**** i'm not even a COR (it's one of my few level 1 jobs), and i didn't have BRD75 until 09 if i recall (maybe the end of 08, i'm bad with memory). i've been seeking out BRDs, RDMs, and DDs to party since well before there was such a thing as COR, and i've long thought the "princess" term was simply the product of dumb, entitled idiots getting mad at BRDs for not accepting their blind invites.
i AM that guy who wants to play the DD job b/c he thinks his hot shot DD is going to carry the day. nonetheless, *i'm not a fucking idiot*, so i don't get mad at someone if they don't want to party with me. when i meet a BRD (or a DRK, or a RDM, or a PUP) who thinks they know more than me and that the PT setup i choose won't work, i don't think they're choosy princesses, i think they're ignorant noobs who could be getting 20k+ with me but will instead be waiting in their mog house for the next BG lurking noob to invite them to 4SAM 1RDM 1BRD.
you're a COR who doesn't want to pull? i've met some awesome COR pullers; better than most BRDs i've met, who contributed barely a dent into the DD parse but carried the party to infinite chain and great XP. does this suddenly mean that you're obligated to do that? am i the only sane person around such that i have to *explain* why no, you aren't obligated...? only play COR if you can DD and let someone else pull? fine with me. will you always have a spot in my parties? i don't know. who cares? "but PRINCESS COR/BRDs think they can tell ME what to do!" no they don't, ass. noobs think setups they don't understand won't work, and other people *have every right to simply not want to party with you*.
all that said, it sounded like the COR described in the OP was just a **** puller. if you get the mobs attention and won't bring it back to camp when it's necessary (though of course it isn't always), you've missed something pretty obvious and easy. eh.
and all that said, for just some straight honesty: when i meet someone who goes off about "princess" [jobs], all i think is "this guy is a fucking idiot". right or wrong, that's my impression. do you really want to be that dummy who parrots what some idiot **** about on alla? or do you want to learn about the game, have some fun, get some XP, etc etc?
nk i wish to be the red comet.