Discussing [RDM] on a RNG forum is getting tiresome.
Itemized list of why we are still on this subject:
-Your RDM first post, we actually let slide. I read and did not care about that one time you healed a MNK. Noodles made a minor, non flamatory aside about how the -Enmity on Allure might be overkill if you have a half decent cure set.
-In response, you stated that you had "good gear" to wear, whch turned out to include marginally beneficial Refresh and MND gear. You also state that there aren't that many other healer's atmas out there. MM, Harmony, Ambition, Full Moon, Rescuer, Apoc, Stormbird called, wanted to know wruuuuu.
-It is not until your fourth
response in the exchange that you clarify your atma situation as being limited. This is practically a bait and switch, the audience was made to assume you went with Allure for objective reasons, which is obviously a dubious prospect, as opposed to your subjective reasons, which are completely valid and everyone gets without your self righteous lecture on RL:FFXI balance
-Then you passive aggressively completed the bait and switch, hinting that I am irresponsible in how I handle my life because I joined enough shout groups to get Apoc. You then restate your scenario, explaining how when you cure a tank, you cure it. way2b.
As for your most recent attempt to justify your argument which we already understand and accept, no matter how circuitously and poorly presented it may have been:
How is it not obvious to you that we're discussing hypothetical situations, and not literally bashing you for not having apoc?
I thought this all started when I mentioned a real situation where I had to heal a MNK.
Yes. As someone that has tried to heal for NM fights with RDM, I know exactly of what you speek. I spent the whole time just casting Cure 4 over and over again and if it wasn't for Atma of Allure for major enm-, I would have been top of the hate list pretty quickly.
So it wasn't hypothetical. I was ranted on for using allure. An Atma with superior MND and superior -enm in a healing role.
This conversation left your mundane one-time scenario and became a discussion on proper healing atma/gear when you stated that Allure+Refresh/MND gear was one of the best healing atmas, without
clarifying that "one of the best" actually meant, "one of the best of my available atmas."