put in you will sadly pop up even longer, but that's not the point. The point is that someone has told you they don't want you, and wishing it wasn't so isn't going to make it any different. You can't be her friend, you can't "just talk." All you can do is gather up the tattered scraps of your dignity, let her do what she will without interference, ignore any requests for help on her part or any desires to discuss her new relationship and for crying out loud just focus on yourself for a while. Five years from now you'll be glad you didn't call, didn't beg, and just got up and left with some pride. Don't worry. Everything passes, and leaves you wiser and stronger. Life isn't for pussies.
#24 May 04 2004 at 10:29 AM Rating: Decent
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Here, here, Atomic. This to shall pass. Be strong, friend, and don't listen to the fools who tempt you to act foolishly.
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All you can do is gather up the tattered scraps of your dignity, let her do what she will without interference, ignore any requests for help on her part or any desires to discuss her new relationship and for crying out loud just focus on yourself for a while
We'll call that "Plan B".
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