I want RDM to be a desired party job as well, but I want temper all for myself. I think there are much better ways to make RDM a desired party job.
Regardless, self-only melee spells like Temper are not the way to go about it, and it's pretty much the one entirely new capability that RDM has gotten in their post-75 spell repertoire (and it's only really "new" if you ignore the fact that they could have just given RDM innate Double Attack and accomplished the exact same thing) so it really stands out as a point of critique for me. Just about everything else is something that was either given away to other jobs later and/or those other jobs can already do better.
Edited, Mar 15th 2013 4:53am by Fynlar