OK I am about at the end of my rope here. I understand that 1-75 unless you do EVERY party with ls members, you will be getting bad party members. However... 7 bad whms in a row is kind of rediculous. Honestly whm in parties, not too hard to do. Keep your tank/dds hasted, keep up with NA spells on the tanks FIRST, and for places like the mire... Bring 3 stacks of Echo drops just in case. I don't care if your bank is low, I don't care if you don't have much time to farm, I don't even care if your mom just died. A good whm should ALWAYS have at least a stack of echos on them at ALL TIMES.
When you are leveling, there are 3 things you should always watch, your hate level, your tanks hp, and your Melee's HP. You should not have to watch your own MP. Your puller should be watching that. But...don't think you should never tell your puller to hold up. Even the best pullers slip up sometimes.
Keep your tanks hasted (post 40) keep silence off of them. And by this, I mean that if your tank gets silenced, you need to have silence off of them **** near instantly.
If mp is an issue you can slack up on hastes for your melees, but god help you keep it on your tank.
NEVER do anything above a curaga 2, EVER while a mob is still alive. I don't care what Hp the mob is at, you will pull hate with a curaga 3 or 4.
Never cure 4 at the beginning of a fight. Its never fun pulling hate off a whm, and I am sure you do not like being taken down to 200ish hp in a zone full of undead either. So don't do it.
HAVE ALL OF YOUR SPELLS. Nothing is more annoying than pulling aggro and dying and asking for an r2 or 3 only to hear your whm say "its too expensive." You can slack up on some of your single target prot and shell spells FOR NOW, but make sure to get them before you head to endgame. Make sure you have ALL na spells. Some of them you will almost never need, but when you do, not having them WILL mean a wipe. (IE Stona, cursna)
Sorry for the rantish post, I am just tired of leveling another job and wishing I was the whm in the party cause the whm I have is seriously under informed.