DreamerGuy wrote:
No Milich, I was trying to do what the party wanted, they asked me to pull, beforehand, and I knew it was the new thing, so I tried it out and pulled to the best of my ability.
For some reason, in this party the WAR's were extra lazy and whiney. and I was competing with several other pullers. And they blamed me for everything... while all they were doing were being mostly AFK and pushing WS macros... "WHY RNT THERE MOAR MOBS FOR US TO EEET!?"
It made me go {No Thanks}. I felt like I was feeding EXP to people. "Here is your meal of EXP ungrateful children!"
This is an extream example, and I quite enjoy partys with a BRD who are able to pull and enjoy doing it. and indeed we get lots of EXP.
But, personally I wasn't having fun.
My old playstyle was very far from "leeching", in fact, I like doing more than whats expected of me.
Pulling... is just not something I enjoy... But its what BRD has become.
So I've moved onto other jobs like COR (who still ends up pulling sometimes...), RDM and SCH.
All I was shareing, is that the new "role" BRD evolved into, became something I didn't enjoy. BRDs are EXPECTED to power pull now. No room for alternate play styles. (which there are many beyond "leeching" and "Standing around in lv 1 gear playing the same 2 songs, if people would try to be a little more creative...).
no, refusing to help your party because you imagine that a 500 damage WS every fight is doing something is exactly "leeching". the main reason you got away with it was that people didn't yet realize that BRDs are obvious pullers (though BRD75s were already pulling in KRT with us MNKs of course).
i have no problem with the way you handled all this; if you don't like it, move on, don't get in everyone's face trumpeting the "i just want to have fun, sorry guys" playstyle. it looks to me that you don't understand why BRDs are made to pull now, but that doesn't matter.
in cooperative games, it is selfish to play the game wrong because "not being a cookie-cutter" is how you have fun. it's also foolish to continue to play a job badly because you refuse to accept its role when the game is ffxi and the whole point is that you can job change (which you obviously realized, and anyone who is an XPing, pickup party BRD and refuses to pull ought to realize).
believe me, it's not that i don't "think outside the box". i know what BRD DD can do (very little). i know how much time BRDs who don't pull spend standing around (sure, they can pretend to be important by taking out their weapon or throwing a cure1 and saving a mage MP they wouldn't have run out of anyway). i know how much DoT a DD like a THF or a RNG lose by pulling. any party with a single BRD who isn't pulling has a leech in it. this rubs some people the wrong way, but they're missing the whole point of cooperative gaming. they also know that a DD who "has fun" by not WSing or wearing any gear at all is a leech. hypocrisy is bad.